How do I make everyone love me?

Your parents care about you because you are caring their DNA and in some ways provide companionship. You are like an investment. They already placed so much money on providing school, feeding, and clothing you. Before you bring up adoption. It falls under the latter of people wanting companionship, and not feel lonely; this is also a selfish reason if you can't figure it out.

Fun fact: Mothers love ugly children less than if the child is beautiful.

Women love ugly children less

You care about others in your life because they fulfill your desire for social interaction. There was a review done by university of Michigan which showed that people with a satisfactory social circle tend to alienate and dehumanize anyone new. This is due to them being satisfied by their social interaction. It kind of like being hungry and having an all you can eat buffet. After you cleaned house on the table, your not going to want to add another thing in your mouth once your full.

Your girlfriend cares about you most likely due to your social status, social contacts or physical appearance. Possibly personality also but that's way down the list on priority.

I'm guessing your one of those guys who don't really what women prioritize for in a man:

1. Social status (do people like him ? Would being associated with him alienate me from my social circle ?)

2. Resources (What contacts does he have ? How rich is he ? What can I get by being with him ?)

3. Appearance (Is he tall ? Is he 8/10+ facial wise ? Does he have a nice physique)

Have you heard of the 80/20 rule. 80% of the girls go after 20% of the guys, while the rest of men get the remaining 20%. While this statisical value may be slightly skewed it does whole wait from real world experience.

4. Personality (Is he funny ? Is he smart ? etc)

Again social status being priority # 1,and actually is linked through biological reasons, if you would like to hear about it.

I did. But it is still bullshit because people today are so self dependent on others for approval. This is why a lot of people tend to use "we" in their sentences a lot more than "I".

And what I am saying is that the point is mute because it cannot be done. Humans are measured on a day to day basis, and instinctively look for the approval of others. If that makes little sense to you, then maybe you are the one who needs to look closer at yourself.

Your parents care about you because you are caring their DNA and in some ways provide companionship. You are like an investment. They already placed so much money on providing school, feeding, and clothing you. Before you bring up adoption. It falls under the latter of people wanting companionship, and not feel lonely; this is also a selfish reason if you can't figure it out.

Fun fact: Mothers love ugly children less than if the child is beautiful.

Women love ugly children less

You care about others in your life because they fulfill your desire for social interaction. There was a review done by university of Michigan which showed that people with a satisfactory social circle tend to alienate and dehumanize anyone new. This is due to them being satisfied by their social interaction. It kind of like being hungry and having an all you can eat buffet. After you cleaned house on the table, your not going to want to add another thing in your mouth once your full.

Your girlfriend cares about you most likely due to your social status, social contacts or physical appearance. Possibly personality also but that's way down the list on priority.

I'm guessing your one of those guys who don't really what women prioritize for in a man:

1. Social status (do people like him ? Would being associated with him alienate me from my social circle ?)

2. Resources (What contacts does he have ? How rich is he ? What can I get by being with him ?)

3. Appearance (Is he tall ? Is he 8/10+ facial wise ? Does he have a nice physique)

Have you heard of the 80/20 rule. 80% of the girls go after 20% of the guys, while the rest of men get the remaining 20%. While this statisical value may be slightly skewed it does whole wait from real world experience.

4. Personality (Is he funny ? Is he smart ? etc)

Again social status being priority # 1,and actually is linked through biological reasons, if you would like to hear about it.

self dependent on others? thats a bit of a contradiction.