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#2  Edited By joshmightbe

i think a spanking can be used to disapline children as long as its not taken too far cause honestly things like time outs dont work parents just shouldnt beat their kids and trust me theres a difference between a spanking and a beating

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There's been some controversy about this lately. England is looking to ban Hitting your kids and we've been getting a bit of flack from other countries that already have banned it.  

Personally I think parents should be able to. My parents hit me when I seriously mis-behaved and apart from the brain damage I'm none the worse for it. Plus I see kids these days who, judging from their behavior, are seriously lacking in discipline. So what do you think?  

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#5  Edited By cly

If you mean hitting as in disciplining kids, as long as it isn't taken too far, it is the best method.

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#6  Edited By ironshadow
@Do I have to give a name?: I agree and besides is a law really gonna stop parents from slapping their kids?
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@joshmightbe said:
" i think a spanking can be used to disapline children as long as its not taken too far cause honestly things like time outs dont work parents just shouldnt beat their kids and trust me theres a difference between a spanking and a beating "
Agreed. I'd never suggest hitting a child the same way you would an adult. But I see some kids cussing out their mothers and throwing tantrums with no regard for anyone they're around. I think behavior like that needs to be nipped in the bud and a clip round the ear is far more effective than "time out."   
 
Also, taking away toys works quite well. So long as you can stick to your resolve and not cave in.
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#8  Edited By Son_of_Magnus

Parents should be aloud the David Cain route

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#9  Edited By Theodore

should kids be allowed to hit their parents?

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#10  Edited By danhimself

no hitting...spanking is ok...when I think of hitting I think closed fist and that's not cool

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#11  Edited By Power NeXus

Yes. 
My parents spanked me when I was a kid, and I honestly think I'm a better person because of it. 
All children need to grow up with the knowledge that all actions have consequences, and that if you do something bad, the consequences won't always be something you can just shrug off.
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#12  Edited By The Devil Tiger

A little slap or a spanking isn't bad, but you ave to keep some measure. if you hit them every time for anything, you just  teach them you're a dumb bastard and they will cheat on you out of fear. 
You need to be more smart than that. Keep away his toy, put him on the corner, shout at him, or if he's in age to understand, talk to him smartly : slap and spanking should be the last option.  

But I answered yes, because sometimes, when you're young, you just need a slap to cold your head.
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#13  Edited By Power NeXus

@Do I have to give a name?: 

Also, taking away toys works quite well. So long as you can stick to your resolve and not cave in.

 

Yes, that can be effective, but only to an extent. To most kids, that's a relatively mild punishment. But some parents just don't want to give any punishment harsher than that, no matter what the kid did. The level of punishment should escalate with the level of how badly the child is behaving.

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#14  Edited By Son_of_Magnus

 I consider this grade A parenting
 I consider this grade A parenting
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#15  Edited By joshmightbe

look at the facts, when noone cared if you hit your kid for disapline the crime rate was lower, kids behaved better and we didnt need metal detectors in schools now everyone is afraid to give their kids any real disapline and the world is going to crap. im not saying hitting kids will solve all the worlds problems and im not supporting child abuse but when a kid does something really bad they need to be punished in a way that gaurantees they know they did wrong which a time out  wont do

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#16  Edited By shanana

Parent's should be allowed to discipline their kids.

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#17  Edited By Bio Guyver
@Sha said:
" Parent's should be allowed to discipline their kids. "
Agreed.
 
A little spanking(not hitting or anything too serious) should help keep the mind straight, not so much for the parent's sake, but the kid's sake.
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#18  Edited By ~The Wanderer~

No.

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#19  Edited By NightFang3

I say yes but only to trench them right from wrong. 

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#20  Edited By Yaujtapool

Yep
 
Happened to me and i turned out alright ............. i suppose.

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#21  Edited By joshmightbe

my dad used to beat the crap out of me so i know parents can take it too far but as long as the parents keep it at a simple spanking or maybe a not too hard slap it should be ok
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#22  Edited By Bio Guyver

Kids hate the idea of parents merely spanking them, but you'll get used it. If anything, it teaches you discipline; and discipline is what you're going to need in the world. I'm thankful my parents punished me over the years, now that I look back.

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#23  Edited By ~The Wanderer~
@Bio Guyver said:
" Kids hate the idea of parents merely spanking them, but you'll get used it. If anything, it teaches you discipline; and discipline is what you're going to need in the world. I'm thankful my parents punished me over the years, now that I look back. "
Wouldn't that kinda defeat the point though?  If they get used to a punishment, they might as well continue to misbehave.
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#24  Edited By Lady Tlieso

I think they should be allowed to spank them if they've done something seriously wrong but that's it.

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#25  Edited By GT-Man

two words HELL NO only its like a spanking or slap on the hand but abuse NO!! 

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#26  Edited By Bio Guyver
@~The Wanderer~ said:
" @Bio Guyver said:
" Kids hate the idea of parents merely spanking them, but you'll get used it. If anything, it teaches you discipline; and discipline is what you're going to need in the world. I'm thankful my parents punished me over the years, now that I look back. "
Wouldn't that kinda defeat the point though?  If they get used to a punishment, they might as well continue to misbehave. "
Or, they'll learn to not misbehave again. That's something they should get used to. In life, you make bad choices, you pay the consequences.
 
What I was trying to get at is: as you get older, you'll get over it. Kids whine, cry, throw fits, play the rebel, whatever, but you'll understand it when you are in the position to understand both the child's side, as well as the adult.
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#27  Edited By ~The Wanderer~
@Bio Guyver said:
" Or, they'll learn to not misbehave again. That's something they should get used to. In life, you make bad choices, you pay the consequences.  What I was trying to get at is: as you get older, you'll get over it. Kids whine, cry, throw fits, play the rebel, whatever, but you'll understand it when you are in the position to understand both the child's side, as well as the adult. "
Oh, then I get you lol.
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#28  Edited By Precise

Nope. Spanking/slapping etc kids is illegal where i live.

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@Bio Guyver said:
" Kids hate the idea of parents merely spanking them, but you'll get used it. If anything, it teaches you discipline; and discipline is what you're going to need in the world. I'm thankful my parents punished me over the years, now that I look back. "
Agreed. 
 
@GT-Man said:
" two words HELL NO only its like a spanking or slap on the hand but abuse NO!!  "

I thought I'd added a "Hell no" option, but I'd already posted the thread before I realized I hadn't. And that's what I'm saying, only as a means of punishment, but proportional to the "crime." Never excessive, I consider people who abuse children to be about the lowest form of scum known to man. 
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#30  Edited By Nova`Prime`

Totally, when I was younger if you were bad or step out of line you took a whooping. Now a day I walk around a store and these kids are screaming, crying, and carrying on. Man if that was me back in the day I was given a right good beating and guess what I know the difference between right and wrong. Children need discipline, they are no different then the rest of us and we all need it. Its what separates us from animals.

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#31  Edited By pixelized

When "time out" and "I'm going to count to 3" have lost their edge, it's time for the big guns, literally. Just threaten to shoot your child square between the eyes, I promise they'll never stray. Oh, don't forget to tell them that if they tell anyone you'll still shoot them and their friend.

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#32  Edited By Hawk

 spare the rod spoil the child

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#33  Edited By warlock360

Parents who hit their kids are mentally too insignificant to find the right arguments.
 
Weak, weak, weak.

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#34  Edited By Aronmorales

"Spare the rod, spoil the child".
 
Now I'm not saying hit the kid for every little mistake that they do; that is horrible parenting.
What I am saying is do not be afraid to hit when your kid really needs it.

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#35  Edited By shanana

 

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#36  Edited By hdorman1

yes and no 
to punish when in dire circumstance
but not to beat, thats wrong

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#37  Edited By drdanny10293
@Sha said:
"Parent's should be allowed to discipline their kids. "
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#39  Edited By shanana
@aztek the lost said:
" the people who say no obviously weren't hit enough as children "
Or are kids of themselves
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#40  Edited By warlock360
@aztek the lost said:
" the people who say no obviously weren't hit enough as children "
or have been abused
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#41  Edited By Aronmorales
@aztek the lost said:
" the people who say no obviously weren't hit enough as children "
I think this is funny, but not in a disagreeing way.
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#42  Edited By InnerVenom123

I thought by "hit" you meant something that's not spanking, so I clicked no. But idk, as long as its not abuse, its okay. Spanking only, but you only spank out of discipline. Not anger... else its abuse. . . . y'know what, I'm just uncertain. lol.

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#43  Edited By Bio Guyver

I'm kinda curious. For the people who answered "no": 
 
How should a kid be punished?

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#44  Edited By drdanny10293
@aztek the lost said:
"the people who say no obviously weren't hit enough as children " 
 
Wrong my friend i was hit Alot and i said no lol
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#45  Edited By Boomstick Bob

I'm not exactly for hitting them, there are better ways of dealing with most children. If it's made illegal though, then I could see some of the more messed up kids that more physical punishment might actually work on taking advantage of it. 
 
For example: I know of a woman who refused to hit her child under any circumstances. He just blatantly ignored all punishments given to him. One day, when she took away his privileges to go outside and play with his friends, he pushed her down the stairs. Granted, this boy was pretty messed up, but I could honestly see a few good smacks getting through to him.

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#46  Edited By GOUKI

Yes

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#47  Edited By daveydavey

C.    No

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#48  Edited By capall

i brought them in so i shall discipline them in a way that i feel is necessary as a loving parent just as my parents did to myself while being raised, it's called respect and responsibilities!

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