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#1 Posted by ratman19 (525 posts) - - Show Bio

okay, im a 16 year old male and have a major crush on a 19 year old female and need advice on what to do. should i ask her out or should i just get over it and be friends. I really like this girl and need help figuring out what to do. i dont want her to get ostracized or get in trouble for being with a underaged male. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!

#2 Posted by The Stegman (23815 posts) - - Show Bio

First, wait two years, cause right now it would be a felony. 
 
Then, once you're at the right age, go ask her out

#3 Posted by betterboulder (57 posts) - - Show Bio

I feel bad for you, son.

You could ask her out, but depending on the age of consent wherever you are, I would say wait the however many years and stay friends just so you two don't have a constantly scrutinized relationship

#4 Posted by sesquipedalophobe (4699 posts) - - Show Bio

Ask her out. It's pretty simple. The age of consent is sixteen, I think.

#5 Posted by betterboulder (57 posts) - - Show Bio

@sesquipedalophobe: It's 17 here in Texas and it varies between states from 16 - 18

#6 Posted by _slim_ (13075 posts) - - Show Bio

Just ask her.

#7 Posted by sesquipedalophobe (4699 posts) - - Show Bio
@betterboulder: Sucks to be from Texas. Still, it isn't that big of a deal.
#8 Posted by JonSmith (3995 posts) - - Show Bio

You're on the wrong site. You'll be wanting GiantBomb for this kind of advice.

#9 Posted by AweSam (7373 posts) - - Show Bio

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

#10 Posted by HolySerpent (12515 posts) - - Show Bio

Threaten to kill her if she doesn't want you It's the only way

#11 Posted by krilling (2488 posts) - - Show Bio

Are you a cutie? If not than don't ask her. It could make you feel sad at the end.

#12 Posted by nickthedevil (11893 posts) - - Show Bio

Not a problem for me...

#13 Posted by GrandSymbiote94 (11599 posts) - - Show Bio

@ratman19: Where you from and what is the age of consent?

#14 Posted by jobiwankenobi (1459 posts) - - Show Bio

Don't go for an older girl. They get older first.

#15 Posted by NlGHTCRAWLER (2899 posts) - - Show Bio

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son....

#16 Posted by ratman19 (525 posts) - - Show Bio

@GrandSymbiote94: im from california and i dont know what the age of consent is here

#17 Posted by jack16ichigo (453 posts) - - Show Bio

If you really like her then ask,although it does tend to be the other way around a older boy with a younger girl but hey nothings impossible :D

#18 Posted by _Zombie_ (10383 posts) - - Show Bio

Go to Giant Bomb. They have a dating advice hotline.

#19 Posted by texasdeathmatch (13171 posts) - - Show Bio

Gross, don't go to Giant Bomb unless you want a bunch of film snobs giving you dating advice. 
 
They'll probably recommend you watch a Wes Anderson flick with her or something.

#20 Posted by Funrush (1369 posts) - - Show Bio

Well, one thing. Think about if you want to be friends with this girl before you ask her out. If it doesn't work out, it could make your friendship with this girl pretty strained afterword.

#21 Posted by buttersdaman000 (9568 posts) - - Show Bio

Go for it. Nobody is going to care if a 16 year old male dates an older woman lol. If anybody even bothers to bring it the authorities this will be the only response:  
  

#22 Posted by Nefarious (19566 posts) - - Show Bio

Tell her how you feel.

#23 Posted by JediXMan (30206 posts) - - Show Bio

If you love/like her, you don't want her to go to jail.

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#24 Posted by Aiden Cross (15562 posts) - - Show Bio

I don't know how it is in the USA but this age difference (19 and 16) isn't that big of a deal where i live. I'd say go for it if you like her =)

#25 Posted by Raiiyn (3450 posts) - - Show Bio

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I kind of agree with that statement... She'd get a lot of flack from her friends about you being younger and there would be a lot of jailbait comments.

#26 Posted by Glitch_Spawn (17132 posts) - - Show Bio

If you really care about her, go for it. If you just think she's hot, forget her dude. I dated a sophomore in college when I was seventeen and no one cared about it.

#27 Posted by They Killed Cap! (2243 posts) - - Show Bio

Ask her.

#28 Posted by joshmightbe (24876 posts) - - Show Bio

2 whole pages without a 99 problems joke Bravo

#29 Posted by utotheg38 (18883 posts) - - Show Bio

@joshmightbe said:

2 whole pages without a 99 problems joke Bravo

#30 Posted by Cozy_Da_Djed_Eye (10010 posts) - - Show Bio

Ha.

#31 Posted by The_Thunderer (2894 posts) - - Show Bio

@joshmightbe said:

2 whole pages without a 99 problems joke Bravo

you missed it, i'll show you:

@NlGHTCRAWLER said:

If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son....

#32 Posted by Mercy_ (92676 posts) - - Show Bio

Go to GB. They've got the hotline and everything...

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#33 Posted by Cozy_Da_Djed_Eye (10010 posts) - - Show Bio

@ratman19: My best advice is that you take her out to eat then leave the intercourse part to me since you're not old enough =]

#34 Posted by HBKTimHBK (5240 posts) - - Show Bio

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I know 18 year olds who dated 14 year olds...

#35 Posted by cyberninja (10413 posts) - - Show Bio

You really think comicvine's basement dwellers can give you advice on girls? SMH. 

#36 Posted by AweSam (7373 posts) - - Show Bio

@HBKTimHBK said:

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I know 18 year olds who dated 14 year olds...

18 year old girl? If so, then that's messed up. It's also really rare. Older girls almost never date younger guys.

#37 Posted by HBKTimHBK (5240 posts) - - Show Bio

@AweSam said:

@HBKTimHBK said:

@AweSam said:

No 19 year old girl would date a 16 year old guy. She'll think you're too immature.

I know 18 year olds who dated 14 year olds...

18 year old girl? If so, then that's messed up. It's also really rare. Older girls almost never date younger guys.

Actually, I know one of both. The one with the 18 year old guy and 14 year old girl stopped a long time ago, the 18 year old girl and 15 (Now) is still going..he's a sophomore, and she's a college freshmen.

#38 Posted by YourNeighborhoodComicGeek (20135 posts) - - Show Bio

Walk up to that chick and ask her out right on the spot.

If she says yes, than congratulations.

If she says no, then whatever. It wasn't meant to be. Especially for a chick that is older than you.

#39 Posted by LightningGod67 (238 posts) - - Show Bio

Who cares?

#40 Posted by Pwok21 (2254 posts) - - Show Bio

Don't go to GiantBomb like others are suggesting.

Instead try 4Chan or Tumblr, they normally have good advice.

#41 Edited by Jezer (3127 posts) - - Show Bio

Get over it. Any 19 year old girl willing to date a 16 year old guy is either ugly or not mature(or both).

Unless you're comparably maturer than your age - in which case you wouldn't be asking Comicvine for help with this problem.

I think it's better that you learn that you can't chase, or even admit your feelings to, every girl that you like. Self-control goes a long way in life.

#42 Posted by utotheg38 (18883 posts) - - Show Bio

@JonSmith said:

You're on the wrong site. You'll be wanting GiantBomb for this kind of advice.

Im sorry, But Why?

#43 Posted by BiteMe-Fanboy (7711 posts) - - Show Bio

Join the party.

#44 Posted by Deranged Midget (17599 posts) - - Show Bio

First off, best of luck considering that older women almost never date younger guys. Second of all, you can't be afraid to step up and get turned down. Just ask her, if she says no, shrug it off and move on. You're 16 for christ's sake.

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#45 Posted by JonSmith (3995 posts) - - Show Bio

@utotheg38: They have their own dating advice line!

#46 Posted by utotheg38 (18883 posts) - - Show Bio

@JonSmith said:

@utotheg38: They have their own dating advice line!

Link

#47 Posted by JonSmith (3995 posts) - - Show Bio

@utotheg38: Don't need a link, I have photographic evidence.

#48 Posted by Enemybird (3220 posts) - - Show Bio

I'm 23 and the oldest I've dated was 37. She didnt look a day over 25. I met her in college, we got along great & still hang out to this day. Although, there is something about you not being an adult that I am sure she wont be able to get over. In other words she'll put you in the friend zone. But dont let that get to you bro... plenty fish in the sea.

#49 Posted by utotheg38 (18883 posts) - - Show Bio

@JonSmith said:

@utotheg38: Don't need a link, I have photographic evidence.

Oh sh!t!!!!!!

That's Insane

#50 Posted by JonSmith (3995 posts) - - Show Bio

@utotheg38 said:

@JonSmith said:

@utotheg38: Don't need a link, I have photographic evidence.

Oh sh!t!!!!!!

That's Insanely awesome!

Yes. Yes it is.