The brain, definitely.
Most attractive thing about a person?
What do you think is the most attractive thing about a person, physically, emotionally, psychologically & intellectually.
Let's break this down.
Emotionally, he has to be in control of them. His emotions. It's okay to get emotional once in a while, but if it's a constant thing, then it's a no no.
Psychologically, the same applies. No one is completely well balanced, but if there are issues that affect me in a negative way constantly, then again, that's a no no. I'm not here to fix anyone.
Intellectually, he needs to be a powerhouse. I'm talking near genius. I can never be with someone who is less intelligent than me, I don't care how sweet or kind or attentive he is. I can get a pet for that (if I needed those things, which I don't). I consider sense of humour on par with intelligence, so wit and charm usually come with high intelligence. As does confidence. This is why there is such a high preference for intelligence in whomever I am with. Sense of humour, wit, confidence and yes charm, all are related to intelligence.
As for physical, well, I am quite discerning. He has to be tall, he has to be built, he has to be well dressed and he has to have a wicked, wicked smile. I don't have a preference for hair or eye colour, it's too dependent on the actual person to be specific about it. I've seen my fair share of beautiful eyes in every colour and it's the same with hair. I used to like clean shaven only but the past few months has me looking at some scruff. Still, they need to be well groomed. I can handle this new "Lumbersexual" thing that seems to be catching on, but even then there is a certain way of ensuring you look well-kept.
For visual purposes (since this seems to be a thing on this thread):
If we're talking about potential for an serious relationship, there is no 'most attractive category' for me. An attractive person is a combination of physical appearance, intelligence, and state of mind. Take one of those out and it becomes less.
HOWEVER, if we're talking about some kind of fling, I have a rather lower standard.
intelligence, a good sense of humor, and she doesn't have to be a supermodel but I still think physical attraction is important
I'm sick of hearing this "looks don't matter", or "personality doesn't matter" thing - a combination of both - a beautiful personality and a beautiful appearance - is the best thing. You don't want to put up with someone who's hot... but obnoxious and selfish, but you couldn't date someone who's completely selfless, but aren't physically attractive... I'm sure you wouldn't like to lie to that person every day and tell them "you look beautiful" when you don't think they do.
- TAS
Someone like my avatar. She's not perfect, but she's good enough, which is leagues above me.
- Brown or black hair
- Dimples (not really applicable)
- She's got to have that smile that makes you smile
- I don't mind subtle piercings in the nose or tongue
- Memorable eyes
- Don't mind the body art, just don't go too overboard
- Again, don't mind the body piercings so long as they aren't ridiculous
- Body got to be on point! Not really. I like an athletic chick, well toned. You know, someone who you can look at and say "yep, she hits the gym" or "yep, she dances". Them dancers types are on point!
As for persona; She has to know how to have fun, keep active, and be funny.
Someone like my avatar. She's not perfect, but she's good enough, which is leagues above me.
- Brown or black hair
- Dimples (not really applicable)
- She's got to have that smile that makes you smile
- I don't mind subtle piercings in the nose or tongue
- Memorable eyes
- Don't mind the body art, just don't go too overboard
- Again, don't mind the body piercings so long as they aren't ridiculous
- Body got to be on point! Not really. I like an athletic chick, well toned. You know, someone who you can look at and say "yep, she hits the gym".
As for persona; She has to know how to have fun, keep active, and be funny.
She looks fine.
@mortal: I know right.
For a woman, physically, thick boobs and butt (Don't really care much for athletic body types, but it can work for the right woman I suppose), I honestly never had any preference for hair color but now that I think about it certain hair colors will work better for certain women, (As long as your's fits your's I'm cool), honestly don't give a damn about eye color, I'm ambivalent towards tattoos/piercings(Again depends on the woman), nice smile is great too, and a good smell as well.
Personality wise, I seem to be an opposite attracts type guy because even though I'm for the most part a tranquil guy, I have a thing for energetic women. She also has to be comfortable with herself and not a naggy type.
@rogueshadow: You mean as in outside?.........i'll probably look at the face first,but yes,boobs is a significant factor.
@rogueshadow: You mean as in outside?.........i'll probably look at the face first,but yes,boobs is a significant factor.
Inside and out.
Well, personality is huge. I like guys that are kind and would treat me like an equal. I tend to think, "Would he make a good dad?" Easy to talk with is important, as well as intelligence. I'm staying chaste until marriage, so I need to find a guy that doesn't mind that. Being able to cook at least a little, is awesome in a guy. This isn't really a requirement by any means, but I love seeing operas. It'd be kind of cool if I found a guy that wouldn't mind watching them with me sometimes.
Appearance isn't super important, it's not like I'd need someone who looks like an actor or anything like that, but I'd still want a guy I'd be attracted to. I really like deep voices too.
Well, personality is huge. I like guys that are kind and would treat me like an equal. I tend to think, "Would he make a good dad?" Easy to talk with is important, as well as intelligence. I'm staying chaste until marriage, so I need to find a guy that doesn't mind that. Being able to cook at least a little, is awesome in a guy. This isn't really a requirement by any means, but I love seeing operas. It'd be kind of cool if I found a guy that wouldn't mind watching them with me sometimes.
Appearance isn't super important, it's not like I'd need someone who looks like an actor or anything like that, but I'd still want a guy I'd be attracted to. I really like deep voices too.
Looks like I'm your guy :D
Well, personality is huge. I like guys that are kind and would treat me like an equal. I tend to think, "Would he make a good dad?" Easy to talk with is important, as well as intelligence. I'm staying chaste until marriage, so I need to find a guy that doesn't mind that. Being able to cook at least a little, is awesome in a guy. This isn't really a requirement by any means, but I love seeing operas. It'd be kind of cool if I found a guy that wouldn't mind watching them with me sometimes.
Appearance isn't super important, it's not like I'd need someone who looks like an actor or anything like that, but I'd still want a guy I'd be attracted to. I really like deep voices too.
Looks like I'm your guy :D
Pssh you wish. :P
@kittyparker13: You know it be the truth :)
Inside and out.
Outside : Face,boobs,ass, figure.
Inside : Character,mentallity.
1: Not a nerd
2: Thick as hell.
@wolverine08: You like plus size women too? jk
Well, personality is huge. I like guys that are kind and would treat me like an equal. I tend to think, "Would he make a good dad?" Easy to talk with is important, as well as intelligence. I'm staying chaste until marriage, so I need to find a guy that doesn't mind that. Being able to cook at least a little, is awesome in a guy. This isn't really a requirement by any means, but I love seeing operas. It'd be kind of cool if I found a guy that wouldn't mind watching them with me sometimes.
Appearance isn't super important, it's not like I'd need someone who looks like an actor or anything like that, but I'd still want a guy I'd be attracted to. I really like deep voices too.
Looks like I'm your guy :D
You make me chuckle W08.
@wolverine08: Hahaha! I wasn't even being sarcastic!
@rogueshadow: DON'T MOCK ME!
@rogueshadow: DON'T MOCK ME!
I wasn't... I promise.
@kittyparker13: I have Every one of those traits, except for the kind, attractive, smart, good dad, chaste (have no Idea what thatmeans) and deep voice. LOL :P
@ms-lola: well hell, even I'm attracted to Tony Stark.
And thick girls don't get love, he says.
Pft, just becauase one guy on the entire thread tosses a shout out doesn't mean there's much love :D
Case in point:
- Stomach
- Thighs
- Ass
- Face
when I mean ass and thighs. I don't mean the overly dinosaur packed saggy ass fat most black guys are into.
but lets face it guys, there is no girl in the world that has a good personality. imo.
@wolverine08: Actually more than one guy has said they've liked thicks on various threads. And the example you provided is subjective. I call it large and you think I mean obese, he calls it a dinosaur packed saggy ass fat and that ain't obese at all.
- Stomach
- Thighs
- Ass
- Face
when I mean ass and thighs. I don't mean the overly dinosaur packed saggy ass fat most black guys are into.
but lets face it guys, there is no girl in the world that has a good personality. imo.
@monsterstomp: I know about some other threads brah, but I thought you were just talking about this thread. You gotta admit though, large really isn't a positive word when you are referring to women. I mean, if a girl you were trying to get closer to asked you if she looked fat in a particular piece of clothing, you wouldn't say: "Naw babe, you just large!" and expect her to react positively?
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