This thread has officially become creepy.
Don't listen to any of us and just pretend this whole question thing never happened.
Seriously.
It needs to be repeated.
Plus, it's kinda sad since this thread has the GiantBomb meme....
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@Billy Batson: Is this what you're talking about?
l0l
There is no trick or easy fix. The only thing I can suggest is just speak up make sure your not withdrawn, be yourself and just try to be as confident as possible.
Just be a cool guy. Dress nice, do fun things, be yourself, focus on making friends. The women will come in time.
Just walk around and ignore all the babes that look at you and ask you out. That's what I did in high school.
Speaking as a guy who just finished studying how attraction works in his social psychology class.
Girls tend to be attracted to guys who 1.) pay attention to them 2.) have a sense of humor 3.) Have high confidence and 4.) power.
Physique doesn't even have to come into the equation depending on the girl. Just make yourself look presentable.
@life_without_progress: 5) money
@zachary327: money is a form of power. A girl wants a partner who could take care of her.
@life_without_progress: except feminists.
@zachary327: That word gets thrown around too often and not to the benefit of it's proper definition.
Most educated feminists chose partners who are independent enough to take care of themselves along with their partner, not man children.
@life_without_progress: Thats why I would rather not marry a feminist.
@zachary327: Trust me when I tell you this, you're probably not ready to be in a long term relationship when you can't fend for yourself even without a romantic partner.
Girls like guys who could stand up for themselves is the point I'm trying to make.
@life_without_progress: I am perfection, I dont need any more partners.
@life_without_progress: Nah, money is definitely up there.
@lan_fan: Like I said in my past posts, money is a form of power.
Just walk around and ignore all the babes that look at you and ask you out. That's what I did in high school.
As a guy who didn't have a girlfriend since birth. I can say that you don't have to be handsome or rich to be charismatic or get a girl.
Girls mostly like bad boys because they like confident and charismatic boys. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be something you're not.
As a guy who didn't have a girlfriend since birth. I can say that you don't have to be handsome or rich to be charismatic or get a girl.
Girls mostly like bad boys because they like confident and charismatic boys. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be something you're not.
I'd say charisma seems important.
As a guy who didn't have a girlfriend since birth. I can say that you don't have to be handsome or rich to be charismatic or get a girl.
Girls mostly like bad boys because they like confident and charismatic boys. Just be yourself and don't pretend to be something you're not.
I'd say charisma seems important.
Yep :)
Not sure why people have suddenly started answering 5 years later (I would be interested to hear how you got on @eternal19 ), but anyway:
Humour is important but I would actually advise not trying too hard to be funny if you're at school, at school it is very easy to get friendzoned if you're not very good looking and humour is the main culprit of putting people there.
People giving you 'tips' on how to act to make yourself desirable are naive, the sad truth of it is that the only way to get an attractive girlfriend is to be attractive. As far as getting them to notice you goes you've just got to socialise with the right people.
Not sure why people have suddenly started answering 5 years later (I would be interested to hear how you got on @eternal19 ), but anyway:
Humour is important but I would actually advise not trying too hard to be funny if you're at school, at school it is very easy to get friendzoned if you're not very good looking and humour is the main culprit of putting people there.
People giving you 'tips' on how to act to make yourself desirable are naive, the sad truth of it is that the only way to get an attractive girlfriend is to be attractive.As far as getting them to notice you goes you've just got to socialise with the right people.
Or punch in a locker door then rip it off it's hinges.
If you wanna get the babes you gotta show 'em you can wreck it like Ralph.
@major_hellstrom said:
5 years later, and I bet OP still has no GF
Lmao
Jokes aside. One of the main ways is to have money. Dating is expensive. The View, The Real, The Talk. Reality shows. Surveys. Social Experiments. A woman's standards. Pretty much tell you if you don't have money keep it moving. That's only for long term. Short term is for charisma and bar girls. Pick up artists can tell you this.
Jokes aside. One of the main ways is to have money. Dating is expensive. The View, The Real, The Talk. Reality shows. Surveys. Social Experiments. A woman's standards. Pretty much tell you if you don't have money keep it moving. That's only for long term. Short term is for charisma and bar girls. Pick up artists can tell you this.
Nah....
Also, never listen to pick up artists. They're just sad men who can only "flirt" by insults, and take home drunk 4's like it's a big deal lol
I can only help you get the ball rolling but.....
Go up to whatever girl you want and say: "look I'm not trying to hit on you or anything like that but I think you look beautiful today and I wanted you to know" then walk away.
Women don't hear the word beautiful very often. Hot, sexy, whatever sure. But beautiful mean something different. By saying your not hitting on them (when we all know you are) gives them a sense of safety. Then walking away reinforces that you don't want anything from them. Trust the master.
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