Would you consider yourself more of an optimist or a pessimist?

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#2  Edited By Samimista

Optimistic for happiness. =D

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#4  Edited By the_stegman

People suck, and everything they do sucks. 

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#5  Edited By dngn4774

Pessimism is viewing the world in it's truest form. If you view life based on the worst case scenarios you can never truly be disappointed. Ironically, I'm an optimist because I'm a pessimist.

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#6  Edited By Xanni15

The world needs more optimists. It's not that I don't or can't view the world as it is, I just choose to focus on the positives of life and just deal with the negatives when/if they come. Nobody wants to be around someone always expecting the other shoe to drop, that's no fun.

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#7  Edited By coolguyr99

Depends on my mood.

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#8  Edited By Rumble Man

Half full

that kid is not dying, he is just half-alive

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#9  Edited By PowerHerc

Realist.

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#10  Edited By Yung ANcient One
I am a pessimistic, but force myself to be optimistic because it is way better. Also either choice is a self-fulfilling prophecy. (+)
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#11  Edited By JediXMan  Moderator

I'm a realist. I don't see things for anything but what they are. I don't like to think of myself as pessimistic, though.

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#12  Edited By Dark_Vengeance_

I am 50% pessimist and 50% realist. So in other words I'm a batsimist.

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#13  Edited By HBKTimHBK

I'd say I'm more optimistic than pessimistic.

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#14  Edited By TrueIlluminatus

Optimism and pessimism are pretty reaching binaries. Intelligent people tend to fall somewhere in between, as they know that there are times to be pessimistic and cynical and untrusting, and other times when optimism, faith, and seeing the potential for good in their fellow human beings is the best mindset to have.

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#16  Edited By Bruxae

Im bipolar so both, but mainly pessimist I guess.

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#17  Edited By FalconPuuunch

I'm a pessimist. I wish I could be an optimist, but I can't be ignorant to the real world no matter how hard I try. I'm sure there is a better word than ignorant to describe an optimist, because it's not a bad thing and saying that sounds really bad. Unaware maybe?

I envy that.

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#18  Edited By Yung ANcient One
Realist is the stupidest word invented, so your a realist huh. What is everyone else? What is the opposite of a realist? A fake-ist? I always hear it from certain Atheist, and it just screams to me that they have a superiority complex. I just find it annoying, even offensive at times, and I just had to vent for a moment. (+)
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#19  Edited By Kawowoi

I can sometimes be a bit of both

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#20  Edited By INLIFE

I can't give a precise answer to this.

Many know me as highly pessimistic, including myself. I acknowledge things others won't whether they are younger, older, or of my same age. Yet I am filled with so many ideas; easily known as imaginative and are incredible to have on one's train of thoughts.

I choose pessimist as optimism has led me no where but down. This is due to my lack of any great capabilities, bad track record in life, the lack of happiness, and my incompatible mind, body and soul.

Optimism only fuels my pessimism.

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#21  Edited By Pyrogram

perspectiveist

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#23  Edited By KnightRise

@Yung ANcient One said:

Realist is the stupidest word invented, so your a realist huh. What is everyone else? What is the opposite of a realist? A fake-ist? I always hear it from certain Atheist, and it just screams to me that they have a superiority complex. I just find it annoying, even offensive at times, and I just had to vent for a moment. (+)

A rationalist, meh-ist, or a sh*t happens-ist.

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#24  Edited By ssejllenrad

@Yung ANcient One said:

Realist is the stupidest word invented, so your a realist huh. What is everyone else? What is the opposite of a realist? A fake-ist? I always hear it from certain Atheist, and it just screams to me that they have a superiority complex. I just find it annoying, even offensive at times, and I just had to vent for a moment. (+)

Idealist vs Realist really...

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#25  Edited By SoA

pessimist all the way!!!

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#26  Edited By Yung ANcient One

@ssejllenrad: @KnightRise:

disregard my previous post; rationalist is equally a terrible title name as realist, but I do however like this Idealist title. If i had to choose between the three I'd definitely pick idealist.

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#27  Edited By JediXMan  Moderator

@FalconPuuunch said:

I'm a pessimist. I wish I could be an optimist, but I can't be ignorant to the real world no matter how hard I try. I'm sure there is a better word than ignorant to describe an optimist, because it's not a bad thing and saying that sounds really bad. Unaware maybe?

I envy that.

I prefer the term "naive" to describe optimism (not all optimism, but I prefer it to "ignorant").

I'm not an optimist, though. I prefer to think of myself as a realist.

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#28  Edited By FalconPuuunch

@JediXMan said:

@FalconPuuunch said:

I'm a pessimist. I wish I could be an optimist, but I can't be ignorant to the real world no matter how hard I try. I'm sure there is a better word than ignorant to describe an optimist, because it's not a bad thing and saying that sounds really bad. Unaware maybe?

I envy that.

I prefer the term "naive" to describe optimism (not all optimism, but I prefer it to "ignorant").

I'm not an optimist, though. I prefer to think of myself as a realist.

Naive. There we go. That's the perfect definition of an optimist.

These words seem to be one in the same, but this is how I look at it.

Pessimists see things as if the glass were half full whereas an optimist is always looking at the bright side of things no matter how rough things tend to get. Realists size of the situation and realize the positive and negative aspects of things.

People think that being a realist or a pessimist is like being a nihilist which is not true at all. Pessimists and realists can be just as nice or accepting as optimists. These labels are just things that define how we view the world and the people in it.

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#29  Edited By _Zombie_

I'm on too much medication to be an optimist.

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#30  Edited By Crimsonlord53

Expect the worst when it dose not happen be mildly surprised.

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#31  Edited By SC  Moderator

I consider myself more a Toblerolo. Its like a Toblerone-Rolo combo. Sometimes I am hard and triangular, but other times I just roll with it. I also can make myself happy whenever I want, a few people who don't me well consider me a pessimist but a few who know me relatively well consider my dreadfully optimistic. I also think the best things to be are the words you make up that most other people don't understand. Like thobonoth and puddlewicks. Though I can't be sure those aren't the names of the Bird People that fly by my window at night. Essentially I think its better to consider than to conclude. Which would you rather eat, a steak or bacon? Who not both, either or none of above. Then change your mind, reverse, flip twist defy and deny it, then reconsider.

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@PowerHerc said:

Realist.

Truth

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#34  Edited By lykopis

Optimist. The most militant kind.

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#35  Edited By FadeToBlackBolt

Pessimistic Optimist.

I assume that everything sucks and never look forward to anything, thus when something is good, I'm extremely positive about it.

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#36  Edited By Pyrogram

@FadeToBlackBolt said:

Pessimistic Optimist.

I assume that everything sucks and never look forward to anything, thus when something is good, I'm extremely positive about it.

Hmmm. Very interesting. :P

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#37  Edited By FadeToBlackBolt

@Pyrogram said:

@FadeToBlackBolt said:

Pessimistic Optimist.

I assume that everything sucks and never look forward to anything, thus when something is good, I'm extremely positive about it.

Hmmm. Very interesting. :P

I'm an interesting person.

OK, egotistical pessimistic optimist.

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@FalconPuuunch said:

Naive. There we go. That's the perfect definition of an optimist.

These words seem to be one in the same, but this is how I look at it.

If you really believe that, then you're painting with a REALLY large brush.

While optimists CAN BE naive, the two terms are NOT synonymous. Most optimists see the world just as clearly as you do with your oh-so-superior pessimism. They just choose to focus on the positive. Notice I say that they FOCUS on the positive. They can see and understand the negative just fine.

I've always hated the "never be optimistic cause you'll never be disappointed" trope. I've been optimistic for things and then been disappointed.

Know what happened the second after that?

I got over it. Cause I'm not a child.

Just cause someone chooses to react to the world in a different way than you doesn't make them any less intelligent or worldly.

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#40  Edited By Vortex13

I'm an optimistic pessimist!

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#41  Edited By Vortex13

In other words, I feel like the world is full of complete s##t and terrible people, BUT I feel that change is possible and that with a lot of hard work and enlightenment the world really can be a better place.... of course the pessimistic side makes it so I don't think it's likely to happen lol.

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#42  Edited By monarch_prime

Pessimist.

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#43  Edited By FalconPuuunch

@TheCowman said:

@FalconPuuunch said:

Naive. There we go. That's the perfect definition of an optimist.

These words seem to be one in the same, but this is how I look at it.

If you really believe that, then you're painting with a REALLY large brush.

While optimists CAN BE naive, the two terms are NOT synonymous. Most optimists see the world just as clearly as you do with your oh-so-superior pessimism. They just choose to focus on the positive. Notice I say that they FOCUS on the positive. They can see and understand the negative just fine.

I've always hated the "never be optimistic cause you'll never be disappointed" trope. I've been optimistic for things and then been disappointed.

Know what happened the second after that?

I got over it. Cause I'm not a child.

Just cause someone chooses to react to the world in a different way than you doesn't make them any less intelligent or worldly.

"They choose to focus on the positive" There you go, you said it yourself. That's the definition of naive. "Natural and unaffected". I never said an optimist couldn't experience or understand the negatives, I just meant to say that they choose to see the good in situations even when it's not there. Maybe artless would be a better word?

At the end of the day an optimist and a pessimist are still human beings who like you said "choose to react to the world in different ways." Of course we are all going to experience hope and hopelessness throughout our lives, it's impossible not to. These labels are simply the generalization of how we normally react and not how we react once in a while. I never said an optimist was less intelligent than a realist or pessimist so i'm just going to ignore that statement.

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#44  Edited By TheCowman

@FalconPuuunch said:

I never said an optimist was less intelligent than a realist or pessimist so i'm just going to ignore that statement.

Oh yes. I forgot that you changed your description from "ignorant" to "naive". Not much better, but whatever.

I'll agree that "artless" would be better if you must give them a label. At least "without guile or deception" is better than "showing a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgement".

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#45  Edited By TDK_1997

I'm more of an optimist but there are times that I am a pesimist.

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#46  Edited By CainPanell

I've actually been diagnosed by some psychologists as a contrarian. No matter whether the opposing side is wrong or right, If it is the majority view, I always end up arguing against it.

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#47  Edited By FalconPuuunch

@TheCowman said:

@FalconPuuunch said:

I never said an optimist was less intelligent than a realist or pessimist so i'm just going to ignore that statement.

Oh yes. I forgot that you changed your description from "ignorant" to "naive". Not much better, but whatever.

I'll agree that "artless" would be better if you must give them a label. At least "without guile or deception" is better than "showing a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgement".

I already explained myself in my very first post that I didn't know what word would be best to describe what I felt an optimist was. Don't know why you're being so crossed about it, but whatever.

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#48  Edited By Ellie_Knightfall

For a pessimist, I'm pretty optimistic

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#49  Edited By mikethekiller

I've been feeling real pessimistic lately.

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#50  Edited By Deadite

Pessimist. And I can sense your presence.