Jilted Ex-Boyfriend Puts Up Abortion Billboard

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"ALAMOGORDO, N.M. (AP) — A New Mexico man's decision to lash out with a billboard ad saying his ex-girlfriend had an  abortion against his wishes has touched off a legal debate over free speech and privacy rights.

The sign on Alamogordo's main thoroughfare shows 35-year-old Greg Fultz holding the outline of an infant. The text reads, "This Would Have Been A Picture Of My 2-Month Old Baby If The Mother Had Decided To Not KILL Our Child!"

Fultz's ex-girlfriend has taken him to  court for harassment and violation of privacy. A domestic court official has recommended the billboard be removed.

But Fultz's attorney argues the order violates his client's free speech rights.

"As distasteful and offensive as the sign may be to some, for over 200 years in this country  the First Amendment protects distasteful and offensive speech," Todd Holmes said.

The woman's friends say she had a miscarriage, not an abortion, according to a report in the Albuquerque Journal.

Holmes disputes that, saying his case is based on the accuracy of his client's statement.

"My argument is: What Fultz said is the truth," Holmes said.

The woman's lawyer said she had not discussed the pregnancy with her client. But for Ellen Jessen, whether her client had a miscarriage or an abortion is not the point. The central issue is her client's privacy and the fact that the billboard has caused severe emotional distress, Jessen said.

"Her private life is not a matter of public interest," she told the Alamogordo Daily News.

Jessen says her client's ex-boyfriend has crossed the line.

"Nobody is stopping him from talking about father's rights. ... but a person can't invade someone's private life."

For his part, Holmes invoked  the U.S. Supreme Court decision from earlier this year concerning the Westboro Baptist Church, which is known for its anti-gay protests at military funerals and other high-profile events. He believes the high court's decision to allow the protests, as hurtful as they are, is grounds for his client to put up the abortion billboard.

"Very unpopular offensive speech," he told the Alamogordo Daily News. "The Supreme Court, in an 8 to 1 decision, said that is protected speech."

Holmes says he is going to fight the order to remove the billboard through a District Court appeal."

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#2  Edited By Ballistic_

Jesus...

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#3  Edited By InnerVenom123

What a retarded jackass. 

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#4  Edited By joshmightbe

what a prick

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#5  Edited By Ebbm

what an immature a**hole

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#6  Edited By Green Skin

Screw that guy, what a D-bag.

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He's a douche with a capital BAG.

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#8  Edited By mavfan626

He's an idiot and a f***ing a**hole. 

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#9  Edited By ssejllenrad

To be honest, I'm (moderately) Pro-Life. But this is so wrong.

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#10  Edited By mark5
@Ebbm said:
what an immature a**hole
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#11  Edited By cyberninja

Must be election season. 

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#12  Edited By Mercy_

@InnerVenom123 said:

What a retarded jackass.

@joshmightbe said:

what a prick

@Ebbm said:

what an immature a**hole

@Green Skin said:

Screw that guy, what a D-bag.

@venomoushatred1001 said:

He's a douche with a capital BAG.

@mavfan626 said:

He's an idiot and a f***ing a**hole.

Could not agree more.

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#13  Edited By TheBatman586

"Nobody is stopping him from talking about father's rights ... but a person can't invade someone's private life." 
 
I would have to agree with that statement...

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@TheBatman586 said:

"Nobody is stopping him from talking about father's rights ... but a person can't invade someone's private life." 
 
I would have to agree with that statement...

I agree. If I was my kid I'd be pissed to. I wouldn't make a billboard about it, but yeah I'd be pissed off.
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#15  Edited By Sise-Neg
@TheBatman586 said:

"Nobody is stopping him from talking about father's rights ... but a person can't invade someone's private life." 
 
I would have to agree with that statement...

Except he didn't invade anybody's private life. He just said "if the mother" who could be ANYONE. 
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#16  Edited By joshmightbe
@hydrabob: The woman didn't even have an abortion she had a miscarriage 
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#17  Edited By mikethekiller

way to be a b**ch about it 

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#19  Edited By Shadow_Thief

I realize that, for this meatstick, this was obviously an act of petty revenge. However, it made me start thinking about these kinds of pseudo-political acts in general. Has anyone ever been convinced to change their view on a given issue because of something like this? I swear, these are created entirely to annoy the people that disagree. What a waste of resources.

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#20  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator

This billboard proves he would have been a bad father anyway.

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#21  Edited By pixelized

@Vance Astro said:

This billboard proves he would have been a bad father anyway.

And that kid would look like Rosie O'Donnell.

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#22  Edited By vance_astro  Moderator
@pixelized said:

@Vance Astro said:

This billboard proves he would have been a bad father anyway.

And that kid would look like Rosie O'Donnell.

Even if it's born male.
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#23  Edited By Mercy_

@Vance Astro said:

This billboard proves he would have been a bad father anyway.

Damn straight.

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#24  Edited By FadeToBlackBolt

What a juvenile twit. 
 
I think the Abortion laws are screwy, but that doesn't make that OK. Moron.

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#25  Edited By SC  Moderator

He shouldn't be putting his fork in the salad if he doesn't trust the restaurant, what an utter fool. 

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#26  Edited By Green Skin
@SC said:
He shouldn't be putting his fork in the salad if he doesn't trust the restaurant, what an utter fool. 
LoL! Best analogy ever!
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#27  Edited By Omega Ray Jay
@SC said:
He shouldn't be putting his fork in the salad if he doesn't trust the restaurant, what an utter fool. 
lmao, It was lousy thing to do.
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@joshmightbe said:
@hydrabob: The woman didn't even have an abortion she had a miscarriage 
That's what she says, but we're never gonna know the truth and I have no problem with abortions. I just don't want my kid lost.
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I can't agree or disagree with the guy, never having been in his situation. BUT, there are far better ways to handle things. 
 
Also, what kind of ad company would agree to put this on a billboard?
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#30  Edited By Nova`Prime`

I see this guy taking a lot of heat, well deserved, but that doesn't answer the question. But what about the father, isn't the child partial his as well. At least when it comes to raising and paying for the child it is, even if he doesn't want it. But if the mother doesn't want it she just aborts it, I think that's a terrible double standard. I get if there are health issues that can effect the mother and child while carrying or birthing, but if there is nothing wrong and the father wants to be a father what's wrong with that. Let her walk away after the birth, if she wants nothing to do with it.

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#31  Edited By CATPANEXE

the woman successfully won this case and the billboard is due for soon removal.

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n.
1. A set, collection, group, or configuration containing members regarded as having certain attributes or traits in common; a kind or category.
2. A division based on quality, rank, or grade, as:
a. A grade of mail:  a package sent third class.
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Class. This guy doesn't have it.
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#33  Edited By Sylver
@SC said:
He shouldn't be putting his fork in the salad if he doesn't trust the restaurant, what an utter fool. 
omg so true!
 
Granted, I don't agree with abortion laws...but this guy went way too far! That's just wrong.  If he didn't want his girlfriend to get an abortion, DON'T HAVE A KID!!!!!!! X-P or rather, don't be with someone who doesn't want your kid!
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#34  Edited By joshmightbe
@Nova`Prime`: She claims she had a miscarriage which could have easily been proven by the court so since it was pertinent to the case I doubt she'd lie about it there fore the dude is doubly an ass   
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#35  Edited By SC  Moderator
@Nova`Prime` said:
I see this guy taking a lot of heat, well deserved, but that doesn't answer the question. But what about the father, isn't the child partial his as well. At least when it comes to raising and paying for the child it is, even if he doesn't want it. But if the mother doesn't want it she just aborts it, I think that's a terrible double standard. I get if there are health issues that can effect the mother and child while carrying or birthing, but if there is nothing wrong and the father wants to be a father what's wrong with that. Let her walk away after the birth, if she wants nothing to do with it.
 
I agree with this!  
 
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@SC said:
He shouldn't be putting his fork in the salad if he doesn't trust the restaurant, what an utter fool. 
omg so true!  Granted, I don't agree with abortion laws...but this guy went way too far! That's just wrong.  If he didn't want his girlfriend to get an abortion, DON'T HAVE A KID!!!!!!! X-P or rather, don't be with someone who doesn't want your kid!
 
This too.  
 
 
See if this was me in that position, this is what my Billboard would have said.  
 
"This Would have been a picture of me and my baby, if I, the father of the child hadn't been been so lazy as to not discuss such important consequences and aftereffects of having unprotected sex with a person I the father don't fully trust or know what their thoughts on abortion related subjects, because who cares about that when your drunk and as high as a kite and listening to Barry White and Nine Inch Nails, Woo!" - Endorsed by the Common Sense League. www.pleasetakeresponsbilityforyouractionsaswellinsteadofblamingotherpeoplefortheirfallings.com Sponsored by something unrelated to everything. 
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#36  Edited By Sylver
@SC: OMG  X-D So true! hahahaaha
But in all seriousness, Amen sista!
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When my friend showed this to me I thought it was hilarious until I saw the billboard and heard she had miscarried. After that the guy came off to me as a world-class douche. 

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#38  Edited By Nova`Prime`
@joshmightbe: Oh I totally agree the guy is definitely an ass.
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#39  Edited By texasdeathmatch

I'm just surprised a dude like that actually had sex

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#40  Edited By Shadow_Thief

Notice how these things always seem to pop up during election years? Call me cynical, but it would not surprise me in the least to learn that the entire "backstory" of this billboard was staged, and the whole thing was a political stunt.
 
P.S. Since the guy is being such a lowlife, I'm going to go ahead and go all English-major on him: dude, your billboard should read "This would have been a picture of ME HOLDING my 2-month old baby," because as it's written now (along with the fact that you can't really tell that it's a baby in your hands), it would be more likely to generate sympathy for the mother, as she would have been unlikely to survive attempting to bring a fully-grown ogre to term.

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#41  Edited By joshmightbe
@texasdeathmatch: she was probably drunk I came up with this scale in high school based on how much you'd need to drink to make a person attractive sober being hot and alcohol poisoning being this guy 
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#42  Edited By Avenging-X-Bolt

it was a stupid move and wasnt right, but i do still feel sorry for him. having to sit by while your child is killed by its own mother is pretty damn painful im sure.
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#43  Edited By joshmightbe
@Avenging-X-Bolt: there is no proof she had an abortion she says she had a miscarriage and he assumed she had an abortion 
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#44  Edited By Avenging-X-Bolt
@joshmightbe said:
@Avenging-X-Bolt: there is no proof she had an abortion she says she had a miscarriage and he assumed she had an abortion 

either way its understandable that he's upset. but still  he shouldve manned up, dumped her and moved on.