@eternal19: Who wouldnt be attracted to somebody who could understand what theyre going through? Thats only natural as well. Diana and Clark are both people who want to be accepted by the people they love, but that are ostracized because of their might. I agree that that makes a weak reason for them to STAY TOGETHER (beyond any initial attraction) and agree that very little effort has been put into developing their romance, but that means the writers should have tried harder, put a focus on it, not just said, "Our lame publicity stunt isnt impressing anyone, scrap it." That kind of thinking leads to stupid, superficial story arcs whenever and wherever applied (think Superman Blue).
I dont necessarily think the New 52 made him more human, it made him more fallible. There is a big difference. Basically, a lot of lesser writers (to Lobdell IMO) in the Pre-52 focused on Superman being too invulnerable physically, when honestly what he needed was to be more vulnerable EMOTIONALLY. This is the same reason I am excited about Man of Steel, as Goyer has put a lot of focus on that aspect, according to his interviews. No, I 100% DO NOT want a cowardly or emo Superman, but him feeling vulnerable ties him even more into the legacy of great heroes, both mythological and historical. Whether it was Alexander the Great standing exposed before his men showing the numerous and various wounds he had received or Heracles crying over the death of his friend (whose death he accidentally caused, later wrestling Death for his friends soul), those are great stories. Superman can now be righteously angry, he can be jealous when a women he desires is moving on away from him, he can be anxious when facing somebody superior to him, this is great, IMO. Him walking the US in the Grounded arc seemed contrived and shallow, even condescending to the people he was supposedly trying to relate to. Him feeling angry like them, fearful like them, jealous like them, that grounds him for real.
I dont want to ask the most condescending internet question of all, so I wont. But I will say, at my age, I have humiliated myself with women I am attracted to, and grown and matured from the experience. From time to time, you feel multiple overwhelming emotions, and you do something that pushes people you care about away and make you look foolish. Superman shouldnt ALWAYS be above that when its a strong emotion. Lois moving on must really hurt, it makes sense that he'd do kind of a spiteful thing and call her out. Now, if we see him on later occasions looking back on past, foolish behaviour, GOOD. Thats called character development and it echoes with real life.
This all depends on if youre a pessimist or an optimist, I suppose. I believe, people fear what they dont understand, even when it is in their best interest. Now, because to me, Superman exists in a much more optimistic universe, and he himself is a beacon, he should eventually win the people over, but the writers can take time doing that, or making him into the sort of outspoken force for good that is irresistible to other good people. If we're telling new stories, I have no problem starting before Superman breaks down all the barriers, I in fact encourage it.
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