Its just that i seem to have problems approaching this person, any tips from people with experience and how it works for you... and maybe a way to improve confidence.
is this at school? if it is you can always find reasons like I need help with my math or whatever (even though you probably don't) or vice versa...ask her if she needs help.
If you get nervous around her...talk to her friend or someone that knows you to help you out and introduce you. Don't try to impress her though becuase when you do that some girls think your an a$$hole and won't bother talking to you....just be nice and be yourself.
See, I'm a real smooth dude. This is what you do. You have to get to know her, but don't get to friendly. That's how you get trapped in the friend zone. Keep a decent amount of sexual tension between you two. Be thoughtful, but not brotherly. Invite her out to chill. take an interest in the things she likes to do. Follow my lead and you'll hit it in no time.
"See, I'm a real smooth dude. This is what you do. You have to get to know her, but don't get to friendly. That's how you get trapped in the friend zone. Keep a decent amount of sexual tension between you two. Be thoughtful, but not brotherly. Invite her out to chill. take an interest in the things she likes to do. Follow my lead and you'll hit it in no time."
How hard is to walk up to someone...it doesn't matter what you say when you approach someone..it matter that you have the confidence to approach them in the first place.I haven't had a problem approaching people since I was in 3rd grade so I really can't tell you how I made the transition.I think that if you approach someone with something you know they are interested in...they can't help but talk to you...unless you are crackhead,or you smell,or your a bump,or funny looking or something.
id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
No seriously, what Vance, Gloom and Tenjin said make sense.
"How hard is to walk up to someone...it doesn't matter what you say when you approach someone..it matter that you have the confidence to approach them in the first place.I haven't had a problem approaching people since I was in 3rd grade so I really can't tell you how I made the transition.I think that if you approach someone with something you know they are interested in...they can't help but talk to you...unless you are crackhead,or you smell,or your a bump,or funny looking or something."
lmao.....i used to get nervous around women alot until i was like 16 but now I don't have a problem with it...I work at a high end tanning salon (im working right now btw) and i am surrounded by women all the time....After hearing all the conversations about bad dates and whatnot i learned not to do any of it....ohhhh and staying in the friend zone does have its benefits ^^ not going to say anything about that though
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol"
I might try it sometime :P"
well theres always that or just buy them a beer"
Screw that i only waste my money buying beer for myself :PP
"id say just walk up to her with a club and bash her over the head and drag her by her hair back to your cave works evertime or at least it did for the cavemen :PP"
ROTFLMMFAO"
shrugs what? works for me lol"
I might try it sometime :P"
well theres always that or just buy them a beer"
Screw that i only waste my money buying beer for myself :PP"
yea and a club is alot cheaper b/c you can use anything as a club you find laying around.....the trick is not to let them see the club until its to late then POW :PPP
@Nerx don't try to be all Casanova either as in don't constantly feed her lines like "Your eyes glow brighter than the sun and glisten like the stars themselves".....don't becuase it is creepy and she will assume your a stalker or a pyschopath. You can say you look wonderful today or whatever,,,,I don't say that though because they think you flattering them and then if yu don't say it the next day they get pissed...and if you do it all the time they get pissed cuz your over doing it
I dont have any issues with talking to chicks these days. I just go over to them and just create conversation with them... I do it all the time at the office
"Its just that i seem to have problems approaching this person, any tips from people with experience and how it works for you... and maybe a way to improve confidence."
Get over the fear of rejection first. Approach her with the attitude that if she rejects you it will be her loss. If the first few seconds seem awkward and she is not into it then bow out gracefully. Grinning and standing up tall shows confidence also
"Its just that i seem to have problems approaching this person, any tips from people with experience and how it works for you... and maybe a way to improve confidence."
Get over the fear of rejection first. Approach her with the attitude that if she rejects you it will be her loss. If the first few seconds seem awkward and she is not into it then bow out gracefully. Grinning and standing up tall shows confidence also"
dude i know you use the club technique dont lie :PPP
if self-confidence is your problem then your probobly don't have alot of experience talking to women in general, correct? It isn't a bad thing my best friend is the same way but I taught him a old 'hood trick....this is going to sound sooooo a$$holeish and very mean and i will probably going to lose cool points for this one but...
scale her on a 1 to 10 from ugly to pretty....find her number (lets say she is a 7) all other girls 6 and under you "Spit Game" too and once you get soo many numbers it will build up your confidence and eventually you will be able to talk to hotter women trust me it works but if you have a concious don't do this......
"if self-confidence is your problem then your probobly don't have alot of experience talking to women in general, correct? It isn't a bad thing my best friend is the same way but I taught him a old 'hood trick....this is going to sound sooooo a$$holeish and very mean and i will probably going to lose cool points for this one but...
scale her on a 1 to 10 from ugly to pretty....find her number (lets say she is a 7) all other girls 6 and under you "Spit Game" too and once you get soo many numbers it will build up your confidence and eventually you will be able to talk to hotter women trust me it works but if you have a concious don't do this......"
This isn't "a$$holeish" or very mean, it's just imbecilic, IMO.
And it's terrible advice. Getting numbers from girls all over the place is not going to help you get that "one" girl.
"if self-confidence is your problem then your probobly don't have alot of experience talking to women in general, correct? It isn't a bad thing my best friend is the same way but I taught him a old 'hood trick....this is going to sound sooooo a$$holeish and very mean and i will probably going to lose cool points for this one but...
scale her on a 1 to 10 from ugly to pretty....find her number (lets say she is a 7) all other girls 6 and under you "Spit Game" too and once you get soo many numbers it will build up your confidence and eventually you will be able to talk to hotter women trust me it works but if you have a concious don't do this......"
This isn't "a$$holeish" or very mean, it's just imbecilic, IMO.
And it's terrible advice. Getting numbers from girls all over the place is not going to help you get that "one" girl."
worked for my friend....like i said i didn't recommend it either but it is one of the only ways to build self confidence based on this situation....of course there are flaws but it truely works.
I said this not because i have a huge ego or and/or a womenizer but i mentioned it becuase it helps.
@Nerx told you i would lose cool points from posting that......
You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"
guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"
guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"
guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"
guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"
Coma how"
and u would be a prime example as to how i beat the hell out of you....leaving you in a coma =]
"You just walk up to her and smack the taste out of her mouth. If she knows that her mouth is bleeding without looking at it, then you havent hit her hard enough. Once step one is complete you send her a get well card. then once she's better you move into step 3 and that's ask her out while she's cracked out on Pain meds"
guys and this is how you end up in a coma for 3 days....might wanna try a different approach ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!! xD"
lol okay okay okay here the thing first off be friends LOL because when someone comes up to me and says im sorry i couldnt help myself but your so beutiful just to not make them feel bad i just shake my head and he gives me his phone
i never call back XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD now if someones friends with chuuuuuuuuuuuuu first BAM! LOL find something chu have in common like
i dunno man i met my bf cause like we both go to the arcade and like...both have cool hair and uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh he was playing mvc2 and i was playing capcom vs snk 2
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