There seem to be three groups of women when it comes to high heels - those that love them, those that hate them, and those that love and hate them. Those that love them love what they do for their legs, love the extension of the bodies curves to their feet, love the connection to fashion, love the sense of embracing their femininity and love the feeling of sexual dominance they get while wearing them. Those that hate them do so for another multitude of reason - not comfortable, not practical, or not even stylish. Those that both love and hate are a combination of the two.
Men sort of fall along the same lines - those that think they are exceptionally hot, and those that think they are not practical and would rather their wife or girlfriend be able to walk alongside them at a reasonable pace rather than lagging behind. I fall into the love and hate category, veering more towards the hate though. First of all, I should remind that I am from Canada, for at least a third of the year, high heels aren't even really viable. They are hard enough to walk on cement, let alone on ice.
Just like with miniskirts I do own some high heeled shoes, and I would say that I even love what they do for my overall appearance, but I still feel that the concept of high heels is over sold to women. We see models wearing them all the time in magazines and on the catwalk, and they are a must for actors going to an awards ceremony or movie premiere, and this is my main issue with them. These images give us the impression that these people wear high heels all the time, which is obviously not the case. An internet search of stars in casual clothese does not show the same dependence on high heeled footwear.
There are those celebrities, such as Mariah Carey who claim that as children that they walked around on their tiptoes, looking forward to the day when their heel could be supported by a thin spike. I think that people with such an opinion are the minority, both among celebs and among regular women. Certainly I have friends that wear them everywhere even in the less formal atmosphere of the university, but most friends reserve them for what I do - maybe a date where we want to make a nice impression or some socially significant event like a wedding.
The debates over the health issues related to high heels is unavoidable. They do lead to foot and ankle problems, some short term, others longer term. There is a counter argument to the health issue - high heels undoubtedly give a long of women stronger confidence and this confidence can lead to other beneficial areas of health, such as self esteem and therefore even an improved sex life. In fact it seems to be a common argument of those so much in favour, that they don't care so much how their feet will feel when they are 50, as long as they lived their life and had fun in their 20s and 30s.
In the end I guess it all comes down to the image that we as women are trying to portray and how it makes us comfortable or not. Another piece of fashion, the pushup bra for instance, is also decidedly uncomfortable but also adds a sense of fashion and female empowerment. And there are women who would wear one all the time but never the other. High heels are just another in the side array of accessories and items that we have at our disposal, and while they are sometimes reviled by me, I still make room for them in my closet.
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