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There's this cute girl I met at work over the summer that I really like. We used to talk to each other all the time while working together. We've got a lot in common and blah blah blah blah (moving on). Since it was just a summer job (for both of us) we had to say our goodbyes and head back to our colleges for the school year. I decided that I would add her on facebook and she accepted my request. Then I start to message her and we talk back and forth for about a week. Unfortunately, whenever we message each other on facebook they are more like e-mails than instant messages. So we've pretty much been having an on-going/never ending conversation due to the fact that when we message each other only one of us are online. The problem here is that that conversation is dying and I feel like she's getting annoyed with having to respond to a message every time she logs in (her responses are getting shorter and she's not responding as quickly).

Now that you have the context of the situation and you realize what a hopeless dweeb I am, I ask you, how do you think I should I ask this girl for her number?

EDIT: I got her number :)

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Yeah, what could go wrong?

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can I get your number?

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@humanrocket: Sure thing, big boy. Send me a PM whenever your smexy self wants.

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#7  Edited By comicace3

Its very easy. You don't. Try meeting them IRL before you ask for their number. Even if you know them, do it in person. Yes I read the op.

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@black_arrow: Sorry if I was unclear, I have no clue what to say to get her number. What do you think I should say to get the number? One of my friends suggested saying something like, "hey I'm getting tired and I'm going to get ready for bed but here's my number if you still want to talk." I think that could be good but the problem with that is that me and her don't instantly message each other. It's more like every 40-60 minutes. So I feel like that wouldn't really work.

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Just ask for her number; screw cutting corners, beating around the bush and the rest of that jazz. Some times agressiveness supersedes subtleness.

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@comicace3 said:

Its very easy. You don't. Try meeting them IRL before you ask for their number. Even if you know them, do it in person.

She's currently in a different state than me and I don't think we'd see each other again for a really long time.

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You don't.

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It's bad form!

However, if you must, be direct.

Not sly, not verbose, not over-the-top. Just direct and concise, with some cuteness thrown in if that's your personality.

IMO, There's no better way to talk to a girl than direct.

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@noone301995 Tell her that you are a billionaire IRL and you use $100 bills as toilet paper. She will be the one asking you for your number.

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Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

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Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

This is probably what I'd say and is honestly the best answer so far.

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just ask if you can get together with her instead of trying to carry on a conversation on Facebook. If she says yes then she is interested and will give you her number to talk to her in the future and set up more dates. If she says no, you at least have your closure.

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#17  Edited By Black_Arrow

Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

This is a good advice.

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I actually gave decent advice for once?

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YOU DON'T.

Seriously, I wish people would stop asking for relationship advice here.

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#21  Edited By cameron83

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Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

That works for you because you're attractive. I'm ugly,so it might go like this for me:

"Hey,you seem like a nice person--"

"EW,NO! F^CK OFF!!!"

me:

......Okay,I was only say hi,but m'kay.

lol jk I kid I kid

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Stop being so damn Beta dude have no shame and say what you want, as in her number. Nothing too long, just short and sweet but enough to show your not some scared kid.

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noone301995 marked this as the best answer

Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

That works for you because you're attractive. I'm ugly,so it might go like this for me:

"Hey,you seem like a nice person--"

"EW,NO! F^CK OFF!!!"

me:

......Okay,I was only say hi,but m'kay.

lol jk I kid I kid

Self Confidence is your best pal :)

I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago.

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#25  Edited By Erik

Threaten her.

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#26  Edited By ms__omega

Just ask...

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#27  Edited By The_Deathstroker

@thetruebarryallen: "I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago."

And now you have more than Wolverine08 after he breaks a former personal record of his in lifting. xP

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@thetruebarryallen: "I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago."

And now you have more than Wolverine08 after he breaks a former personal record of his in lifting. xP

I blame the internet.

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ayy babe hand your digits over.

I can't talk to girls.

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I CAME HERE FOR COMIC BOOKS NOT GIRLS

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#34  Edited By Jmarshmallow

@thetruebarryallen: "I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago."

And now you have more than Wolverine08 after he breaks a former personal record of his in lifting. xP

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Hey, baby girl, sexy thang. You are on my mind all the time. Would you mind telling me yo number?

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@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

noone301995 marked this as the best answer

Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

That works for you because you're attractive. I'm ugly,so it might go like this for me:

"Hey,you seem like a nice person--"

"EW,NO! F^CK OFF!!!"

me:

......Okay,I was only say hi,but m'kay.

lol jk I kid I kid

Self Confidence is your best pal :)

I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago.

Really? Wow. That's actually.....news to me.

I mean,you look like you could be Jesus' attractive successful brother....

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@keenko said:

I CAME HERE FOR COMIC BOOKS NOT GIRLS

It is called "off topic" though...

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@kittyparker13: It's going down in the Fanfic forum. Want me to tag you in it so you can see the thread?

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@thetruebarryallen said:

@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

noone301995 marked this as the best answer

Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

That works for you because you're attractive. I'm ugly,so it might go like this for me:

"Hey,you seem like a nice person--"

"EW,NO! F^CK OFF!!!"

me:

......Okay,I was only say hi,but m'kay.

lol jk I kid I kid

Self Confidence is your best pal :)

I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago.

Really? Wow. That's actually.....news to me.

I mean,you look like you could be Jesus' attractive successful brother....

Yep - I lacked social skills, self confidence, and a fashion sense.

  • I was awful at talking with anyone, especially girls.
  • I didn't actually kiss a girl until I was a Freshman in College.
  • I never had a "best friend" and nobody considered me their best friend.
  • My hair was so long I was mistaken for a female on several occasions.

One day I got sick of it all and decided to get a haircut and change my clothes up a bit to look a tad more presentable. Then every morning I woke up, looked in the mirror, and told myself I was awesome.

Don't know why it happened, don't know where it came from, but if I can do it anyone can do it.

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#43  Edited By Keenko

@cameron83 said:

@keenko said:

I CAME HERE FOR COMIC BOOKS NOT GIRLS

It is called "off topic" though...

Admittedly a fair point.

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@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

noone301995 marked this as the best answer

Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

That works for you because you're attractive. I'm ugly,so it might go like this for me:

"Hey,you seem like a nice person--"

"EW,NO! F^CK OFF!!!"

me:

......Okay,I was only say hi,but m'kay.

lol jk I kid I kid

Self Confidence is your best pal :)

I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago.

Really? Wow. That's actually.....news to me.

I mean,you look like you could be Jesus' attractive successful brother....

Yep - I lacked social skills, self confidence, and a fashion sense.

  • I was awful at talking with anyone, especially girls.
  • I didn't actually kiss a girl until I was a Freshman in College.
  • I never had a "best friend" and nobody considered me their best friend.
  • My hair was so long I was mistaken for a female on several occasions.

One day I got sick of it all and decided to get a haircut and change my clothes up a bit to look a tad more presentable. Then every morning I woke up, looked in the mirror, and told myself I was awesome.

Don't know why it happened, don't know where it came from, but if I can do it anyone can do it.

Thanks. For some reason.....I think I can relate to most of that. I mean,I guess my social skills have improved since I started talking to new people....but it's still so freaking hard to start the conversation,especially with people that I already know.

I hate this self-doubt

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I'm not gonna read the book you wrote in the OP but my answer to the title is just ask. All she can say is no, the rest is self inflicted. If you need an example: "hey you think we can text?"

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@keenko said:

@cameron83 said:

@keenko said:

I CAME HERE FOR COMIC BOOKS NOT GIRLS

It is called "off topic" though...

Admittedly a fair point.

:)

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@thetruebarryallen said:

@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

noone301995 marked this as the best answer

Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

That works for you because you're attractive. I'm ugly,so it might go like this for me:

"Hey,you seem like a nice person--"

"EW,NO! F^CK OFF!!!"

me:

......Okay,I was only say hi,but m'kay.

lol jk I kid I kid

Self Confidence is your best pal :)

I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago.

Really? Wow. That's actually.....news to me.

I mean,you look like you could be Jesus' attractive successful brother....

Yep - I lacked social skills, self confidence, and a fashion sense.

  • I was awful at talking with anyone, especially girls.
  • I didn't actually kiss a girl until I was a Freshman in College.
  • I never had a "best friend" and nobody considered me their best friend.
  • My hair was so long I was mistaken for a female on several occasions.

One day I got sick of it all and decided to get a haircut and change my clothes up a bit to look a tad more presentable. Then every morning I woke up, looked in the mirror, and told myself I was awesome.

Don't know why it happened, don't know where it came from, but if I can do it anyone can do it.

Thanks. For some reason.....I think I can relate to most of that. I mean,I guess my social skills have improved since I started talking to new people....but it's still so freaking hard to start the conversation,especially with people that I already know.

I hate this self-doubt

Well hey, if you ever need someone to talk to about it feel free to PM me - I'm a pretty chill dude :)

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@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

@cameron83 said:

@thetruebarryallen said:

noone301995 marked this as the best answer

Hey, I really like talking to you and I think you're a cool person. So I was wondering if I could have your number so we could text & whatnot.

That works for you because you're attractive. I'm ugly,so it might go like this for me:

"Hey,you seem like a nice person--"

"EW,NO! F^CK OFF!!!"

me:

......Okay,I was only say hi,but m'kay.

lol jk I kid I kid

Self Confidence is your best pal :)

I didn't have any at all until about 2 years ago.

Really? Wow. That's actually.....news to me.

I mean,you look like you could be Jesus' attractive successful brother....

Yep - I lacked social skills, self confidence, and a fashion sense.

  • I was awful at talking with anyone, especially girls.
  • I didn't actually kiss a girl until I was a Freshman in College.
  • I never had a "best friend" and nobody considered me their best friend.
  • My hair was so long I was mistaken for a female on several occasions.

One day I got sick of it all and decided to get a haircut and change my clothes up a bit to look a tad more presentable. Then every morning I woke up, looked in the mirror, and told myself I was awesome.

Don't know why it happened, don't know where it came from, but if I can do it anyone can do it.

Thanks. For some reason.....I think I can relate to most of that. I mean,I guess my social skills have improved since I started talking to new people....but it's still so freaking hard to start the conversation,especially with people that I already know.

I hate this self-doubt

Well hey, if you ever need someone to talk to about it feel free to PM me - I'm a pretty chill dude :)

Thank you :)

I'll keep that in mind. You always did seem like an awesome dude,too.

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