@TheThe: Read my statements SLOWLY. You are totally wrong on everything you said.
You didnt answer my question. How do you know it's an excuse. The word "reason" was used to describe the situation from their point of vie
This is what I said " My question is: Are they using their past as an excuse or are these valid reasons for their behavior? That was a question from my point of view. I'm exploring both sides
"useless" adults in the title of the thread gave indirectly your position
they may be useless for a valid reason. or they may be using childhood trauma as an excuse. I gave no position.
it's judgemental and rude(yes, "useless" is rude)with no proof in support of your claims.
they don't support their kids, don't work, steal and sell their bodies. that is all the proof i need
If you think it's a good thing in life to judge people without knowing all the facts about them and not knowing what researchs and specialists have to say about childhood traumas
My judgement is just my opinion. it can be changed and my "judgement" is not hurting any of them
Isnt the christian you are supposed to try not to do things to others he would not like them to do to him
People have and will continue to judge me. I couldn't care less. very few people judgements concern me
but you dont seem to realize that this thread is also a kind of invitation to people who share your position to join you in this bandwagon of judgemental behavior with - i repeat - no proof at all.
I actually enjoy when people DISAGREE with me. it makes for better debates. and again I have proof enough for me.
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