Is it normal for a male to like being submissive to his GF?

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#1  Edited By Bluejay4

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Depends.

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Yes. I like doing that from time to time.

That reminds me, i broke up with my GF about 2 months ago.

Hmm i think i'll take Aries advice and date my cousin.

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If it's what you're into there's nothing wrong with it.

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It's a thing

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There are lots of whipped individuals out there

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Yes it's normal

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#9  Edited By I_Am_Lightning

@bluejay4: what's the problem?

It's not like she's my Sister.

We always were very close. A few weeks ago we even spent a night making out, so it wouldn't be anything new.

Only problem is our family, full of religious nutjobs.

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Yes.

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are we talking like, sexually or just in general?

I don't consider opening the door for your GF being submissive, for example.

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It depends

sexually? a-ok whatever floats your boat

in a helpful supportive nurturing way? (like sure il give you a foot rub) a-ok

the only time i can think of when it may not be is if she/ he is being abusive but then its just a response to an issue and not a problem in and of itself.

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@i_am_lightning: meh, I just was a little takin back is all. I say go for it if it makes you happy.

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#16  Edited By OverLordArthas

@bluejay4:

No young padawan, you should teach your girlfriend the art of staying in the kitchen and making you a sandwich by the help of the almighty pimphand.

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I find it weird to be submissive to anybody.

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I definitely gave in to my ex's every whim, but I used to make it a game to see how many times I could get her to slap me to make it happen (she was like 100lbs, and I was in my physical prime, so there was no way she could actually hurt me, even if it was loud enough to turn heads) and if she really put her foot down I'd toss her five feet or so (she was a ballerina, so she really didn't mind because I always made sure she landed easily on her feet).

Non-dominate? Definitely in the same boat as you. Submissive? Its normal, but I simply can't relate.

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Eh we all have our vices.

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I know people who're into that. It's normal.

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It is not particularly uncommon, I believe.

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@leo-343 said:

Only in the bedroom. Other than that, naw.

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Sex and Normal don't go togther

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I guess. But there's a point of no return.

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Nothing wrong with it if it makes him happy but no.

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What's the context? In what way are you submissive?

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#28  Edited By jhazzroucher

@bluejay4 said:

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Depends. HOw does your girlfriend treat you?

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#30  Edited By Jonny_Anonymous

No such thing as normal

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Define "submissive".

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Yeah, depending on what you mean by submissive

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Of course.

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#34  Edited By Cable_Extreme

If it is a sexual thing sure. If it is a all day every day thing, then I wouldn't say it is okay.

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Nothing wrong with it

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#36  Edited By nefarious

Yeah.