So you meet someone. You're about to have sex. HOPEFULLY, you use a condom or something else to stop STD's. You continue to get to know each other and have sex. She is on the pill so she can't get pregnant. Question: At what point do you stop using protection against STD's? After how many dates? What happens that convinces you it's safe to go "raw"?
When Do You Stop Using Protection During Sex?
Never, I hate children.
Weird question. Still it will be interesting to see the responses. IMO you don't stop until you trust your spouse 100 percent and vice-versa.
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Never, I hate children.
@fallschirmjager: @crom_cruach:
THere is anotHer option, since you two "Hate kids", you botH can get neutered.
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MetH says you sHould never stop wearing a condom unless you're married or plan on Having kids.
MetH knows and Has A LOT of friends wHo Have kids because tHey Had unprotected sex. Some because tHey simply didn't Have a rubber on tHem, otHers because tHey been dating for years, and some didn't even date tHat long like montHs but tHey "loved and trusted" eacH otHer.
Kids are MAD stupid procreating more kids and tHe grand parents end up raising tHem.
June'sVeryOwn -ABstract4$$#073-
@m3th: ...Fallschirmjager is wondering why Meth is typing in third person.
@fallschirmjager: Because MetH is a fairly Huge fan of THe Great One, THe People's CHampion, The Pie-Eating, Jabroni beating, trail blazing, Eye Brow Raising, Most ELECTRIFYING MAN in Sports Entertainment, Rocky Maivia.
June'sVeryOwn -ABstract4$$#073-
At a point where I am okay with the possibility of having children.
No form of birth control is 100% effective. It's just a matter of having better defenses. Not completely foolproof, but I'd like to keep the drawbridge up rather than rely only on the honor guard. Having both up equals better odds. Even better if I account for the possibility of retreat.
There's also the matter that I don't completely trust the captain of the honor guard; she might let the guards have a break. So, with the drawbridge, I'll at least have that if the guards are on leave for that day.
I will continue with the castle euphemism for the duration of this thread. See if you can figure it out.
Nobody read the OP, evidently... he was asking when do you take the condom off because of STDs, if she's on the pill.
I don't think there's a rule. If you trust the person and have been together long enough to know that she doesn't have an STD, then go for it. I mean, you can ask, it's not such a terrible question.
After you ask her to get tested and it comes back negative.
So you meet someone. You're about to have sex. HOPEFULLY, you use a condom or something else to stop STD's. You continue to get to know each other and have sex. She is on the pill so she can't get pregnant. Question: At what point do you stop using protection against STD's? After how many dates? What happens that convinces you it's safe to go "raw"?
Interesting question. Before I begin I feel that I should mention that the pill doesn't have a 100% success rate- I don't think there are any non-surgical forms of birth control that are foolproof.
That being said, your question was protection against STDs, so my answer to that would be get your partner tested. Some STDs can be relatively hard to notice at first, especially with women. Mind you, virgins generally don't appreciate it when they're asked to get tested for STDs, what with them being virgins, but as not all STDs are transmitted solely through sexual activity, it's still a good idea to get them tested.
So you meet someone. You're about to have sex. HOPEFULLY, you use a condom or something else to stop STD's. You continue to get to know each other and have sex. She is on the pill so she can't get pregnant. Question: At what point do you stop using protection against STD's? After how many dates? What happens that convinces you it's safe to go "raw"?
Shot out to Pooty for making great threads.
Back to the thread. I stopped in my last long term after 2 1/2 years we were clean and such. I just had to pull out. But that's just my story.
it depends. I'd say pop the hood and check evrerything out before you consider it. You can't do a full on cave excavation but just check it out during foreplay, look at her lips inside/out and take note if she's leaking anything other than a clear saliva-ish liquid. Also avoid having sex while she's on her period. Even with a rubber it's the most disgusting thing I've ever done. So, overall you can within a short amount of time just remember to pull out and pick a target.
Never. Lord knows where the girls been before shes been with you however, im guilty of not using rubber. Even though my Mom taught me manners.
Never, I hate children.
after you've both been tested for STD's and you both want kids. Otherwise, keep using a rubber and pills
Never stop until ur ready.to have kids.
This. Wife's on the pill and I wear condoms. We don't want kids.
Imo you dont stop using protection unless you're trying to get her pregnant. Even if she's on the pill it's not a 100% guarantee that she wont get pregnant.
Never becuz unlike puppies human babies aren't cute and are gross so you wouldn't want to be taken care of something like that.
Imo you dont stop using protection unless you're trying to get her pregnant. Even if she's on the pill it's not a 100% guarantee that she wont get pregnant.
Yup. My mother got pregnant on the pill with my little brother.
I enjoy teasing him by telling him he was a mistake =D
(Although my mother had me when she was 17 soo....)
it depends. I'd say pop the hood and check evrerything out before you consider it. You can't do a full on cave excavation but just check it out during foreplay, look at her lips inside/out and take note if she's leaking anything other than a clear saliva-ish liquid. Also avoid having sex while she's on her period. Even with a rubber it's the most disgusting thing I've ever done. So, overall you can within a short amount of time just remember to pull out and pick a target.
That's...surprisingly good advice.
Imo you dont stop using protection unless you're trying to get her pregnant. Even if she's on the pill it's not a 100% guarantee that she wont get pregnant.
Yup. My mother got pregnant on the pill with my little brother.
I enjoy teasing him by telling him he was a mistake =D
(Although my mother had me when she was 17 soo....)
Oh God, I read this so wrong...
@nickzambuto: -.-.....
No. Just no.
Never because I need to have sex before I make this decision. But :
Never, I hate children.
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