@Edamame: It's bad territory. I don't want a woman taking advantage of me all the time to get what she wants. She'll no longer respect you at that point.
yep. atleast until they're in their 30's had a few kids, starting to lose their looks, and are now just willing to settle...then the nice guys win...the consolation prize >:p
That's a defo that. I was out last night and we went into woman infested clubs, they were all over me because I was talking to them. And I could dance better than the pole dancers on show. ::) Got one of the pole dancer's numbers as well. ::D She was impressed with my moves and agility. "
sandra bullock? shes a woman ironically she's always making movies where she in love with goodlooking nice guys, in real life she went for an ugly scumbag
Man, I'd LOVE to hook up with Sandra Bullock. Had a crush on her for awhile.
Nice guys finish because they seek approval from woman. They have no backbone. Women want to have a relationship were she feels love. When your in a relationship and your trying to seek someone approver be it men or women it will never work. The so called nice guys don't have a backbone and they to afraid to question they girlfriend or wife when they are in the wrong because they are scared of they wrath/anger. I don't see them has nice guys i see them has lost souls they don't have no spirit. If you are a nice guy who is confident, assertive and has a backbone to him, you will usually do fine with women.
It takes all different types so no, thats actually just a saying, and a reason applied when a girl a guy wants to be with wont be with him generally, when the real reason is usually something entirely different. learn to " get in where you fit in " as they say. the statement here assumes women are generalized to begin with, which is also untrue.
" Nice guys finish because they seek approval from woman. They have no backbone. Women want to have a relationship were she feels love. When your in a relationship and your trying to seek someone approver be it men or women it will never work. The so called nice guys don't have a backbone and they to afraid to question they girlfriend or wife when they are in the wrong because they are scared of they wrath/anger. I don't see them has nice guys i see them has lost souls they don't have no spirit. If you are a nice guy who is confident, assertive and has a backbone to him, you will usually do fine with women. "
I defiantly agree with this!
The good guy is the beta male that likes to let women set the tone of the relationship thus why women like to marry to.
The D-bag is the Alpha male who moves to his own tune and likes to set the agenda and is more aggressive. Women love it when a man is assertive but in the end they like to think that they are in control.
" Nice guys finish because they seek approval from woman. They have no backbone. Women want to have a relationship were she feels love. When your in a relationship and your trying to seek someone approver be it men or women it will never work. The so called nice guys don't have a backbone and they to afraid to question they girlfriend or wife when they are in the wrong because they are scared of they wrath/anger. I don't see them has nice guys i see them has lost souls they don't have no spirit. If you are a nice guy who is confident, assertive and has a backbone to him, you will usually do fine with women. "
I defiantly agree with this! The good guy is the beta male that likes to let women set the tone of the relationship thus why women like to marry to. The D-bag is the Alpha male who moves to his own tune and likes to set the agenda and is more aggressive. Women love it when a man is assertive but in the end they like to think that they are in control. "
I did not say that. I said that women don't like nice guy because they be nice at the expense of themselve making themselve look desperate and pathetic they give an aura of weakness and helplessness. They nothing wrong with being a nice guy has long you have a backbone.
"Nice guys don't finish last.If you're a nice guy and you finish last..maybe there is something else wrong with you than being too nice. "
that was i being saying to people but they don't seem to undertsand what i mean. When i tell people the reason why nice guys finish last they cut the conventions or debate and saying how i like to degrade women or i am some kind of sick jerk that likes to hurt woman. It obvious the term nice guys is a social nickname and people or group in general people earn nicknames through reputations. So anyone who is a nice guys mean that they are helpful. Which sometimes confess me logically becuase human being are not helpless creatures. People are called nice for different type of reason such has helping people, being kind, being self sacrifice because they are called nice guys it mean they do it all time keep in mind that i said people earn nicknames through reputation if nice guys are called nice guys that mean they are nice 24/7 they be nice when it not necessarily because no human being is always at disadvantage and no human are always needy unless it was a child or a human being with a disability. That the reason why women do not like nice guys because they be nice at the expense of themselves. How can a women have relationship with a man who dose not invest his love with a woman but tries to focused on being nice so that she will like him. Women might say they like nice guys but when they get in a relationship they find out the relationship because she does not feel like her men is her lover she feel has if her men is her friend or worse a mother.
I think your typical girl likes a**holes when she's younger (in her teen years), and then once she's a bit older, she realizes that it's better to date someone who treats you well.
Girls like excitement. So do dudes. It's not about bad guys/ good guys. It's about being interesting. The bad guy is often more interesting than the good guy. Superman vs Lex Luthor for example.
"I think your typical girl likes a**holes when she's younger (in her teen years), and then once she's a bit older, she realizes that it's better to date someone who treats you well. "
Even if women get older she is not going to like the stereotypical nice guys.
" Nice guys finish because they seek approval from woman. They have no backbone. Women want to have a relationship were she feels love. When your in a relationship and your trying to seek someone approver be it men or women it will never work. The so called nice guys don't have a backbone and they to afraid to question they girlfriend or wife when they are in the wrong because they are scared of they wrath/anger. I don't see them has nice guys i see them has lost souls they don't have no spirit. If you are a nice guy who is confident, assertive and has a backbone to him, you will usually do fine with women. "
I defiantly agree with this! The good guy is the beta male that likes to let women set the tone of the relationship thus why women like to marry to. The D-bag is the Alpha male who moves to his own tune and likes to set the agenda and is more aggressive. Women love it when a man is assertive but in the end they like to think that they are in control. "
I did not say that. I said that women don't like nice guy because they be nice at the expense of themselve making themselve look desperate and pathetic they give an aura of weakness and helplessness. They nothing wrong with being a nice guy has long you have a backbone. "
Sorry I wasnt trying to imply that you said that and you are right.
you just got to learn to not always be the nice guy, there are times when being the nice guy is a good thing or its going to help you out but then there are times then you just need to not be it cause a lot of people (not all people) take advantage of the nice guys and you shouldn't put up with that. You just got to find the balance point of when to be the nice guy and when not to be.
" Nice guys finish because they seek approval from woman. They have no backbone. Women want to have a relationship were she feels love. When your in a relationship and your trying to seek someone approver be it men or women it will never work. The so called nice guys don't have a backbone and they to afraid to question they girlfriend or wife when they are in the wrong because they are scared of they wrath/anger. I don't see them has nice guys i see them has lost souls they don't have no spirit. If you are a nice guy who is confident, assertive and has a backbone to him, you will usually do fine with women. "
I defiantly agree with this! The good guy is the beta male that likes to let women set the tone of the relationship thus why women like to marry to. The D-bag is the Alpha male who moves to his own tune and likes to set the agenda and is more aggressive. Women love it when a man is assertive but in the end they like to think that they are in control. "
I did not say that. I said that women don't like nice guy because they be nice at the expense of themselve making themselve look desperate and pathetic they give an aura of weakness and helplessness. They nothing wrong with being a nice guy has long you have a backbone. "
Sorry I wasnt trying to imply that you said that and you are right. "
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