How do you manage a betrayal?

Yesterday, a group of so called "friends", talked s*#t about me. Only two of them (my best friend and a good friend) got mad and leved the place.

The fact is: maybe I was wrong, maybe I did a mistake, maybe I'm not so good as I think. The only thing that really hurts me is the fact that they always talked about that and never said it in to me.

Only now, I remembered how many times they smiled to me, they acted like good friends, and I understand that every single time they were fake.

What would you do in my place?

Plot your revenge. Make it good.

@mightythunderbird: The only way to deal with betrayal is revenge. It'll make you feel good about yourself.

Ask Peter BAELISH ! ^^

If it was me I'd just move on, man. Get yourself a project, start a sport, take up jogging, something that improves you status quo ideally. Who knows, maybe they weren't serious, people change, time heals all wounds, all that sh!t, so it might not be that bad?

If it really is either make new friends, or stick to the good ones your already have, and you do have good ones.

with fire

MonKeY sEX. Passionate MONKEY SEX

An eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth!

Choose your friends more carefully. Know the difference between an acquaintance, an associate and a friend. Keep the friends who really have your back and cut off the ones who were talking sh-t. Revenge sounds like a good idea but it takes up valuable time and energy that could be used for something far more fun or productive. Don't give those a$$holes that power.

Revenge.

Yours truly, Frosty

Revenge

go catch some bodies, fool!

This. All six points are on target.

RKO outta nowhere

@mightythunderbird: you sound young, better friends will come along

I'm 22

Ugh... Drama....

Shoot them and then learn english and fix your grammar

"I will have such revenges... they shall be The terrors of the earth."- (King Lear Shakespeare)

Get over it and find new friends on this planet of 7 billion people.

REVENGE

Tell them how you feel.

I have to agree with most of the people here.

Payback is a bitch.

@overlordarthas: it's time to duel

Get revenge, nothing is worse then betraying a friend that is one of the lowest things a person can do.

Et tu brute?

I miss the time when you can settle any dispute between friends by having a fist fight, because after that, you are friends again.

MonKeY sEX

@mightythunderbird: Either talk to them and find out why they talked smack, deal, and move on, or cut your losses, rewarding your other friends while blowing off the traitors, deal, and move on. Just don't dwell too much. Obviously, they are the ones with the problem if they can't confront you about it. F*** 'em.

Murder

Nope. Now I know what to do.

Well, at first I felt really sad (near-to-cry-but-not-cry kind of emotion), because mostly those one that I shared my life and happy moments for years were the one that talked more sh*t about me.

2 hours ago, I met those fuc**rs. I asked (one by one): "Why did you did this to me?" and, from anyone the answers were-> A: No, it was B and C, I didn't even was there.B: Who? I'd never even thought about you in this way. Maybe C... C: I can put my hand on fire for you, why should I'd ever say those horrible things, I can remember A and B talkin' s**t about you (...)

And after that, I really feel the need to REVENGE. I won't do it this week nor next month. I'll wait the moment when their life will be pure shit, when they will be in depth. And they will ask for help to rise them up. I will be there. And I'll give him them a shovel.

@mightythunderbird:

@mightythunderbird: That's a bad idea even if they did talk behind your back. Be the mature one and try to fix things, calling them out on it was the wrong thing to do. You should have told them how you felt and discussed it.

Be civil. If that doesn't work, then do what you need to.

How can I end there? By the way, I'm 2nd dan Taekwondo: I'll fight to death

My words were metaphoric, I won't kill people. I talked about psychological revenge.

What are your top5 (or Top 3) movie Directors?

find other friends or simply don't hang out with those people anymore

or start talking sh!t about them behind their backs

Cut them out of your life and don't look back. Don't cave to their shallow apologies.

What did they say about you.?

@mightythunderbird: if you sweat it they win. Living good, that is how you get them back.

Edit: unless you are in high school. Then revenge is the way to go.

It kinda depends on what it was they said. I mean yes, there are some friendships where you just would not dare talk sh!t about one person to another, because you know you wouldn't get away with it. But the reality is, people do talk smack about each other. Even people who care very deeply for one another sometimes need to just vent and talk crap about each other. Not everyone, granted, but it does happen and doesn't always mean the person involved doesn't care about you.

Plus you sound kinda young, and when you're young friendships can be that way. hell, I'm friends with people now I was friends with 20 years ago, and we used to say stuff about each other we would not even dream of saying now. So in some ways it's a maturity thing.

Although, all this aside, there is a limit and there are some things you should just never say about someone you are supposed to care about. So ya know. Keep your pimp hand strong. Just in case ;)

Find better friends then together plot revenge against your old friends