What do I do too get my Ex back?

I love my ex so much I really want to make this work. What should I say or do? HELP PLEASE!! ;-(

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@stormphoenix: what happened why did your ex leave you

Steath_Warrior! Your back. :)

Seriously though, do you know why he left?

@stormphoenix: Why would you come here for relationship advice?

No you have to make them miss you, show them the side of you they loved but indirectly you have to make them question if it was worth leavingyou but you have to do this all indirectly. And make sure they don't know that they can take you back whenever they want they have to know as little as possible what's going through your head, in their minds you have to be that happy person they wanted to be with but without them.

@stormphoenix: Don't harass your ex. Tell them ONCE how you feel, but if they don't reciprocate DO NOT BOTHER THEM.

Find someone better, bro.

@saren@vance_astro There is no way that he's serious about receiving advice, he just wants attention.

Can we lock this?

Infinite tsukuyomi

NARC!

@jonez120 said:

How do you know?

The OP is sort of vague. If you explain things more clearly, I'd reckon you'd get a lot more help.

Why do people ask for relationship advice here? -.-

Find some glue and put it all over your chest, then run at them and hug them.

Don't get desperate, you'll end up below her and that is not what a relationship should be about, you deserve better and so does she. Just tell her that you want to try again, if she is not interested you just have to accept it and do your best in moving on. I know it can feel like you'll never find someone else or never be happy but those feelings are normal after a breakup and they WILL pass, just hold on and give it some time, put yourself out there and see other people as soon as you are ready. There's probably things you could do to convince her or trick her into staying a while longer but is that really the relationship you want? Where you are convincing your partner to be with you rather then them actually wanting that? Sometimes you just don't match, even if you are both great people.

...its called the Rusty-Trombone..try it...works every time.

• Message her frequently, complimenting her and telling her how you feel about her in depth. Believe or not this isn't being clingy, it's just showing that you are thoughtful and care about her. Woman are biologically attracted to that.
• Try your hardest to become good friends with all of her friends. Even casually flirt with them if you see the opportunity. This shows that you want to be a part of her whole world and can be confident and friendly.
• Don't take crap from her Dad or any other relative. Openly challenge them - be aggressive. If they say you aren't good for her, tell them why you are - why they aren't. Who are they to judge if you're fit for her? That's up to you.
• Try to cry infront of her. Even if you're not even upset just poke yourself in the eye or think about a dead relative. Get the waterworks flowing and confess your love to her. I guarantee this will provoke extremely strong nostalgia in her.
• Don't be afraid to argue with her. Even if something seems pointless, don't let up or let her win. Just keep arguing about stuff. Get it all out in the open. Relationships are about trust, and building strong foundations. Get everything you hate about her and what she does out of your system regularly, and let her do the same. Come to terms with your differences. And don't say sorry either.

@i_like_swords: And then you burn her alive once you gain her trust, right?

@The_Deathstroker: Well, you do that either way. Gaining her trust is just for sh*ts and gigs.

@i_like_swords: Good. Very good.

You're training will soon be complete, Lord Maul. The Dark Side is strong in you.

@The_Deathstroker: Yes, Master.

*bows*

people have some good answers, some well thought out ones actually....for a completely cryptic vague post. lol

Forget her and move on.

You can have 99 problems, but a woman shouldn't be one.- The great Philosopher Sean Carter. D

Dont let her know she won. Women love a challenge, she wont come back if you're a mope. That doesn't mean jump from girl to girl to make her jealous, it just means don't let her know you're hurting.

@gojira2014: This guy gets it.

Disregard women, acquire currency.

Exactly this. There's always someone better in my opinion.

I agree, money over chicks any day. With money you can afford love for the nights you really want it lol.

I agree, money over chicks any day. With money you can afford love for the nights you really want it lol.

Okay, apparently I can't upload images right now, so I'll stick to an actual reply.

Nothing. Presumably she was the one who dumped you, and she did it for a reason, respect that and leave her the f*ck alone.

Rohypnol

Figure out how you effed up.

Fix it.

Boom, that easy.

@jonez120: Dude hush with that.

@nickthedevil: hmmm ok cool thanks :-)

@stormphoenix: Why did you break up

This....depending on the reason for the break up, and I'm assuming she dumped you....you would probably be better suited getting over her and finding someone new.

@lunacyde: @w0nd: It was a guy. And I'm a guy. What happened is that I made a mistake I did not cheat on him. It was certain information that he found out about me that he felt like I should have told him earlier. I apologized for it he forgave me but he WON'T let it go and also to let you know he cheated on me before and I forgave him. I'm just a little irritated because something this small he WON'T forgive me. But he still talking to me we go to the movies together etc but he claims he doesn't want to be in a relationship and be friends OK that's fine with me but he calls me and txt me trying to see what I'm doing and etc.

Become rich

so maybe you have to accept he just wants to be friends for now. You push it and it might piss him off because you don't respect boundaries. May I ask what you love about him? What about him are you in love with, that you cannot get from anyone else?

Just my viewpoint, but if he cheated on you that's one strike. If he is unable to forgive this other bit of information, that is two strikes. Leading you on would be three strikes.

I am just saying if I was in your position and it was a girl I would move on because I don't think that is a good relationship.

@w0nd: What I love about him Is that he's been there for me he is someone I am willing to spend my whole life with him. I love him because he has showed me what it really feels like to be loved and not alone. I have been in lots of Horrible relationships and he was like a breathe of fresh air.

@lunacyde: Ok :( thanks.

fair enough, i hope it works out, but in most situations when someone says they aren't ready and then you are pushy, do you think that will make them say "You know what you aren't listening and i love that so we will date" or would they respond with "He isn't respecting me or listening to me, and i cant with someone who doesn't listen"

Firearms.....

Or do this

Tell her who you feel and she don't really like you find another it will help in a long run

This is why you end up alone.

Although i am sure you are just being facetious.