Recently it's come to my attention that I'm not a very pleasant person IRL. Apparently people think I'm arrogant and annoying. These "people" would be my "friends".
How do I tell if I'm being a jerk, or if they're being weird/sensitive? Am I an arrogant jerk? I tend to act differently online than in real life to a certain extent, being able to think before posting which makes me think I'm also a jerk online for possibly not being who I really am.
I'm overthinking stuff. What do you do if people you thought were your RL friends badmouth you behind your back, and all you're left with are online friends?