#151 Posted by _Cain_ (23371 posts) - - Show Bio

Okay not going to sit here and discuss my various exploits at what I've done/haven't done and why, but what I WILL do is ask a question that will throw the thread off a bit, maybe.

I have a friend that's gotten to third base twice (but never went all the way) with a girlfriend of his...Is that considered "losing your virginity?" 0_o

#152 Posted by MatKrenz (1223 posts) - - Show Bio

Cause im not in any kind of relationship with the opposite gender. Wish I was tho, more I venture outside the more I feel lonely. Or get a dog, dog's are cool to.

#153 Edited by evilvegeta74 (4517 posts) - - Show Bio

??????? I see a lot of people I talk with here, I wonder about myself now. Still I will not comment about this subject.

#154 Edited by KnightRise (4753 posts) - - Show Bio

First time was a total fluke. I was "lucky" enough to have a female bestfriend at the time who was amorous, vindictive, the recent ex-girlfriend of one of my other friends, and who thought my odd overconfident-yet-desperate combo was attractive. I'm 20 now; it's only been three-four years since so any of youm that are getting anxious about your own need not worry.

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Did I just turn something awesome into a beta thread story??

#155 Edited by RazzaTazz (9351 posts) - - Show Bio

It is pretty fun but not really enough to base a relationship around, unless you are 18.

OR

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.

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#156 Edited by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio

@razzatazz:

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.

Or you can just shag and run.

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#157 Posted by UNDERDOGZ (1042 posts) - - Show Bio

I'm Afraid I can't please a Woman Cuz

My Weenie is not that big. YET.

#158 Posted by Ellie_Knightfall (4805 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux said:

@pyrogram: Everybody knows Mercy_ has eyes for Ilyl and him only >.>

Nah. She beds as many guys as Jean Grey dies and Tom Brady cries.

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#159 Edited by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio
#160 Posted by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio
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#161 Posted by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio
#162 Posted by Ellie_Knightfall (4805 posts) - - Show Bio
#163 Edited by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio

@ellie_knightfall: No I am not. You love me to death, I am gorgeous, and I adore Emma Frost. You couldn't list me if you wanted to.

Laflux, well he's just SOL.

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#164 Edited by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

@god_spawn said:

Laflux, well he's just SOL.

When you have been through what I have, you soon realize the folly in attributing success to something as trivial as "luck". Every victory has come at the cost of tears of blood, and as a result this thread, this forum, no, this site is my arena

@ellie_knightfall: So bring it...........................

#165 Posted by Owen_Porter (83268 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: If pulling that out and smacking it on the table during a date doesnt get you laid nothing will.

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#166 Edited by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: Are you under six feet in height?

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#167 Edited by PurpleCandy (772 posts) - - Show Bio

I'm just gonna be sure to wrap that condom on special tight, and I'm also scared about std via body contact.

#168 Edited by Necrotic_Lycanthrope (2388 posts) - - Show Bio

Because I'm not stupid like others girls at my school. Plus it involves extremely negative personal matters (won't discuss what they are. But I'll only say that it's not a nice thing to think about when you're in your 20's.)

#169 Edited by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

@purplecandy: My response to that link was "for f*ck sake". No seriously, I'm not joking.

@gambler: *Thumbs up*

@laflux: Are you under six feet in height?

And if I am O_o ?

#170 Posted by Petite_Oiseau (226 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: @god_spawn: When you least expect it...

@gambler said:

@laflux: If pulling that out and smacking it on the table during a date doesnt get you laid nothing will.

spits drink

#171 Edited by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: Then you have an advantage in height. The smaller you are in combat, the less chance DH can get you with her patented crotch shot. It's her normal punching range for anyone over 6 foot.

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#172 Edited by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

@gambler said:

@laflux: If pulling that out and smacking it on the table during a date doesnt get you laid nothing will.

spits drink

There is so much I can do with this, its a shame its a Child friendly website

#173 Edited by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio
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#174 Edited by Petite_Oiseau (226 posts) - - Show Bio

Because I'm not stupid like others girls at my school. Plus it involves extremely negative personal matters (won't discuss what they are. But I'll only say that it's not a nice thing to think about when you're in your 20's.)

Wait, so you (and presumably the other girls at your school) are in your 20's, but they're dumb for having sex...?

I mean, if you have your own personal hang ups with it (and I'm sorry if you do, I know plenty who do for a myriad of reasons and none of them pleasant, or they're simply asexual), that's your thing. But it's kind of bogus to judge others on whether they do or not.

#175 Posted by Nerx (15088 posts) - - Show Bio

go to a social gathering with alcohol. easiest way to lose your virginity no doubt and it will seem less awkward for sure. use protection!

Sometimes that works, other times they vomit on yer d!ck

go figure

#176 Edited by Necrotic_Lycanthrope (2388 posts) - - Show Bio

@petite_oiseau:

The ages vary immensely (it's a university, so there are teens all the way to middle aged grownups). But a lot of the talk I overhear or , heaven forbid, the scribbles that drip from the bathroom stalls have nothing but sex talk written all over them. Like one girl thought she would get pregnant from french kissing (no joke).

I find it dumb that they have to announce the sex to everybody with either articles about it in the school newspaper or from graffiti. I know I'm a prude, but I still can't understand why there are girls who do this in real life.

Plus I feel like it's playing with fire. Sure I hear it's fun, but so is speed racing. But without caution, you'll end up crashing (kids on one end, or a concussion with the other.)

And just to clear it up a bit, I'm not asexual. It has to do with hereditary things.

#177 Posted by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio
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#178 Posted by Necrotic_Lycanthrope (2388 posts) - - Show Bio

@god_spawn:

Sad, but horrifically true. And in college too.

You'd think people never took biology courses before.

#179 Posted by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

@necrotic_lycanthrope:

Like one girl thought she would get pregnant from french kissing (no joke).

Fun fact, a Kiss actually transfers less bacteria than a Handshake :)

#180 Posted by Owen_Porter (83268 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: Thats what I keep telling em, but for some reason they still wont let me wear the condom on my hand during sex. Silly broads.

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#181 Posted by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: Fun fact, a minute long kiss can burn 2-5 calories.

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#182 Edited by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

@gambler said:

@laflux: Thats what I keep telling em, but for some reason they still wont let me wear the condom on my hand during sex. Silly broads.

Watch this man, learn from him, and maybe, just maybe, one day you will be half as great as him.

@laflux: Then you have an advantage in height. The smaller you are in combat, the less chance DH can get you with her patented crotch shot. It's her normal punching range for anyone over 6 foot.

#183 Edited by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

@god_spawn: I knew that one, but your on the right lines :P

#184 Edited by Necrotic_Lycanthrope (2388 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux said:

@god_spawn said:

@necrotic_lycanthrope:

Like one girl thought she would get pregnant from french kissing (no joke).

Fun fact, a Kiss actually transfers less bacteria than a Handshake :)

Depends on what you kiss, and what you grab. ;P

#185 Posted by TheAcidSkull (15935 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: STOP DRAGGING ME BACK HERE! ALL THE CRAZIES OF THE VINE ARE HERE! AND MY INSANITY LEVEL WILL MAKE THINGS WORSE DAMMIT!

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#186 Posted by TheAcidSkull (15935 posts) - - Show Bio

@petite_oiseau:

The ages vary immensely (it's a university, so there are teens all the way to middle aged grownups). But a lot of the talk I overhear or , heaven forbid, the scribbles that drip from the bathroom stalls have nothing but sex talk written all over them. Like one girl thought she would get pregnant from french kissing (no joke).

i simply refuse to believe this.

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#187 Posted by Necrotic_Lycanthrope (2388 posts) - - Show Bio
#188 Posted by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio
#189 Posted by God_Spawn (35982 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: I heard Hulk has an STD called gammaria the thunderclap. Must have gotten it from Red She-Hulk.

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#190 Edited by TDK_1997 (13697 posts) - - Show Bio

I haven't lost it because when I get close to a girl I get friendzoned.

And also for the people who say sex is overrated - Why do this to me guys?WHY?

#191 Edited by Petite_Oiseau (226 posts) - - Show Bio

Why are people encouraging Gambler is the real question here?

#192 Edited by Petite_Oiseau (226 posts) - - Show Bio

@necrotic_lycanthrope said:

@petite_oiseau:

The ages vary immensely (it's a university, so there are teens all the way to middle aged grownups). But a lot of the talk I overhear or , heaven forbid, the scribbles that drip from the bathroom stalls have nothing but sex talk written all over them. Like one girl thought she would get pregnant from french kissing (no joke).

I find it dumb that they have to announce the sex to everybody with either articles about it in the school newspaper or from graffiti. I know I'm a prude, but I still can't understand why there are girls who do this in real life.

Plus I feel like it's playing with fire. Sure I hear it's fun, but so is speed racing. But without caution, you'll end up crashing (kids on one end, or a concussion with the other.)

And just to clear it up a bit, I'm not asexual. It has to do with hereditary things.

Alright and I agree that's not appropriate, but I still don't think it makes them dumb for choosing to have sex (and just to clarify, this is addressing the scribbling on the stalls).

A girl thinking that she would get pregnant from french kissing is....troublesome to say the least. But I think it's more indicative of the abstinence only sex ed that's taught throughout schools (at least in the US). Sure, kids can go out and get educated themselves pretty easily online (and I don't mean through porn or anything like that, it's not hard to find basic facts about sexual education online), but you can't expect them to know it if they haven't been taught it or had open discussions about it where they can feel free to ask any questions they may have.

There are girls getting pregnant in high school because instead of being taught how to have safe sex - they were taught to not have it at all. And while I don't condone high schoolers going out and banging each other necessarily, it's entirely unrealistic to expect them not to.

(I apologize about this turning into a bit of a sex ed rant that's not entirely on topic, feel free to disregard if you want to).

Hey, it's not for everybody and there's nothing wrong with that, your views and wants (or lack) in your own life are just that - your own. The only thing I was really addressing in your post was the judging of others for choosing to do what they wanted :)

#193 Posted by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

Why are people encouraging Gambler is the real question here?

By people are you referring to just one person? Also, since your using one of your Alts, bring back avalonia!!!!!!

@laflux: I heard Hulk has an STD called gammaria the thunderclap. Must have gotten it from Red She-Hulk.

First off, gamma enhanced tatty-bo-jangles for the win, and second of @theacidskull can't hide. My mum is still waiting for her alimony >.> <.< >.>

#194 Edited by Petite_Oiseau (226 posts) - - Show Bio

@laflux: Yes, you lol

She's away for now :P

#195 Posted by Killemall (16963 posts) - - Show Bio

Damn this thread has been a lot more humble then i expected it to be :)

As per topic no, coz i have been in a relationship for nearly 7 years now, things just sort of happens.

#196 Edited by laflux (11078 posts) - - Show Bio

@killemall: So this is what it takes to get you out of the battle forum lol.

#197 Posted by ComicStooge (9695 posts) - - Show Bio

I'm 15, my virginity is still intact.

#198 Edited by theONEtaichou (1450 posts) - - Show Bio

I am still waiting, and it's hard (no pun intended).

I just never got around to it when I suppose I could have had, was just too picky and obsessed about finding the one... now that I am older and mature I just cannot seem to part with it for something meaningless... I guess I am waiting for marriage...

#199 Edited by kfhrfdu_89_76k (3664 posts) - - Show Bio

Still have it, `cause I have never even gone to a single date, let alone dated someone. It`s `cause I`m not interested enough, and also a bit scared about the whole mating thing. Which also means that I`m not ready for one night stands yet.

Frankly, it doesn`t bother me. At least, not yet.

Besides, I`m only 18 (19 in June).

#200 Edited by Xaos (130 posts) - - Show Bio

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.

Sorry Razzatazz but that's the worst advice ever.

Better to be happy alone than unhappy with someone you force yourself to love. (Admitting you can do that anyway. )

I stayed virgin untill my 19th years, today I'm married and got two kids. For a long time, I wanted to be laid, when it happen, it was nice and all, but I figured it wasn't worth all the drama and angst I putted in when I was a teen.

But as Razzatazz said, you can't base a relationship around sex, and I tend to think that as every people got a pain tolerance, every people can't get the same pleasure in life, and some of us aren't equal before the sexual pleasure.