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@Nathaniel_Christopher said:

I disagree, as it's very clear he was trying to tell her before SHE kissed him and then he became caught up in the good feelings that come from physical pleasure. Doesn't excuse it, but it's not similar to rape in any way, especially given the fact that both we're emotionally and physically scarred at the time.

Yeah he didn't rape her, that is obvious but I'm not a fan with the way he handled it. There is no excuse for cheating.

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@lykopis said:

I am a feminist.

I am disappointed to come across some of the posts in here. So much ignorance. Such willful ignorance at that.

Feminism has been explained on here. No idea why some people continue to blurt out ridiculous statements as to what a feminist is. I am not going to repeat it here -- it would make no difference to those who have already ignored it.

Blanket statements in regards to "theory" and "in practice" are left unsubstantiated. An opinion? Fine. What helped form that opinion? Where did this belief feminists are frenzied misandrists come from? From the loud few who do not represent feminism? Does simply claiming to be feminist make them so? Clearly based on the behaviour and claims of these so-called feminists, they are NOT feminists.

I am a feminist.

Anyone who believes genders are equal socially, politically and economically are feminists. Do you? If so, you are a feminist, whether you like it or not. Terms like humanist, equalist -- they sound good and all but what do they mean? What do those terms mean to you? Are they subjective? Are they organized groups that have lobbied governments for change? If you view these terms as descriptions of people who believe in gender equality, then they are just synonyms for the word feminist. That's it.

As for having achieved equality in developed countries, which countries exactly? Which country has achieved equality socially, politically and economically between the genders? I haven't found any. Being immersed in gender studies for the past three years, I have yet to discover any. Here are the top ten who have the lowest discrepancies in terms of gender equality according to the UN:

1) Sweden

2) Netherlands

3) Denmark

4) Switzerland

5) Finland

6) Norway

7) Germany

8) Singapore

9) Iceland

10) France

I don't see the United States -- Canada -- England -- Australia or even New Zealand in there. So no, there has been no achieved state of equality between the genders, anywhere. Unsurprisingly, the countries ranking the lowest are under-developed ones.

Are things better? Of course they are. It's thanks to feminism they are and it's thanks to feminists who were brave and strong enough to push for those changes. Keep in mind the men in positions of power who pushed for equal rights were themselves, feminists. Because feminism is the pursuit of equality between the sexes.

So, spare me the rhetoric and imagery of crazed women who are out to destroy men. Spare me the argument that men are just as oppressed as women. It's untrue. And fallacious. There is a lot to be done -- a lot -- but when I think of gender inequality, I think of both genders. That makes me a feminist. It makes you one too if you feel the same.

I won't allow this current fad of maligning the term feminism to take hold of me. It's a frankly horrid and despicable attempt to discredit it. It undermines the past efforts of men and women who worked hard and at great sacrifice to themselves to achieve the progress we have today and hinders the continuing efforts of the others replacing them.

Humanist, equalist -- what-f*cking ever. The proper term is feminist. And I am definitely one. Anyone who tells me they are not a feminist, for whatever contrived reason, is someone who doesn't believe in equality between genders.

Pretty simple.

Man after looking up some of Sweden's laws I find this... um quite interesting. If that is the world's shining example of the most equal country, then they need to check their definition. Of course according to your post you don't want to hear anything that would.. um challenge your feminist rhetoric, which is fine. Though not all too helpful when trying to get to the truth.

A friend pf mine said it best:

I am a strong proponent of equality and will fight to the death to defend anyone's right to succeed but I will NOT do that at the expense of another, generalized group.

I can certainly get behind that statement as I want social justice and equality for all. The proper term for this is egalitarian. Calling it anything else is an insult.

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Do you disagree with the notion that there is relativity with generalized groups, meaning some are more focused than others, and as far as identifying and solving real problems is the ability to identify and focus on problems and then possible solutions not helped with focus?

No and as I recall I never said I did. What I was saying is that generalized groups know their groups alleged problems and they seek to address them. However, most of them don’t take the potential damages of other generalized groups into account that may result in them allegedly addressing their own.

For example over here in the States we often hear feminists gripe about how women are not equally represented in fields such as engineers and so on. Also, how women are underrepresented in those post undergraduate schools. However, a quick look at virtually any university’s data and you’ll see that men are well unrepresented in undergraduate enrollments across the country. So feminists want to use affirmative action to take up the already limited seats in graduate programs, but they seemingly couldn’t care less about the fact that they are taking an opportunity away from certain college educated minorities by doing so. Thus they are gaining what they want at the expense of others.

Then what groups can't fall victim to treating other groups as expendable to their own benefit?

Which is why I said I don’t ally myself with any generalized groups movement as they all can be potentially be guilty of this if they don’t collaborate with other groups, or take the actual concerns of other groups into consideration when addressing their own. Since feminism has been academically unchallenged in this regard, they are the most prominent offender of making another group expendable.

I mean when it comes to conflict between two groups often a problem that arises within a group is how to get the other group to "convert" so to speak. Do you be patient and passive or aggressive and confrontational? (those things as far as information and education as opposed to physical actions)

When it comes to conflict you negotiate and sometimes concessions have to be made on both sides, you can’t just expect get your way outright when it negatively impacts the other group. As I previously stated, for the majority of its existence feminism has been running unopposed academically as a worldview. They have never made a concession in this regard.

If realistically getting to a point where "everyone regardless of race, sex, religion, et al to be treated as equals in so far as it realistically possible" is best reached by accurately identifying and understanding some of the people in aforementioned in groups are objectively treated worse, unfairly than others, and addressing that inequality first has benefits for all those people in those groups faster? What does that mean?

Honestly I should have asked this initially, but what do you mean by equality/inequality? Also what does what mean?

I’ll try to answer this Q, but I’ll better be able to answer them after you answer mine. In the US, First wave feminism it was to address clear inequalities they saw between the sexes, such as the right to vote. After the first wave feminism has become geared towards women’s interest, not necessarily rights. There is no issue with that if another school of thought/worldview was being used as a balance. That wasn’t the case. Gaining rights does not expend another’s rights. When blacks and women were given the right to vote it did not take anything away from another group. Well it meant that the other groups were not the only people allowed to determine an election. However it did not undermine their right or ability to vote. Does it make slightly less significant? Sure, but not in a way that a sudden increase in that groups voting population wouldn’t have.

My issue is that special interests groups like feminists, which this thread is about, try to benefit their group without taking into account or caring how another group can and are affected by their actions. If a level headed feminist, men’s rights activists, and others came together to work towards actual social justice and realistic equality, then everyone’s problem’s could be solved. One group lobbying for their desires without taking other groups into account does not.

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@SmoothJammin said:

@Goldenboy_Prime said:

@akbogert said:

@Goldenboy_Prime said:

@SmoothJammin said:

U guys out there wouldn't do the same? They're like hs sweethearts.. he might have gone on and gotten married but that doesn't mean the feelings(sexual tension in this case)cease to exist between an old flame. Well played, dick..

Of course not... Um you're engaged to be married, you're not suppose to go around sleeping with other women at that point.

Yeah...seriously, I'm a little horrified by the suggestion that this is even remotely a cool or commendable thing. So, what, Dick used Barbara to relieve his "sexual tension"? He treated her like an object rather than a person with feelings attached? How is that "well played?"

No, it wasn't rape, but consider: Had he told her about the engagement when he arrived, would she have consented to having sex with him? Definitely not? Okay then. It's rape-ish.

Well played. I'm honestly nonplussed.

The easiest way to play this is by putting yourself in either Kori's or Gordon's position. Not matter how you slice it Richard's character takes a huge hit and I wouldn't consider him the most trustworthy anymore guy either. Which is sad because he's my second favorite comic book character. But hey it's the old continuity so it's all good as of Nu52, where he and Gordon have never hooked up, iirc.

I think it was just bad writing. Dick has a reputation for sleeping around but I'd hardly call him a manwhore. Certainly not the way you would Hal Jordan, Johnny Storm, James Bond etc

It is bad writing, but Dick is sort of a manwhore. I don't see a problem with manwhoring if you're honest that all you want is sex from the other person, but cheating on your significant other (especially when engaged) is unacceptable. Also he should have made a better attempt to control himself with Gordon, especially given their past. He's Dick Grayson women are going to throw themselves at you, pick and choose your spots!

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@Edamame said:

... Is there? Where, if I may ask?

Well from what I know it's mostly online, I know there are multiple websites but the most diverse one that I've seen is: www.avoiceformen.com ... They do a good job of kicking out the trolls who actually hate women and they don't tolerate that type of crap, it doesn't help the discussion.

Well, human beings have a tendency to prefer and appreciate divisiveness. Just look at Capitalism (which continues to create socioeconomic inequality), tribalism, the voluntary segregation that one sometimes sees in Multicultural societies, etc.

True... but it's more of the Gordon Gekkos of the world than the actual system. Any economic system can be abused to benefit certain groups. I've also never seen a pure capitalist model in action (or any other model for that matter), receiving a bail out certainly isn't a capitalist concept.

Such as this worldwide Great Recession, yes. lol

Shhh.. but yes that among other things.

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@mrdecepticonleader said:

Lol maybe and we are both the same person but are in different universes or time streams :P

I could totally buy that!

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@Edamame said:

@Goldenboy_Prime said:

Yes, but why do we need to focus on generalized groups when there is a school of thought that is all encompassing? Especially when generalized groups are sometimes expendable to benefit the another generalized group. See I don't and never will agree with that. I want everyone regardless of race, sex, religion, et al to be treated as equals in so far as it realistically possible.

Good point, good point. :)

Considering the way things are going, I actually think that there will be a Men's Rights (Masculism) movement in the near future.

Thank you.

I know that there is already a MRM (Men's Rights Movement) and I see the need for it, but I'm really hoping the end game is for everyone to sit at the table and actually problem solve. It shouldn't be men vs women, black vs white, straight vs gay, and so on. That stuff just distracts us from the real problems.

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@mrdecepticonleader said:

Thank you.I am kind of surprised but glad that so many agreed with my above post.


I think you must of read my mind since this is pretty much my point. And yeah number two does sum up feminism and that is one of my problems with it.As I said before I am a humanist when it comes to matters like this because it is a better definition and has not become a radical dogma like feminism has.

I was surprised by the number that agreed too, makes me feel better about the state of humanity.

Hey, you've been reading my mind on pretty much every thread that both of us have posted in as far as I can tell. I started to wonder if I made the account, mrdecepticonleader when I was sleep walking or something.

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@Edamame said:

@Goldenboy_Prime: Well, Egalitarianism involves the equality of all groups, right? Feminism is just focused on Gender.

Yes, but why do we need to focus on generalized groups when there is a school of thought that is all encompassing? Especially when generalized groups are sometimes expendable to benefit the another generalized group. See I don't and never will agree with that. I want everyone regardless of race, sex, religion, et al to be treated as equals in so far as it realistically possible.

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@Edamame said:

I think some of the people here are confusing Feminism with Female Chauvinism.

Hmmm... I feel that people tend to confuse egalitarianism with feminism.

FEMINISM

1: the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes

2: organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/feminist

Definition one seems to be the alleged theory, while definition two is what is actually practiced.