Sex is what you put into it. If you want it to be good, then you gotta put in some energy. People who say sex is overrated never had great sex. Sorry if that offends some of you, but it's true. Foreplay should always be longer than the act itself because that it was revs you up for it. Simply going boom boom and done, won't cut it for either party. If you guys really want great sex then talk to your partner about what she likes and wants from you. Most of the time both people go into it blind, without any knowledge what they are doing or planning to do. Sex is a team game and everybody gotta be in the same mindset. There is nothing wrong with planning sex in advance, too many people think it's spontaneous or some right moment bullshit (I thank romance movies for that). Go out and experiment. You never gonna be good if you don't practice.
Next, onto the topic of abstinence. No offense to anyone, but I also find the saving your virginity for you true love to be utterly retarded. Trust me, if you want your true love to be 'blown away', you should goddamn practice beforehand lmao. Nothing worse than a person who races to the finish line to quick (if you get what I mean) or someone who's never been behind the wheel.
So my advice, go get some girls, or guy, whatever floats your boat, and practice away. Of course, keep in mind that protection should always be used and never trust anyone who says their 'careful'. Plan ahead for this kind of stuff and leave adequate time for sex. Don't leave like 15 minutes in your schedule for it, actually leave like an hour or two. It allows ample time to experiment and/or practice. Also, given the amount of time, you might be able to go back for seconds.
For my last part, which many people don't do. Get some equipment, like any sport you need the gear to play. One such thing is lube. Every person is different, so it's better to have it hand. If you want to, go buy some of those 'experimental' lube, the ones that enhances sexual contact or the ones that taste like stuff. Oh, also before I forget. Don't buy cheap condoms. Spend a little more on the nice stuff, such as extra thin (for you pleasure) or ribbed (for her's). Quality beats quantity in this scenario. Last thing you want is a condom breaking while you're in the middle of it, because I'm pretty sure none of you want to be a father with the girl you're casually banging.
Here is what I have to say. Take as you wish. Good luck on your sexual escapades!
( + )