Maybe this is not what the vine is for, but I can't think of anyone else to tell. My friends take nothing seriously. High school is not what television promised me a a child. Recently, my friends and I have found our place in a larger group of people at lunch. Within this group is a girl who I am hopelessly infatuated with. The worst part is, I've only known her for a few weeks. She's adorable. I've made a few attempts at conversation, but nothing intimate. There is a possibility that she actually likes my jokes, but it is more likely that she laughs at how horribly not-funny they are. I've never considered myself incredibly good looking. I've never considered myself to be incredibly unattractive either. I honestly have no idea what girls think of me. A good chunk of my friends are girls. I don't talk to them about anything serious. There have been girls who have had crushes on me. I've never liked any of them back. There have been girls who I have had crushes on. Only one has ever liked me back. Help, please. I'd appreciate it if any of you have any advice dealing with how to spontaneously forget about a girl.
This is pretty juvenile, but can anyone help me?
from experience and what ive seen around, regardless of gender, infatuations end badly. mainly because the one infatuated is putty in the hands of the other person. but best of luck to ya.
@JonSmith said:
You are correct, sir. This is not really the place for that. Go to Giantbomb. Create the topic there. They have this:
This picture is amazing.
Best advice about girls/woman/ladies is, dont ask for advice about them. Seriously, you learn about girls the hard way. Trial and error. Just keep sitting at her table and talking with her. Trust your instincts (some Yoda sh!t right there but it works lol) if your first instincts are telling that she thinks you're funny/laughing at your jokes, then she probably is. The more you talk with her the better your chances are of getting a read/sensing her attraction (or lack there of) for you. If you start to think she likes you casually ask her to go hang out (or whatever it is you crazy kids are doing these days). But never, NEEEEEVER, confess your undying love for her. Never let on just how infatuated you are with her, you bury that noise down deep lol This is fine science son, you gotta be surgical :P
(Warning: The above suggestion may backfire horribly and forever damage you as a highschooler. Gambler is not responsible for any failed,broken, or tragic love stories. The above actions may cause her best friend to like you instead. May also cause sleep deprivation, starvation, loss of weight, insomnia, and bad grades)
@Gambler said:
Best advice about girls/woman/ladies is, dont ask for advice about them. Seriously, you learn about girls the hard way. Trial and error. Just keep sitting at her table and talking with her. Trust your instincts (some Yoda sh!t right there but it works lol) if your first instincts are telling that she thinks you're funny/laughing at your jokes, then she probably is. The more you talk with her the better your chances are of getting a read/sensing her attraction (or lack there of) for you. If you start to think she likes you casually ask her to go hang out (or whatever it is you crazy kids are doing these days). But never, NEEEEEVER, confess your undying love for her. Never let on just how infatuated you are with her, you bury that noise down deep lol This is fine science son, you gotta be surgical :P
(Warning: The above suggestion may backfire horribly and forever damage you as a highschooler. Gambler is not responsible for any failed,broken, or tragic love stories. The above actions may cause her best friend to like you instead. May also cause sleep deprivation, starvation, loss of weight, insomnia, and bad grades)
I love how he has to put a disclaimer beneath it.
The only way to ever forget about a girl is to replace her with another girl. Even then, you never really forget, but you do, at least, forget to think about the first girl so much.
@JonSmith said:
You are correct, sir. This is not really the place for that. Go to Giantbomb. Create the topic there. They have this:
LMFAO PERFECTION.
@Gambler said:
Best advice about girls/woman/ladies is, dont ask for advice about them. Seriously, you learn about girls the hard way. Trial and error. Just keep sitting at her table and talking with her. Trust your instincts (some Yoda sh!t right there but it works lol) if your first instincts are telling that she thinks you're funny/laughing at your jokes, then she probably is. The more you talk with her the better your chances are of getting a read/sensing her attraction (or lack there of) for you. If you start to think she likes you casually ask her to go hang out (or whatever it is you crazy kids are doing these days). But never, NEEEEEVER, confess your undying love for her. Never let on just how infatuated you are with her, you bury that noise down deep lol This is fine science son, you gotta be surgical :P
(Warning: The above suggestion may backfire horribly and forever damage you as a highschooler. Gambler is not responsible for any failed,broken, or tragic love stories. The above actions may cause her best friend to like you instead. May also cause sleep deprivation, starvation, loss of weight, insomnia, and bad grades)
This....but beware the Friend Zone
Yo, dawg. Get Surgical. Like Denzel.Best advice about girls/woman/ladies is, dont ask for advice about them. Seriously, you learn about girls the hard way. Trial and error. Just keep sitting at her table and talking with her. Trust your instincts (some Yoda sh!t right there but it works lol) if your first instincts are telling that she thinks you're funny/laughing at your jokes, then she probably is. The more you talk with her the better your chances are of getting a read/sensing her attraction (or lack there of) for you. If you start to think she likes you casually ask her to go hang out (or whatever it is you crazy kids are doing these days). But never, NEEEEEVER, confess your undying love for her. Never let on just how infatuated you are with her, you bury that noise down deep lol This is fine science son, you gotta be surgical :P
(Warning: The above suggestion may backfire horribly and forever damage you as a highschooler. Gambler is not responsible for any failed,broken, or tragic love stories. The above actions may cause her best friend to like you instead. May also cause sleep deprivation, starvation, loss of weight, insomnia, and bad grades)
@JonSmith said:
You are correct, sir. This is not really the place for that. Go to Giantbomb. Create the topic there. They have this:
This post should have its own award.
@TheDealer said:
@Gambler said:Yo, dawg. Get Surgical. Like Denzel.Best advice about girls/woman/ladies is, dont ask for advice about them. Seriously, you learn about girls the hard way. Trial and error. Just keep sitting at her table and talking with her. Trust your instincts (some Yoda sh!t right there but it works lol) if your first instincts are telling that she thinks you're funny/laughing at your jokes, then she probably is. The more you talk with her the better your chances are of getting a read/sensing her attraction (or lack there of) for you. If you start to think she likes you casually ask her to go hang out (or whatever it is you crazy kids are doing these days). But never, NEEEEEVER, confess your undying love for her. Never let on just how infatuated you are with her, you bury that noise down deep lol This is fine science son, you gotta be surgical :P
(Warning: The above suggestion may backfire horribly and forever damage you as a highschooler. Gambler is not responsible for any failed,broken, or tragic love stories. The above actions may cause her best friend to like you instead. May also cause sleep deprivation, starvation, loss of weight, insomnia, and bad grades)
I had the same situation. I knew a girl for a while and was attracted to her. Turns out, I didn't know her very well. Year later and I didn't like her anymore. Three years later, and I want nothing to do with her.
Be careful with quick judgments, especially in your first year of high school.
@Gambler said:
Best advice about girls/woman/ladies is, dont ask for advice about them. Seriously, you learn about girls the hard way. Trial and error. Just keep sitting at her table and talking with her. Trust your instincts (some Yoda sh!t right there but it works lol) if your first instincts are telling that she thinks you're funny/laughing at your jokes, then she probably is. The more you talk with her the better your chances are of getting a read/sensing her attraction (or lack there of) for you. If you start to think she likes you casually ask her to go hang out (or whatever it is you crazy kids are doing these days). But never, NEEEEEVER, confess your undying love for her. Never let on just how infatuated you are with her, you bury that noise down deep lol This is fine science son, you gotta be surgical :P
(Warning: The above suggestion may backfire horribly and forever damage you as a highschooler. Gambler is not responsible for any failed,broken, or tragic love stories. The above actions may cause her best friend to like you instead. May also cause sleep deprivation, starvation, loss of weight, insomnia, and bad grades)
LOL thanks
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