Feminism is a bit of a weird term. It applies equally to men as it does to women, and anyone who says that they would rather be a humanist than a feminist has basically already gotten the idea of feminism - there is effectively no difference. Women are not the only ones that benefit from it, it simply says to look past gender when forming opinions of placement in society, except where there are natural biological advantages to gender. It doesn't equate to emasculating men in any way. To say otherwise is stupid. Unfortunately due to the murders by Rodgers, it has been thrown back into the forefront of mainstream culture. The problem is that he made the same stupid judgments about feminism and women that a lot of men and women do. #yesallwomen came out of it, but a lot of people didn't like it so they formed a backlash. Really though if you want to hate women or any other group of people, that is anyone's prerogative, but it is an opinion always based on stupidity.