Trying to collect and read Jean's story from the comics but I have no clue where to start (like at all) any one know where I could find a list of all comics that tell her story?

Thanks so much.

A full list no.... but i think

Phoenix Saga
Dark Phoenix Saga
X-Factor V1 (1- 70)
And then X-Men #30 - The Ties That Bind - The Wedding of Jean Grey and Scott Summers
immediately followed by
The Adventures of Cyclops and Phoenix
That covers most of the important early stuff though X-Men Origins: Jean Grey is what should be read for character background(a short one anyway)

After that theres little stuff like The Further Adventures of Cyclops and Phoenix which isn't mandatory but exist if you want to continue the story.
Then theres Eve of Destruction which starts the character growth for her that will continue on into
Morrisons New X-Men and come to an end in Phoenix: Endsong

After that she's gone until Marvel Now! All New X-Men i may be missing some early stuff but this is what i read to get associated with Jean, Scott, their relationship, her relationship with the kids and her role within the X-Men

I'm not even a big Jean Grey fan, and I think this looks like a pretty solid reading list (especially the bold ones).

if I were going to add anything, it might be the issues of X-men and Uncanny X-men leading up the wedding;

• (X-Men #20 -digging in the dirt - #30 - The Ties That Bind and,
• Uncanny X-Men #300 -Legacies -304 (for her central role in Fatal Attractions) and issue #308 - Mixed Blessings(in which she proposes), as well as maybe
• Uncanny X-Men Annual #17 - The Gift Goodbye(for her final confrontation with Mastermind),

..as that whole period was a solid time for the X-men and Jean was especially central to the stories in both books.