I Think im in Love - Off-Topic

#1 Edited by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

Shes my best friend im a boy we have been bff since 3rd grade where in 9th grade now and over the years everthing about her i liked the way she smiles is so heavenly and shes so
cute when im around her and she always calls me imature when we joke around and she loves to give advice we flirt alot but only for like 1 mintue
just curious could i be in love

#2 Posted by G'bandit (13689 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

How old are you?

#3 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@G'bandit:
Im 14 sir

#4 Posted by Silver2467 (16361 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: Can I give my honest opinion on the matter?

#5 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Silver2467 said:

" @slacker the hacker: Can I give my honest opinion on the matter? "

Knock your self out

#6 Posted by Silver2467 (16361 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: Alright. Now, understand, I may be entirely wrong, understanding that I don't have very many facts about the situation. However, basing on what little you did say in the OP, speaking from an objective standpoint, I think you should slow down. Interest and attraction are not the same as love. If you're attracted to her, great. Pursue a relationship with her. But my personal recommendation would be not to jump to the conclusion that you're in love with her. Love is a very strong word.

#7 Posted by G'bandit (13689 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

Congrats. But that's quite young. Don't worry, I know what you feeling, but I'd advise you not to get too attached emotionally at that age.

Im not saying not to go for it, I'm saying: Be ready for everything.

What if one of you suddenly have to leave in the near future?

Remember you are both young and you do not control your lives, your parents do. So if your parents have to go or her parents for some reason decide to leave since you are emotionally attached to that person that could really mess you up emotionally.

Or maybe she can say yes and then as she gets older she decides to split for some reason.

See my point? Be ready for everything.

I mean, why you think there are so many emos out there now a days?

Still it's just a possibility. Not like I can see the future or know your family and her family's social status. But you know, just letting you know that because you are so young and your parents are the ones who support you your life could change in a flash.

Just my opinion

Now that I am 23 I understand how different things are from when I was your age. How Good I got it. No bills, no worries, just me and my Nintendo 64 (That was a big deal back in the day LOL)

Congrats again :D

#8 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@G'bandit:
@Silver2467:
Got it oh and also is this a leg problem or dose it happen when u guys do it when i lay down on my belly and bend my leg up it feels like its gonna blow

#9 Posted by G'bandit (13689 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: Im not a doctor but it's probably your muscles flexing.

However if you feel pain go to the doctor O_O

#10 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

k

#11 Posted by G'bandit (13689 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

Also eat your cereal and all your veggies and drink milk before bed =P

I feel like a dad all the sudden LOL

#12 Edited by Amegashita (3601 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: You might need to stretch some more.

When you're in your teens everyone is quick to claim they love someone and sure it happens sometimes but when it comes to the age you're at I wouldn't be so quick to assume you're "in love". Why? Well, from the way I see it, until you reach the age where you're legally considered an adult and you have to make all those life changing decisions, there isn't love, just attractions.

Not saying you're not in love, but don't just throw the word out there you still have the world to see and much to learn. Since this girl is your best friend it may just be a byproduct of that. Especially if tou don't hang out with a lot fo females.

#13 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Amegashita:
I dont hang out with alot female just her

#14 Posted by D-minor (38 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

i disagree with some of the people above; i think we forget how easy it is to be in love when we're young, then for a long time we don't have those feelings and when they return we think we've never felt them before.
my advice is, if you think you may be then go with those feelings; of course, if she doesn't feel the same then telling her may change the relationship...so bear that in mind, but otherwise there's really no need to worry--just enjoy the feeling, it's pretty great. best wishes

#15 Edited by spidey 15 (17756 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

I think i had this feeling like 10 times this year....=P

#16 Posted by mimschkin (626 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

I think it's just hormones, but that's my non-expert opinion :P

#17 Posted by lord_oraculous016 (9280 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

i'm happy for you kiddo.. but i guess it's too early for you to say that what you are feeling is love.. i mean, love for all its mean, purpose and intents.. this special feeling might just be a form of a simple crush.. or in essence, you might just like this girl..

there is a huge difference between liking someone and being in-love with someone.. love is such a strong word and an emotion which transcends all the boundaries of logic and preferences.. like what they say, you may like someone, and yet don't love her in the true meaning of the word,.. and you may not like someone very much, yet you cannot deny the fact that your completely and utterly in-love with that person.. i'm not saying this just because you are young.. because love transcends everything, even age.. its just that, you have to dig deeper for you to find the true meaning of that word..

being in-love is not necessarily because your happy when you are with her.. love is not just about happiness.. it includes deeper emotions such as pain, sorrow even rage.. the true meaning of love is quite hard to understand.. but understanding it is also its beauty..

my advice is that you just enjoy yourself with what you are feeling for her right now.. enjoy her company.. create beautiful moments and memories with her.. let things run its course.. no one can really tell if you are not or truly in-love.. the only person who can tell you that is yourself.. maybe if you would learn the true meaning of love in all its essence, then you would know if you truly are in-love with someone.. ^__^

#18 Posted by Matezoide2 (15980 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@spidey 15 said:

" I think i had this feeling like 10 times this year....=P "

i didnt
HA i am above these feelings

SPOILER WARNING: Click here to reveal hidden content.

:P

good luck Slacker

#19 Posted by TheNooseIsLoose (1900 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: @spidey 15 said:

" I think i had this feeling like 10 times this year....=P "

What he said. I've been there and that's pretty much what that age is about. I would say you are infatuated and you'll probably experience this like a million more times.

#20 Posted by Edamame (26173 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@mimschkin said:

" I think it's just hormones, but that's my non-expert opinion :P "

LOL

#21 Posted by spidey 15 (17756 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Matezoide: >__<

#22 Posted by ComicMan24 (146835 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

You are pretty young. Not sure it's love yet.

#23 Posted by ARMIV (4140 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker:
I can relate to you on this one,dude.

#24 Posted by xxCellPhoneGirlxx (17840 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

Your too young to know what the actual meaning of love is :P

#25 Posted by Primmaster64 (21131 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@G'bandit: or an older brother

#26 Posted by Silver2467 (16361 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@spidey 15 said:

" I think i had this feeling like 10 times this year....=P "

Of course you have. You're 15.

#27 Posted by Sexy Merc (41965 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

You're still young. Your going to learn the repercussions of any relationship anyways, so go for it. You don't want to live with that regret. If anyone tells you it isn't love, just listen to what your heart says, because in the long run, that's all that matters.

If it doesn't break your heart, it isn't love.

#28 Posted by Cherry Bomb (3189 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

I don't know about love yet.
I myself believe that you have to be in a relationship a while before 'love' happens. But ask her out, take her on a date. [: if it works out then that's awesome, if it doesn't ... atleast you know you tried it.

#29 Posted by Silver2467 (16361 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Cherry Bomb said:

" I don't know about love yet. I myself believe that you have to be in a relationship a while before 'love' happens. But ask her out, take her on a date. [: if it works out then that's awesome, if it doesn't ... atleast you know you tried it. "

I agree with this consensus. To expand on it, it takes time and work.

#30 Posted by spidey 15 (17756 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Silver2467 said:

" @spidey 15 said:
" I think i had this feeling like 10 times this year....=P "
Of course you have. You're 15. "

The point is,i had this feeling too many times in just a year. I don't even remember how many times i felt it in whole of mylife...=/

#31 Posted by Silver2467 (16361 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@spidey 15 said:

" @Silver2467 said:
" @spidey 15 said:
" I think i had this feeling like 10 times this year....=P "
Of course you have. You're 15. "
The point is,i had this feeling too many times in just a year. I don't even remember how many times i felt it in whole of mylife...=/ "

I know. I was just making fun of you. :P

#32 Posted by spidey 15 (17756 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Silver2467: I hate when the internet is the reason that i can not understand jokes...>__<

#33 Posted by fbdarkangel (4883 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

wow!

#34 Posted by Silver2467 (16361 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@spidey 15: It's not the internet. It's me. My sense of humor is usually either unfunny or just altogether absent.

#35 Posted by Sexy Merc (41965 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@spidey 15 said:

" The point is,i had this feeling too many times in just a year. I don't even remember how many times i felt it in whole of mylife...=/ "

#36 Posted by spidey 15 (17756 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Sexy Merc: lol

@Silver2467:
I don't think so. I can think many people that they would possibly make a similar joke but it's the way that they will tell it that will make it sound funny. So yes, the internet is the actual reason.
=]

#37 Posted by Silver2467 (16361 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@spidey 15 said:

@Silver2467: I don't think so. I can think many people that they would possibly make a similar joke but it's the way that they will tell it that will make it sound funny. So yes, the internet is the actual reason. =] "

I'd say it's most likely both.

#38 Posted by spidey 15 (17756 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Silver2467: Maybe. But i think internet is a bigger factor.
=]

#39 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

This has to be atleast the 7th longest thread i made

#40 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

There she is at end to the right

#41 Posted by Crom-Cruach (7707 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

take a step back dude, take your time and think for the love of all good sense think. A lot of times it's easy to misinterpret what we perceive because we want something to be and when that happens we can't understand why it goes wrong. Take it slow and make sure you and her are on the same page. communication is key.

#42 Edited by Lunacyde (16453 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker said:

" Shes my best friend im a boy we have been bff since 3rd grade where in 9th grade now and over the years everthing about her i liked the way she smiles is so heavenly and shes so cute when im around her and she always calls me imature when we joke around and she loves to give advice we flirt alot but only for like 1 mintue just curious could i be in love "

It's possible....but getting out of that "friend zone" could be pretty difficult if she just sees you as a friend.

Remember like everyone has said "love" is a special word. Don't take it too lightly, and don't overuse it. Good luck.

#43 Posted by Winfield (116 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@Crom-Cruach said:

" take a step back dude, take your time and think for the love of all good sense think. A lot of times it's easy to misinterpret what we perceive because we want something to be and when that happens we can't understand why it goes wrong. Take it slow and make sure you and her are on the same page. communication is key. "

What he said

#44 Posted by King Saturn (211146 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

I dont know about Love

#45 Posted by ViciousCesar! (2310 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

not love, bro.

#46 Posted by slacker the hacker (7615 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

Iv Got a date tommorow

#47 Posted by spidey 15 (17756 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: Good news.
=]

#48 Posted by Sexy Merc (41965 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: Nice, you beat most guys on this site, lol. Kidding.

#49 Posted by ComicMan24 (146835 posts) - 2 years, 9 months ago - Show Bio

@slacker the hacker: You asked her out. Good.

#50 Posted by Despero is the beginning (868 posts) - 2 years, 8 months ago - Show Bio

I know I am in love... she is my best friend, my confidant, my lover, and everything I need to feel safe, happy, content, and perfectly alright with the world... and when she is mad at me I want to kill EVERYTHING. If you feel this way than I would say yes you are in love, age be damned.