I know I'm gonna get a lot of negative comments in making this thread, but with the issue of domestic abuse everywhere in the media lately, more often than not painting men exclusively as the abusers. I have to say it's not true. Just browsing the deviantart forum I found this disturbing thread:
http://forum.deviantart.com/community/life/2006680/
My friend had a really bad fight with his girlfriend, she and him were on a date when she tried to put a duct tape on his mouth and shoving his face into her...well you probably can guess. He flipped the hell. out. and yelled about how he wasn't her slave and how this is what's happening to dudes everywhere and he was trying to study for his college midterm but now he's having problems because he keeps imagining himself in that situation. I've tried to console him on the matter but to no avail.
^The rest of the comments in that thread are worth reading too.
Women can be abusers too. Need I even mention that there are just a handful of domestic abuse shelters for men?
I know that male on female violence is arguably more common, but female on male violence does happen as well. Men who aren't violent shouldn't have to feel as if they are guilty of something or that they're eventually going to use violence against their spouse due to what the media says and false studies.
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