I agree with most of what you guys had to say. I think you guys are a little too generous and possibly in denial. The reason I say you seem to be in denial is because clearly you wanted to love this movie(as I did to) but, you guys talked way more about what you hated then what you liked.
Using your ratting scale not including half stars I would give it mmmm 2/5 stars. The first Ironman movie is still the best.