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#1 Posted by Nerx (15087 posts) - - Show Bio

Its just that i seem to have problems approaching this person, any tips from people with experience and how it works for you... and maybe a way to improve confidence.

#2 Posted by Swagga Boy (3769 posts) - - Show Bio

Chuck Norris smells what the Rock is cooking... because the Rock is Chuck Norris' personal chef.....Make then laugh always works

#3 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio

is this at school? if it is you can always find reasons like I need help with my math or whatever (even though you probably don't) or vice versa...ask her if she needs help.

If you get nervous around her...talk to her friend or someone that knows you to help you out and introduce you. Don't try to impress her though becuase when you do that some girls think your an a$$hole and won't bother talking to you....just be nice and be yourself.

#4 Posted by warlock360 (28064 posts) - - Show Bio

Be yourself, if your an ass, then dont

#5 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio
Voidheart said:
"Be yourself, if your an ass, then dont"

lol...
#6 Posted by Greystone (480 posts) - - Show Bio

See, I'm a real smooth dude. This is what you do. You have to get to know her, but don't get to friendly. That's how you get trapped in the friend zone. Keep a decent amount of sexual tension between you two. Be thoughtful, but not brotherly. Invite her out to chill. take an interest in the things she likes to do. Follow my lead and you'll hit it in no time.

#7 Posted by Gloom (3653 posts) - - Show Bio
Greystone said:
"Keep a decent amount of sexual tension between you two."
HAHAHA!

Talk to her. Be nice. Be funny.
#8 Posted by Swagga Boy (3769 posts) - - Show Bio
Greystone said:
"See, I'm a real smooth dude. This is what you do. You have to get to know her, but don't get to friendly. That's how you get trapped in the friend zone. Keep a decent amount of sexual tension between you two. Be thoughtful, but not brotherly. Invite her out to chill. take an interest in the things she likes to do. Follow my lead and you'll hit it in no time."

thats how you get caught in the friend zone.
#9 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio

honestly, don't try that.....unless your a mac and no offense if you where you wouldn't ask for our help.....just do what i said.

#10 Posted by Vance Astro (91403 posts) - - Show Bio

How hard is to walk up to someone...it doesn't matter what you say when you approach someone..it matter that you have the confidence to approach them in the first place.I haven't had a problem approaching people since I was in 3rd grade so I really can't tell you how I made the transition.I think that if you approach someone with something you know they are interested in...they can't help but talk to you...unless you are crackhead,or you smell,or your a bump,or funny looking or something.

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#11 Posted by Ultimate Ronin (2800 posts) - - Show Bio

id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP

#12 Posted by Acer (14412 posts) - - Show Bio
Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO
#13 Posted by ~The Wanderer~ (34406 posts) - - Show Bio
Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

No seriously, what Vance, Gloom and Tenjin said make sense.
#14 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio
Vance Astro said:
"How hard is to walk up to someone...it doesn't matter what you say when you approach someone..it matter that you have the confidence to approach them in the first place.I haven't had a problem approaching people since I was in 3rd grade so I really can't tell you how I made the transition.I think that if you approach someone with something you know they are interested in...they can't help but talk to you...unless you are crackhead,or you smell,or your a bump,or funny looking or something."

lmao.....i used to get nervous around women alot until i was like 16 but now I don't have a problem with it...I work at a high end tanning salon (im working right now btw) and i am surrounded by women all the time....After hearing all the conversations about bad dates and whatnot i learned not to do any of it....ohhhh and staying in the friend zone does have its benefits ^^ not going to say anything about that though
#15 Posted by Ultimate Ronin (2800 posts) - - Show Bio
Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol
#16 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio
Ultimate Ronin said:
"Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol"

ahh hell naw lol
#17 Posted by warlock360 (28064 posts) - - Show Bio

knockout pills

#18 Posted by Ultimate Ronin (2800 posts) - - Show Bio

<-----------mans man lol

im old school haha

#19 Posted by Acer (14412 posts) - - Show Bio
Ultimate Ronin said:
"Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol"
I might try it sometime :P
#20 Posted by Ultimate Ronin (2800 posts) - - Show Bio
Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol"
I might try it sometime :P"
well theres always that or just  buy them a beer
#21 Posted by Acer (14412 posts) - - Show Bio
Ultimate Ronin said:
"Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol"
I might try it sometime :P"
well theres always that or just  buy them a beer"
Screw that i only waste my money buying beer for myself :PP
#22 Posted by Ultimate Ronin (2800 posts) - - Show Bio
Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"Acer said:
"Ultimate Ronin said:
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol"
I might try it sometime :P"
well theres always that or just  buy them a beer"
Screw that i only waste my money buying beer for myself :PP"
yea and a club is alot cheaper b/c you can use anything as a club you find laying around.....the trick is not to let them see the club until its to late then POW :PPP
#23 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio

@Nerx don't try to be all Casanova either as in don't constantly feed her lines like "Your eyes glow brighter than the sun and glisten like the stars themselves".....don't becuase it is creepy and she will assume your a stalker or a pyschopath. You can say you look wonderful today or whatever,,,,I don't say that though because they think you flattering them and then if yu don't say it the next day they get pissed...and if you do it all the time they get pissed cuz your over doing it

#24 Edited by John Valentine (16335 posts) - - Show Bio

Be rude and offensive to her: tell her that you want to physicallly harm her. (not really)









#25 Posted by King Saturn (225088 posts) - - Show Bio
I dont have any issues with talking to chicks these days. I just go over to them and just create conversation with them... I do it all the time at the office
#26 Posted by Kurrent (14070 posts) - - Show Bio
Nerx said:
"Its just that i seem to have problems approaching this person, any tips from people with experience and how it works for you... and maybe a way to improve confidence."
Get over the fear of rejection first. Approach her with the attitude that if she rejects you it will be her loss. If the first few seconds seem awkward and she is not into it then bow out gracefully. Grinning and standing up tall shows confidence also
#27 Posted by Ultimate Ronin (2800 posts) - - Show Bio
Kurrent said:
"Nerx said:
"Its just that i seem to have problems approaching this person, any tips from people with experience and how it works for you... and maybe a way to improve confidence."
Get over the fear of rejection first. Approach her with the attitude that if she rejects you it will be her loss. If the first few seconds seem awkward and she is not into it then bow out gracefully. Grinning and standing up tall shows confidence also"
dude i know you use the club technique dont lie :PPP
#28 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio

if self-confidence is your problem then your probobly don't have alot of experience talking to women in general, correct? It isn't a bad thing my best friend is the same way but I taught him a old 'hood trick....this is going to sound sooooo a$$holeish  and very mean and i will probably going to lose cool points for this one but...

scale her on a 1 to 10 from ugly to pretty....find her number (lets say she is a 7) all other girls 6 and under you "Spit Game" too and once you get soo many numbers it will build up your confidence and eventually you will be able to talk to hotter women trust me it works but if you have a concious don't do this......

#29 Posted by Gloom (3653 posts) - - Show Bio
Tenjin said:
"if self-confidence is your problem then your probobly don't have alot of experience talking to women in general, correct? It isn't a bad thing my best friend is the same way but I taught him a old 'hood trick....this is going to sound sooooo a$$holeish  and very mean and i will probably going to lose cool points for this one but...

scale her on a 1 to 10 from ugly to pretty....find her number (lets say she is a 7) all other girls 6 and under you "Spit Game" too and once you get soo many numbers it will build up your confidence and eventually you will be able to talk to hotter women trust me it works but if you have a concious don't do this......"
This isn't "a$$holeish" or very mean, it's just imbecilic, IMO.

And it's terrible advice. Getting numbers from girls all over the place is not going to help you get that "one" girl.
#30 Posted by xXi0RIXx (1736 posts) - - Show Bio

lol


as a chick

.........idunno
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD


I approched the guy i liked first xD
i told him his hair was cool at the arcade
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

#31 Posted by King Saturn (225088 posts) - - Show Bio
xXi0RIXx said:
"lol


as a chick

.........idunno
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD


I approched the guy i liked first xD
i told him his hair was cool at the arcade
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD"
See There Ya Go... it all starts from a few words of confidence
#32 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio
Gloom said:
"Tenjin said:
"if self-confidence is your problem then your probobly don't have alot of experience talking to women in general, correct? It isn't a bad thing my best friend is the same way but I taught him a old 'hood trick....this is going to sound sooooo a$$holeish  and very mean and i will probably going to lose cool points for this one but...

scale her on a 1 to 10 from ugly to pretty....find her number (lets say she is a 7) all other girls 6 and under you "Spit Game" too and once you get soo many numbers it will build up your confidence and eventually you will be able to talk to hotter women trust me it works but if you have a concious don't do this......"
This isn't "a$$holeish" or very mean, it's just imbecilic, IMO.

And it's terrible advice. Getting numbers from girls all over the place is not going to help you get that "one" girl."
worked for my friend....like i said i didn't recommend it either but it is one of the only ways to build self confidence based on this situation....of course there are flaws but it truely works.

I said this not because i have a huge ego or and/or a womenizer but i mentioned it becuase it helps.

@Nerx told you i would lose cool points from posting that......
#33 Posted by Resonate (15054 posts) - - Show Bio
"Does this smell like chloroform to you?"
#34 Posted by Tenjin (1605 posts) - - Show Bio
Resonate said:
""Does this smell like chloroform to you?""

wtf lmao
#35 Posted by GreyGoose (5044 posts) - - Show Bio

roflmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what the hell....this thread is hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#36 Posted by Perfect Cell (3470 posts) - - Show Bio

You walk up to her and kiss her.

#37 Posted by Vance Astro (91403 posts) - - Show Bio
Perfect Cell said:
"You walk up to her and kiss her."
Yea if your..trying to go to jail.
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#38 Posted by Swagga Boy (3769 posts) - - Show Bio
Vance Astro said:
"Perfect Cell said:
"You walk up to her and kiss her."
Yea if your..trying to go to jail."
ROFL
#39 Posted by xXi0RIXx (1736 posts) - - Show Bio
Perfect Cell said:
"You walk up to her and kiss her."
GUAYAYAYAYAYAYYAYAYAyayazayayayayYAYYAAYYAAY YAAYAAYAYY


ID LIKE TO SEE YOU TRY THAT
#40 Posted by pixelized (62883 posts) - - Show Bio

You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds

#41 Posted by GreyGoose (5044 posts) - - Show Bio
pixelized said:
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"

guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD
#42 Posted by Swagga Boy (3769 posts) - - Show Bio
GreyGoose said:
"pixelized said:
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"

guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"

Coma how
#43 Posted by Vance Astro (91403 posts) - - Show Bio
Swagga Boy said:
"GreyGoose said:
"pixelized said:
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"

guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"

Coma how"
Inverted DDT
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#44 Posted by GreyGoose (5044 posts) - - Show Bio
Swagga Boy said:
"GreyGoose said:
"pixelized said:
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"

guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"

Coma how"
and u would be a prime example as to how i beat the hell out of you....leaving you in a coma =]
#45 Posted by Swagga Boy (3769 posts) - - Show Bio
Vance Astro said:
"Swagga Boy said:
"GreyGoose said:
"pixelized said:
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"

guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"

Coma how"
Inverted DDT"
ouch
#46 Posted by sarah morgan (421 posts) - - Show Bio

i havent had to hit on a guy since the 7th grade! lo;

-_- even though i hit on pix all the time

#47 Posted by Vance Astro (91403 posts) - - Show Bio
sarah morgan said:
"i havent had to hit on a guy since the 7th grade! lo;

-_- even though i hit on pix all the time"
Your an irresponsible poke'mon trainer and I would suggest you get your Charmander out of the rain.
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#48 Posted by xXi0RIXx (1736 posts) - - Show Bio

lol okay okay okay here the thing
first off be friends
LOL
because when someone comes up to me and says
im sorry
i couldnt help myself but your so beutiful
just to not make them feel bad
i just shake my head
and he gives me his phone

i never call back
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
now
if someones friends with chuuuuuuuuuuuuu first
BAM!
LOL
find something chu have in common
like

i dunno man
i met my bf
cause like
we both go to the arcade
and like...both have cool hair
and uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he was playing mvc2
and i was playing capcom vs snk 2

#49 Posted by sarah morgan (421 posts) - - Show Bio

LMFAO maybe you should no that i have Cyndaquil not charmander lol

#50 Posted by oldmagic (5295 posts) - - Show Bio

This is an interesting thread