Virginity: Why do you still have it? Why dont you have it?

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I can barely go 3 days without having sex.....once you perfect the craft it becomes addicting lol

O_o

@joshmightbe: I walked in on my parents once. It completely destroyed me mentally for the next couple of years. Luckily I was so young that I repressed the details of it, but sometimes I wake up screaming at night. Oh well, you live and you learn. Also, one more thing I should have mentioned in my earlier post. Lock the goddamn door lmao. I have walked in on my roommate and friends so many times because they don't lock the door.

I'm 22 old man and if you ask me why I'm still a virgin... I dunno. I guess I never had a chance.

@purplecandy:

If you want a tip from a girl, stop calling/thinking about people as ugly or that you will "settle" for someone, that attitude is extremely off-putting and you'll never get laid thinking like that.. Other then that all you need is some confidence and make it clear what you want, no girl is going to throw themselfs on you for subtle hints, because they simply dont have too.

You make a good point, but its also worth pointing out that it doesnt -have- to be terrible. Read up on how bodies work, learn from peoples experiences what most people consider good and not and it can actually be quite good even the first time.. But yes, dont freak out if its awkward and weird, thats normal.

My personal opinion is this: Do what feels right to you, if you want to wait until you are married or for the right person do it, dont let people tell you its silly or wrong because its not if thats what you want, different people value different things whether its simply the pleasure or a spiritual sharing, just make sure that the person you do end up is who you want it to be and not just some guy/girl who said they love you, some people will go there just to get what they want.
If you want to "practice" before settling down or never settling down thats okay too, again aslong as its what you want, just make sure that you are safe everytime.. Being a parent is a commitment for 18 years and if you have another before they are passed its extended, this is not something you want by accident, "pulling out" is not safe.. I also know several girls who have said they are on the pill because they WANT a baby and they dont care with who, or they think they can just grab one the day after wich isnt a guarantee, and even if no one gets pregnant theres so many diseases out there.

@awesam: all lies and false propaganda. Its excactl wat people make it out to be lol.

Here is what I do and have a lot of success. In all situations just ask ur self WWBD? Wat would batnan do? He would train and just be ready. When u see a chic u like jus bruce wayne her, if she don't bite, her loss lol also having billions would help but ur young, jus be cool it will happen.

What she said.

Also, wear a condom.

That is all.

@bruxae: Never said it had to be terrible, just saying people shouldn't feel too bad if it is the first time.

@lykopis:

@joygirl

I've always been weary of threads like this, as it does give people the chance to lie about their sexual prowess. For all I know Joygirl could be a 40 year bearded 6'6 woman with size 12 feet, whose loud booming voice deters all but the most fearsome, brave of men. Lyko could be a freakishly small, blonde Canadian woman who overuse of heels only hides her desperate need to be taller. And of course both could be asexual.................. :P

Anyways back on topic, I'm going to come and say it. A romantic french kiss for me is better than sex. Yes, I'm a male, who has not been castrated >.>. That awesome feeling when your about to lean in and you can feel her/his breath, your lips lock and for that while your as your tongues intertwine and you draw closer everything goes fuzzy . Be it with someone your in a committed relationship with, or someone you met a bar or club, that is honestly what does my shiz for me :P. Not saying sex isn't good, or can be great, but meh maybe its just me lol.

Also think about it this way. You go to you local discotheque. You're on your a game (Girls and Boys) and you bring someone back. You can only sleep with that person- unless you happen to be Barney Stinston- and even he hasn't cracked the threesome wall- yet. Or you can to a local discotheque and snog a girl/boy. If you do that, there is nothing to stop you from snogging another, or another, or another all in the same night. Set a target, and see how many you can get :), and there is a brofist for anyone who manages more than 4 :P

Except you @pyrogram. I hold you to higher standards ;)

Personally, I think the pressure to have sex in western nations is way to high. Your first time won't be that great in most cases. Enjoy the little things, that what I say :)

As for the question at hand, I am keen follower of the methods of @gambler. That should clear up everything

I disagree thoroughly. Crazy= Awesome, just watch out for where the hands are going ;)

@laflux: Crazy can be a lot of fun but it can also be trouble, also it depends on what kind of crazy. If you mean it as a bit odd then its cool, if you mean actual crazy it goes wrong fast.

You must not be doing it right

Possibly. Possibly not. I found that the girl is usually the one who doesn't know what they're doing.

@laflux:

;)

Joygirl has size 12 feet?

@pyrogram: That's how we roll :P

Is that the only thing you took out from that rant.....................

@laflux: Indeed, lucky - if we ever met and went too a nightclub, the other guys would be shit outa luck

Because I can't get rid of the damn thing. Believe me I want to but I haven't found the time, place or person :P

Religion is a great excuse for everything

I'm saving mine til Honey Boo Boo becomes of age.

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So here is a question....does it matter if you have it or not? I mean in all honesty, in the grand scheme of things does it truly matter when there are other things to do?

Why don't i have my virginity? ummm let me think about it.. because i threw it at the first girl that was willing to take it that's why lol luckily she was very attractive.

I agree, an overrated issue. Plus we all know it's far easier for girls to get laid vs. guys(for obvious reasons)

@ Nerx, nahh religion isn't an excuse it's something that some people respect, while others don't. Some folks have important religious and moral values. A bad thing? Considering how shallow society is today, I think not....

In all seriousness, I can pretty much guarantee that in a university dominated nightclub-particularly of freshers, there is around a 50% chance of me snogging someone at the least. However, make the people a few years older, and I'm almost guaranteed to fail :P. Dem older girls do not know what they are missing >.>

Nope. I fell on a fence post.

@laflux:

Me too! Cough, fell. Cough. Slippery fences ya know...

@wildvine: No Fooling honey. Ever try to fly using the swing ? :P

@pyrogram: What makes that even more awesome is that you have the races just right.

@laflux: I chose it specifically! :P

I have a good reply, but this is a kids site. So....

@wildvine: Which begs the question why is this here :P

Yes. Many times.

Point for you dear.

TRUTH!

@wildvine: send it via PM ;)

@wildvine: Meet me at the monkey bars :D

lol, the fence comment was funny :P Like the girl on the "bike" right? haha

haha should have known :P

@laflux:

I'm already here! Where you? *waves*

@vaeternus: Yep all the same urban myth :D

idk this is coming from the liar

@fuchsia_nightingale: Hey! Don't make me make a whole topic shaming you about it :P

@wildvine: joins you and tries to get more the three before falling

@pyrogram: That's what I tell myself after being C-Blocked :(

@laflux: Dude...this in that-case.

Do what feels right to you, and don't care about what anyone else might say/think about it. There can be a great many reasons why people might (choose to) be a virgin or have sex. Personal beliefs, religion, your own morals/values, waiting for that special person, no sex drive etc. People will judge you regardless of what you do anyway.

Virgin: "oh he/she can't find a partner"

1 sexpartner: "just one? That's pathetic"

Multiple partners: "damn he/she gets around, must be easy"

Casual sex/one night stands with different people: "what a sl#t"

Doesn't matter what you do, everyone will have their opinion. And it doesn't matter as long as you don't let what other people think affect you. Do what feels right to you, it doesn't make you better or worse if you're a virgin or not. As long as you feel comfortable with it, and the person you're with.

@pyrogram: What I don't want them to kick me in the balls :(

@theacidskull: its for the best...................