Today right after i got out of the school building i saw a second grader crying on the floor in a puddle so i ask my friend what happend he says a kid in the other 8th grade class did it so i see the kid that did this harsh crime i asked him why he did it he said cause the second grader punched him that made me angry i wanted to knock him out but i didnt i held it in.
In the end the worst the bully got was inschool detention.
Nah. The second grader sorta got what was coming to him for punching the kid, but the 8th grader had no right to lay the kid out. He's only in second grade and is much bigger and smarter. The 8th grader got what he deserved.
The 8th grader shouldnt have done that to a 2nd greater there is a massive age and weight, height difference as well as mentality.
the 8th grader should have gotten his @$$ kicked by some one his own age and beaten hard, there is a line you dont ever cross no matter how much you might want to.
it's probably the older brother bias thing but i dont tolerate bigger ppl beating on smaller ppl who are no threat to them. i've had past experience where my brother was getting bullied by a 13 yr old while he was 6 yrs old. i pimp slapped that kid and than his brother who was 15 who later brought his 16 yr old cousin while my little brother watched me rip through them.
same thing happen with my Cousin John who was being picked on by some Mexican or black kid i cant remember who but the bully was a 6th grader while my cousin was a 5th grader just cause he was white and soft. I saw my cousin on the playground with his glasses broken and crying. dude, i was a fourth grader at the time i went all spider monkey on the kid bashed his head and got suspended for 3 days but i won and no one ever touched my cousin b/c of his race.
Nah. The second grader sorta got what was coming to him for punching the kid, but the 8th grader had no right to lay the kid out. He's only in second grade and is much bigger and smarter. The 8th grader got what he deserved.
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I wouldn't say smarter. He didn't think about what he should do when the kid Punched him
Fought him with your words isn't an option? I don't know grades, but reading posts, it sounds like the younger kid was the initial annoyance and older kid's retaliation made the younger kid cry. You just need to point out to the older kid he is almost a man, and that he is strong enough and big enough to take it. Solving minor annoyances may work at school, but he'll probably find when he gets older he is gonna get screwed over by the real world with that attitude (probably)
Draw parallels to if he has younger brother or sister, and whether he would want someone else knocking them around for being a bit foolish?
Its good you held it in by the way. Plus it sounds like he was somewhat justified and willing to listen. Anyway, whatever made you hold your anger, thats what you should be trying to teach the other guy, especially as it pertains to smaller and weaker people. If your in a fight, or a war where you can end it with the less amount of damage and injury overall? Eh ideally thats what you should aim for. Some of my best friends were angry, entitled people who use to feel the only way to get by was by being staunch.
Anyway, good job with holding your anger in check. If you fight anyway you want to be calm.
In this situation I surely would not have went after the kid.....I have only been in a physical fight once in my life, and nothing good came from it...While I did not begin the physical portion of the fight I can not neglect I was not going to let myself get mutilated in the name of Piece...anyway back on topic. I will assume you are older than the 8th grader and can recognize by an older kid ding the same thing to him you are only reinforcing the concept that you were just putting down. You did do a very good thing by not getting involved in that way. Probably better than me, I must admit I might have made a comment...^.^' and then got beat up myself, still people who react like that in general can not be helped for the most part, I mean if you are 14 and find the desire to push a seven year old done for "punching you", you have more issues than can be solved....=_= You did an amazingly hard thing by ignoring it....it may seem wrong, but it was right the only action you could have done to benefit the situation would be to get in-touch with a superior to the kid, I believe this happened though.
" Seeing as how this is a comic book forum you SHOULD have put on a mask and thwarted the evil-doer with your fists and asked questions later. If this was a pornography forum I would have told you to deliver a pizza to his house and see where it goes. "
Hahahahahahahahaha
but unless u know what 100% happened theres no point getting involved .
I agree. Violence always leads to more violence. But, that's just how some people operate. Different people of course possess different reactions when annoyed or angered. All we can do is just calm down, and think, If I fight, this trouble will be a lot bigger than it was. We should calm the other person rather than angering them. No matter how hard it may sound.
2nd Grader punched an 8th Grader and the 8th Grader layed him out? Good. That's how it should be. When you let little ****ers off they just wind up as disrespecting little b*******.
My high school was basically a prison camp, where if you even looked at someone younger than you, particularly someone with connected parents, the wrong way, you'd get a detention.
@JonesDeini: The wisdom of ages...what message is this sending the little brat? He can start crap with whomever he wants, and if they retaliate, the "system" will step in and protect him?! Actually...that is kinda how the world seems to work, now...
" @JonesDeini: The wisdom of ages...what message is this sending the little brat? He can start crap with whomever he wants, and if they retaliate, the "system" will step in and protect him?! Actually...that is kinda how the world seems to work, now... "
Indeed. It sickens me how coddled children are now. Kids these days are raised with little to no consequences for their actions. I used to work as a pool monitor a few years ago and I actually watched a like 4 or five year old slap throw a tantrum which her mother put her in "Time Out" for. Her mother went to talk to her about what she did (while still having a time out tantrum) mom leans in and WHAM!!! Little girl slaps the skin off her face. The mother cries and says "No!!! No!!! Child's Name!!! We do not hit mommy!!! That hurts mommy" and then she walks off with her tail tucked between her legs. I and every other rational adult at my job that day looks at this disgrace of a parent and says WTF?! Another day this lil' bastard keeps running around the pool (cuz you know that's a great idea) I inform the mom that he's in violation of the rules, so I go to give him his last warning before I boot him, the little insert profane term of choice here had filled his super soaker with hot water from the jacuzzi and shot me in the face with it. I swear I almost spazzed out choked the brat. I mean I was in a hulk rage, had it not been for his mother stepping in and grabbing him to say "Timmy apologize" I might've blacked out on lil' dude. Now while his mom's disciplining him she's laughing and giggling at his cute little prank...yeah, way to show him who's boss. If I had done ANY of those things as a kid I would've gotten checked by my neighbors there, my mom when they sent me home, and my dad when he got off from work.
As far as the system protecting him, that's exactly what it's telling him. I go to college with a lot of uppercrust types who clearly must've never gotten their ass kicked properly because they love to mouth off then call the cops. The only thing quicker than their mouths is their ability to call 911 when they have to cash that alligator check their humming bird ass just wrote.
"Today right after i got out of the school building i saw a second grader crying on the floor in a puddle so i ask my friend what happend he says a kid in the other 8th grade class did it so i see the kid that did this harsh crime i asked him why he did it he said cause the second grader punched him that made me angry i wanted to knock him out but i didnt i held it in. In the end the worst the bully got was inschool detention. "
dont do it. hes a bully for a reason (because he beats people up)
Personally, I'm a fan of seeing bullys get a taste of their own medicine but make sure it's another minor kicking their ass and preferably not on school grounds...
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