crossovers and events also seem to be the only time you end up seeing some characters like the last remaining "Iron Spider". His last 3 or 4 appearances have just been a flash in the background with maybe a word or 2.
normally i would favor anyone on the batfamily in a battle against anyone... except a spider. all that i know from either of these characters came from miniseries. miles held his own in a short fight against the real spider-man, while terry couldnt keep up against an elderly former robin
remy and kurt are both very familiar with each other and thats why i have to favor gambit over nightcrawler
gambit will throw cards just to provoke nightcrawler into teleporting closer and i really feel every punch gambit throws will be just a distraction while he's slipping a charged card into nightccrawlers belt with all the skill of a pickpocket