I would find him a boyfriend.
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" @Voidheart: That would be the 2 thing I do. "yea well ill try and justify my means in that case cause left alone it feels so cold.
the only dream i have left is to have a family and that it can carry on, but having a gay child would sort of have fullfilled my dream to 1/2 instead of fully. (and yet it isnt a dissapointment if it was so!) therefore i'd try and have a second one whom i "hope" to be not like the first but if it turns out the same way i wouldnt want to force it upon him / her to be straight so i'd just have to live with it.
my problem with my son turning out gay is if i didnt see it coming. if i saw him being very feminine from the start of the child hood and he didnt seem to grow out of it then i wouldnt be surprised nor upset. it would just have bn a natural progression to him turning gay but, if my son acted normal and never hinted at being gay i would be crushed and angry of course i would except him regardless. my problem is not with gay ppl but the fact tha "my" son is gay.... and i would have to re evaluate all the gay jokes that i have made toward my gay friend and realize they are no longer funny.
Heres a question that comes to mind.... why do we want to keep our bloodline intact? i mean
" I wouldn't mind at all, but i would say to him that "you're not going to be gay until you get a girl pregnant" lol "is a cruel way but it shows the instinct to do so.
its upsetting if you fancy yourself to have good set of genes and picked your mate b/c of her medical record and no apparent genetic diseases..just so your son can turn gay and not pass your genetics to the nxt generation and let your bloodline and family die into obscurity.
"Heres a question that comes to mind.... why do we want to keep our bloodline intact? i mean
" I wouldn't mind at all, but i would say to him that "you're not going to be gay until you get a girl pregnant" lol "is a cruel way but it shows the instinct to do so."
No i wouldn't care that much it was a joke, i mean yeah he's gay but its not going to be the end of the world. I would just want to see my son happy and succeed in life, besides i hang out with my cousin a lot and he's gay. But i would at least want my bloodline intact and i'm pretty sure i wouldn't have one child for the rest of my life no matter if their gay or not.
"its upsetting if you fancy yourself to have good set of genes and picked your mate b/c of her medical record and no apparent genetic diseases..just so your son can turn gay and not pass your genetics to the nxt generation and let your bloodline and family die into obscurity. "
Have another child, simple as that.
Probably crack gay jokes at him all the time, because, well... that's what I do: give everybody a hard time all the time. Anybody's fair game for the sake of comedy. Even my own flesh and blood. If he grows up like me, then he'll probably crack straight jokes at me all the time, and we'll have a good ol' time while everybody else listens in horror. Sounds kinda' like me and my gay friends.
For what it's worth, he already plays with girls toys, because his sister is a bully and hogs all the boys toys. Also for what it's worth, they are the two loves of my life, will remain so gay or straight, and will know so gay or straight.
If I had a gay son.I would be a little upset about it.Only because i'm not completely informed on what makes someone gay and the whole 9.Plus I know he will get picked on.I have never seen this,but I know there has been cases of people teasing gay people to the point they have wanted to or have killed themselves.I wouldn't want that for my son.You never know how mentally or emotionally strong someone is.I would be torn up if something happened to my son simply because of the way he is.As far as I am concerned though,whatever makes him happy makes me happy.I will not treat him any different or love him any less.
" @Darkchild said:LMAO!" Id treat him no differently, hell all id want is for him to be the MAN in the relationship. Plus then maybe i might get some help with my cloths, since i have no taste for fashion "All gay people can't dress.... "
Well hopefully he would