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#1 Posted by VG_Addict (19 posts) - - Show Bio

OK, so I'm 20, and 5'3, and I'm worried no girl will want me because of my height. Help.

#2 Posted by GrandSymbiote94 (11652 posts) - - Show Bio

pfffft. Girls nowadays don't even care about height. I know people shorter than you that get tons of women.

#3 Posted by TDK_1997 (14684 posts) - - Show Bio

Girls don't look at height but you are indeed short but don't worry.

#4 Posted by Joygirl (19389 posts) - - Show Bio

Some girls care about height -- don't listen to the people that say they don't. Some do, but by no means all. Everyone finds love (most people anyway), even short people. My brother is very short and his spouse was considered for modelling. You just have to find the people who don't demand a bigguylittlegirl pairing. People are a lot more open-minded now.

#5 Edited by VG_Addict (19 posts) - - Show Bio

But I probably won't grow another inch or two at 20.

#6 Edited by GrandSymbiote94 (11652 posts) - - Show Bio

@joygirl said:

Some girls care about height -- don't listen to the people that say they don't. Some do, but by no means all. Everyone finds love (most people anyway), even short people.

I was speaking of the general sense. I know some girls like tall guys, but I just didn't want him to worry.

#7 Edited by GrandSymbiote94 (11652 posts) - - Show Bio

But I probably won't grow another inch or two at 20.

How old are you now?

#8 Posted by InnerVenom123 (29499 posts) - - Show Bio

No one cares about height.

Just dick size.

#9 Edited by VG_Addict (19 posts) - - Show Bio

I'm 20, now.

Though, I DID grow a half-inch in the last six months.

#11 Edited by V_Scarlotte_Rose (6252 posts) - - Show Bio

Isn't Wolverine 5' 3" too? I think he's had a few girlfriends in his time. :)

#12 Posted by God_Spawn (37683 posts) - - Show Bio

Isn't Wolverine 5' 3" too? I think he's had a few girlfriends in his time. :)

But he's been scaled to about 5'7-5'10 for awhile now, so hah >:P.

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#13 Posted by V_Scarlotte_Rose (6252 posts) - - Show Bio

@god_spawn: Oh... Never mind that then.

Verne Troyer seems to do O.K., and he's only 2'8". Maybe you just need a fancy blue jacket or something.

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#15 Posted by Pyrogram (36376 posts) - - Show Bio

@v_scarlotte_rose said:

Isn't Wolverine 5' 3" too? I think he's had a few girlfriends in his time. :)

But he's been scaled to about 5'7-5'10 for awhile now, so hah >:P.

Ohh yeah make all us Small guys feel sad. Go away back to your cave.

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#16 Posted by V_Scarlotte_Rose (6252 posts) - - Show Bio

@pyrogram: Apparently it was personality rather than the fancy blue jacket. I found some quotes from the woman in the picture:

Brunette Ranae admitted: "I never imagined one day I'd date a man who barely came up to my kneecaps.

"But as soon as I met Verne I was so captivated by his personality, his size didn't seem to matter.

"I liked him so much I even gave up wearing high heels for six months.

There's more intimate quotes, but I don't know if you're allowed to mention such things on here.

#17 Edited by God_Spawn (37683 posts) - - Show Bio

@pyrogram said:

@god_spawn said:

@v_scarlotte_rose said:

Isn't Wolverine 5' 3" too? I think he's had a few girlfriends in his time. :)

But he's been scaled to about 5'7-5'10 for awhile now, so hah >:P.

Ohh yeah make all us Small guys feel sad. Go away back to your cave.

I'm 6'2 and a total D-bag. If you got personality, it doesn't matter :P. Or money.

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#18 Edited by Bruxae (13365 posts) - - Show Bio

Dont worry about it, shouldnt be a huge issue if you are looking for love.. If you just want to get laid though just get some muscle to make up for the height.

#19 Edited by Betatesthighlander1 (7462 posts) - - Show Bio

@vg_addict: juxtaposed to the dick size comments, I would wonder where that "half an inch" is

#20 Posted by PrinceAragorn1 (16721 posts) - - Show Bio

@pyrogram said:

@v_scarlotte_rose: Money is the word you're looking for.

Perfect.

@vg_addict: In all seriousness, keep yourself healthy, add some height special (and non-crazy) exercise to your regular one, and do Not let your height get to you. it should NOT affect your confidence, there were so many short guys who became great in their lives. I'd say more, but my height being average or slightly more (more than many of my people, actually) I never had the problem. But this is about as much honest an advice I can give.

#21 Posted by Vortex13 (12250 posts) - - Show Bio

Well, why not follow my friends rule? Round up and add an inch. So now you're 5'5" =D.

@pyrogram said:

@god_spawn said:

@v_scarlotte_rose said:

Isn't Wolverine 5' 3" too? I think he's had a few girlfriends in his time. :)

But he's been scaled to about 5'7-5'10 for awhile now, so hah >:P.

Ohh yeah make all us Small guys feel sad. Go away back to your cave.

I'm 6'2 and a total D-bag. If you got personality, it doesn't matter :P. Or money.

Well then your testicles are at the perfect height for punchings by short people.

#22 Edited by Xaos (364 posts) - - Show Bio

@pyrogram said:

@god_spawn said:

@v_scarlotte_rose said:

Isn't Wolverine 5' 3" too? I think he's had a few girlfriends in his time. :)

But he's been scaled to about 5'7-5'10 for awhile now, so hah >:P.

Ohh yeah make all us Small guys feel sad. Go away back to your cave.

I'm 6'2 and a total D-bag. If you got personality, it doesn't matter :P. Or money.

So totally this.

Let's get real, will you. Some girls care about height, but frankly, would you want to be with a girl so superficial that she care only about how high your head are from the ground ? Is your life can be resumed at that ? Or do you want someone with whom you can be happy ?

Think about it.

#23 Posted by Pyrogram (36376 posts) - - Show Bio

@xaos: You do not even need to think about it. It is just common sense.

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#24 Posted by PrinceAragorn1 (16721 posts) - - Show Bio

@xaos said:

Let's get real, will you. Some girls care about height, but frankly, would you want to be with a girl so superficial that she care only about how high your head are from the ground ? Is your life can be resumed at that ? Or do you want someone with whom you can be happy ?

Think about it.

A girl judging people by height makes her suddenly superficial? seriously?

#25 Posted by God_Spawn (37683 posts) - - Show Bio
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#26 Edited by judasnixon (6465 posts) - - Show Bio

Here some short people who sleep with some hot ladies...... Start being funny.

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#27 Posted by Vortex13 (12250 posts) - - Show Bio

I like short girls! but that doesn't really help you I guess...

#28 Edited by Xaos (364 posts) - - Show Bio

@pyrogram:

Well, you know, common sense is so rare, sometimes that I wonder if it's a superpower.

@princearagorn1:

Do you even realize what you've just wrote ?

Anybody who's judging people by the size doesn't become suddenly superficial, he's already is.

#29 Posted by VG_Addict (19 posts) - - Show Bio

Yes, but I probably won't grow another inch or two.

#30 Posted by sagejonathan (1931 posts) - - Show Bio

@bruxae said:

Dont worry about it, shouldnt be a huge issue if you are looking for love.. If you just want to get laid though just get some muscle to make up for the height.

You can find girls your height. And I agree with this. Go get some muscle which helps significantly if you're worried about your appearance. Its good for your health anyways.

#31 Posted by PrinceAragorn1 (16721 posts) - - Show Bio

@xaos said:

@pyrogram:

Well, you know, common sense is so rare, sometimes that I wonder if it's a superpower.

@princearagorn1:

Do you even realize what you've just wrote ?

Anybody who's judging people by the size doesn't become suddenly superficial, he's already is.

Yes I do. Having height as a personal preference does NOT make you superficial in any way. What, you don't simply go falling in love with every girl you see (If you're a boy), you have your own likes. I know looks aren't everything, but you don't go deciding who's superficial because they prefer a particular group of people. If someone doesn't find people with short height attractive, it's absolutely their own choice.

#32 Posted by Pyrogram (36376 posts) - - Show Bio

@xaos said:

@pyrogram:

Well, you know, common sense is so rare, sometimes that I wonder if it's a superpower.

@princearagorn1:

Do you even realize what you've just wrote ?

Anybody who's judging people by the size doesn't become suddenly superficial, he's already is.

Yes I do. Having height as a personal preference does NOT make you superficial in any way. What, you don't simply go falling in love with every girl you see (If you're a boy), you have your own likes. I know looks aren't everything, but you don't go deciding who's superficial because they prefer a particular group of people. If someone doesn't find people with short height attractive, it's absolutely their own choice.

Dudes got a point. Love is about physical attraction as-well. Not just personality. It is just the truth.

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#33 Posted by Xaos (364 posts) - - Show Bio
@pyrogram said:

@princearagorn1 said:

@xaos said:

@pyrogram:

Well, you know, common sense is so rare, sometimes that I wonder if it's a superpower.

@princearagorn1:

Do you even realize what you've just wrote ?

Anybody who's judging people by the size doesn't become suddenly superficial, he's already is.

Yes I do. Having height as a personal preference does NOT make you superficial in any way. What, you don't simply go falling in love with every girl you see (If you're a boy), you have your own likes. I know looks aren't everything, but you don't go deciding who's superficial because they prefer a particular group of people. If someone doesn't find people with short height attractive, it's absolutely their own choice.

Dudes got a point. Love is about physical attraction as-well. Not just personality. It is just the truth.

I concede to this point, but only partially.

Because when youre only argument to be in love is appearance ONLY, it's not love, it's a thing called erection.

I know first hand that you can be really surprised at what you think you're attracted to, and what you finally got to live with, and it's not a question of second best choice of utter crap like that.


But when the girl say something like : "Oh, you are nice and all, but I date only guys above 1 meter 70.", well... either she need an excuse, or really I don't miss a great relationship. IMO.

#34 Posted by PrinceAragorn1 (16721 posts) - - Show Bio

@xaos said:
@pyrogram said:

@princearagorn1 said:

@xaos said:

@pyrogram:

Well, you know, common sense is so rare, sometimes that I wonder if it's a superpower.

@princearagorn1:

Do you even realize what you've just wrote ?

Anybody who's judging people by the size doesn't become suddenly superficial, he's already is.

Yes I do. Having height as a personal preference does NOT make you superficial in any way. What, you don't simply go falling in love with every girl you see (If you're a boy), you have your own likes. I know looks aren't everything, but you don't go deciding who's superficial because they prefer a particular group of people. If someone doesn't find people with short height attractive, it's absolutely their own choice.

Dudes got a point. Love is about physical attraction as-well. Not just personality. It is just the truth.

I concede to this point, but only partially.

Because when youre only argument to be in love is appearance ONLY, it's not love, it's a thing called erection.

I know first hand that you can be really surprised at what you think you're attracted to, and what you finally got to live with, and it's not a question of second best choice of utter crap like that.

But when the girl say something like : "Oh, you are nice and all, but I date only guys above 1 meter 70.", well... either she need an excuse, or really I don't miss a great relationship. IMO.

Obviously, I'm not saying that Girls should Go around with tape measures in their bags, but your personality IS, as you accepted, partially responsible for your love. Without you being superficial.

#35 Posted by Pyrogram (36376 posts) - - Show Bio

@xaos: No. It's called Lust.

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#36 Posted by Dabee (2385 posts) - - Show Bio

OK, so I'm 20, and 5'3, and I'm worried no girl will want me because of my height. Help.

How are we supposed to "help?" I really think you're being too hard on yourself, but how are we supposed to help? Want me to stretch you out over the internet? Hook a rack up to a wi-fi connection, then we'll talk. Until then, don't worry. You'll be fine, just don't be obnoxious.

#37 Posted by InnerSuperman (858 posts) - - Show Bio

i know a guy shorter

#38 Edited by Ellie_Knightfall (4818 posts) - - Show Bio

Here some short people who sleep with some hot ladies...... Start being funny.

Point made. All these guys are ridiculously attractive and it doesn't have alllll that much to do with their physical appearances. Personality and especially humor go SO FAR.

#39 Edited by handsome_stud (272 posts) - - Show Bio

Unfortunately, height is very important to girls. You will have to rely on dating tiny girls who are desperate.

p.s. all the 'girls' in this thread saying it doesnt matter are just trying to make you feel better. They wouldn't date a 5'3 guy or one of the midgets everyone is posting.

#40 Posted by FalconPuuunch (942 posts) - - Show Bio

Height is important to girls, but it's important that you know that just because you don't meet a girl's requirements 100% of the time doesn't mean you are destined to be a lonely midget troll who lives under a bridge and bites people and eats trash.

Improve yourself in other ways so that your height isn't such a bad thing when you are analyzed. Be good looking.. and if you can't be good looking be funny and/or charming and if you can't be any of those things be rich.

#41 Posted by nerdork (4038 posts) - - Show Bio

Unfortunately, height is very important to girls. You will have to rely on dating tiny girls who are desperate.

p.s. all the 'girls' in this thread saying it doesnt matter are just trying to make you feel better. They wouldn't date a 5'3 guy or one of the midgets everyone is posting.

Wow, aren't you Mr. Funtime.

Have we been slighted in the past?

@vg_addict: Ultimately, it will happen. If you are patient enough, and dont look for girls at bars and nightclubs, it will happen.

If all you want is sex...go to Nevada, a prostitute will be cheaper than a girlfriend.

#42 Posted by VG_Addict (19 posts) - - Show Bio

But, I WON'T grow any more inches. I've stopped growing.

Women like tall guys because he can protect her/their children from harm.

#43 Edited by mrdecepticonleader (17853 posts) - - Show Bio

Don't worry about it.Only really vain people would be picky on how tall you are.And people like that are not worth your time.

#44 Edited by ssejllenrad (12847 posts) - - Show Bio

Go to Asia! You'll be a giant! Ok, maybe not cause I'm Asian and I am a 6-footer and I'm not even a rarity... But you'll be at least of "average" height! Either that or just buy one of these:

It will make you taller! No doubt about that. :D

#45 Posted by KnightRise (4785 posts) - - Show Bio

Are you in shape and charismatic?

#46 Edited by russellmania77 (14965 posts) - - Show Bio

ur good, dont worry about ur height

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#47 Posted by Xanni15 (6758 posts) - - Show Bio

ROFL, as if height affected @deranged_midget, homeboy's been pulling in countless women, some single and loaded, some married and looking for a good time. It's all personality. PM DM for some advice, though he might not have much time with so many women falling all over him.

#48 Posted by Deranged Midget (17599 posts) - - Show Bio

@xanni15: What am I going to do about you...

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#49 Edited by JairamGanpat (952 posts) - - Show Bio

But, I WON'T grow any more inches. I've stopped growing.

Women like tall guys because he can protect her/their children from harm.

You're not 20.

#50 Posted by SC (12953 posts) - - Show Bio

Sorry bro, I am only 10 years old, and already I am 7 foot 9 tall, with mansion and swimming pool. I have a ten pack of abs, and huge sexy muscles that make woman and gay men swoon hardcore for my hot bod. Plus I treat people bad, but I good at sex, like real good. Like if sex was Olympic sport I get all gold, silver, bronze medals, and finish first and last and then get voted President of it. Its my charisma and body and height and good at sexiness really, plus I smell nice and date super models - woman ones, and so I can't relate to normal people problems, sorry.

Did I mention I am kind of a big deal? My advice though is spend all your time daydreaming and wishing that you were me. Makes you feel good in side. Peace out!

My second advice though if your imagination not good enough to imagine life as me, don't worry about things you can't change. Worry about things you can change. Height is a relatively superficial trait. If you view shortness as a negative and that it reflects negatively on yourself, what does that tell other people about you? Focus on other things, focus on being happy for your own sake, take up a sport, taking up a martial art, take up dance, take up rock climbing, take up a musical instrument, take up art - life drawing. If you are fond of the idea of having a romantic partner in your life, then do things that increase the size of your social circles, but probably better to find happiness for yourself on your own terms first, which means not worrying about things like height, embrace your height. Then if you are around people, especially those with common and shared interests, you demonstrate to people your best qualities and thats attractive to people, more so than height. I mean if your most attractive quality is that your tall, then your kind of screwed. It is a desirable trait for many people sure, the same way lots of shallow traits can tend to be desirable, but there are a lot of people out there who are deeper with their priorities. Okay now I have to go back to working out my 10 pack. Good luck at finding self acceptance, all people should find it. Not everyone is lucky enough to be born really really really good looking and smelling like me.

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