"Gay Problem" What should i do?

Sorry about bothering you guys with such a heavy topic, but i need some urgent help.

If you guys have seen my other thread "http://www.comicvine.com/forums/off-topic-5/how-to-get-out-of-the-dreaded-friend-zone-1573963/"

You know about my challenge of trying to get an incredibly amazing girl to be my girlfriend. Now the thing i forgot to add in the previous thread is that another friend of mine liked her aswell which caused some sort of competition between the both of us in which i was told that i had the upperhand since she clearly didnt like him.

Anyway just a half an hour ago, i found out that he had a massive argument with one of his best friends (They have been friends for as long as anyone can remember), and that he is actually gay and has been using the fact that he liked the same girl as me as a cover up.

I honestly did not expect this to be such a big thing but his so called "best friend" who we will call "paul" has literally became enraged and removed all kinds of communication between the two.

He messaged me on facebook telling me to choose between him and the other guy who is gay. I was completely stunned by this message because of all the clichéd and strange things i expected him to say, this was not one of them.

Now my friend who is gay is absolutely terrified of what the rest of our group will think and wants to know if i'm still his friend and that i dont think any less of him.

Also paul is the biggest homophobic person if there ever was one, he's asking me to choose sides and if i choose the other guy, him and his friend will leave the group.

Go to MTV, this makes really great reality show drama

Seriously though, "Paul" seems like a d*ck

Paul doesn't seem like a very good friend, do you really want to be friends with him?

Paul sounds like a d*ck, I choose the other guy :p

Friends who can't deal with your friends, are no friends. I'd side with the one guy I can trust to have my back than a pack of thieving wolves who would ditch you in a heartbeat.

Cut your ties with Paul. He's a douchebag anyway.

you don't choose. you have no reason to choose. either stop being your friend, so be it.

Man not sure but when i was in the Navy a had been Captain Mast by Assault, Battery of a Gay dud and gave me 45 days of restriction 45 days of half pay and remove a rank.

What im trying to say if want to use force do it privately.

Not to much. Or just talk to the girl even it become awkward talking to her just tell her your feelings

Its a bit complicated really, i have my own group and i just join theirs once in a while but my gay friend is absolutely terrified right now. He's been having some huge weight loss problems which i never really noticed but just about everyone else did and now he's explaining to me that its because of his stress.

The conversation we are having is on facebook but it seems like he is about to cry because he thinks no one in his group will want to hang out with him anymore.

I just dont know what to do

Any friend who asks you to choose is not a real friend.

This is so juvenile. There's no point in being friends with "Paul."

You sure he's not messin' with you to misdirect you and get the girl making you look stupid.... and gay? Seems like a wicked man's way of behaving to me.

I would cut ties with Paul... but seriously, I wonder if you are over exaggerating Paul's reaction... I mean I see some people not wanting to associate with others because they are Gay or whatever ( happens all the time in RL ) but him becoming enraged ? What is there to be enraged about ? On top of that, Paul could not have been that much of a friend to begin with if he is asking you to choose between your other friend and him just because he came out... n!gga going wonky over a friend who is gay ?

@king_saturn: I wish i was, infact i might be underrating his reaction if anything. When i asked him why it was such a big deal his exact reply was " I F*cking hate gays!", along with a huge bunch of insults about someone who just yesterday was his best friend.

Now he's added me, and the other guy to a conversation and he's threating to add everyone in his friends list just to "expose" him.

Only two tHings you can do witH dealing witH good friends arguing. You eitHer spend your time trying to convince botH of tHem to make amends or you stay completely out of it and do not pick a side.

-ABstract4$$#073-

Make your farewells to Paul

Once he said, He Hates Gays, you should know right off top that's not a real friend... but seriously though... how long has this dude been your friend ? I mean if he has had this type of anger in his system you should have seen other signs of his rather bigoted nature through your time with him...

Your friend should just come out, and get it over with. If they can't accept him for what he is, then they were not his real friends from the start. I know this may seem a bit simplistic, but that's the only advice I can offer you.

@dimitridkatsis: How is he making him act gay?

@eternalslash I think there's a good chance they both f@cking with you. Timing looks suspicious. Keep your mind on the girl and don't bother with either of them. If they ask explanations tell them to cut the cr@p, see what that tells you.

This is only a hard choice if you're an apathetic retard. The fact that you would even have to ask others about choosing between a temperamental bigot, and someone who's going through a legitimately tough time in their life and needs a companion, probably says a lot about you.

@eternalslash: F%ck Paul. Simple as that.

Well, minus the forceful accusations....^ this

Paul doesn't seem like a good person.

It's a con, they gonna turn it around on him calling him a homophobic jacka$$ or a secret gay, don't know how many people are involved but I wouldn't be surprised if they're all in it. Don't you know how some a$$holes act like when they're rejected? Timing looks way to suspicious. When it comes to women some "friends" can be real d!cks.

I thought that aswell, and i really wish it was true but the amount of abuse that paul has just given out is far too much for a joke.

Really i'm not THAT close with paul or the other guy i'm just friends with them. However they themselves have been best friends since what you americans would call kindergarten. Thats why i'm just so surprised at everything.

Right now, the guy just left the conversation and told me he was going to bed because he can't deal with all of this. Its just so stunning, try to picture the closest best friends you've ever seen turning against each other over something like this.

Paul is a douchebag, punish him by choosing your gay friend(not meant in a bad way).

And so you shall rule the universe...with your friend. And live in the glory of their defeat.

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Sorry, im just trying to sound smart, after Pyro owned me.

Don't choose Paul.

If your other friend doesnt have anyone to hang out with, choose him!

Paul is treating both of you like things, he definitely wont be a good friend in the future. Unless some angel comes down and spits some angel healing shit on him.

Forget them both and go wiff the girl

Paul is a d!ck. F**k him.

Tell Paul you're not choosing, and if he doesn't want to be friends with you anymore, so be it. Unless you actually don't want to talk to your gay friend anymore, but that doesn't seem to be the case.

I don't want to sound crude, but it's kind of dumb that you would make a thread about this.

koon-ut-kal-if-fee

Why can't teenagers just fap to Redtube and play Violent Video Games like I did?

@eternalslash: It seems to me that the choice is extremely easy. So easy in fact, that I wonder why you would even need the opinions of others on a website. Paul is human filth. Why would you want to be friends with human filth?

Because there are sooooo many better sites than friggin' Redtube. Also, why did you capitalize "violent video games?'

Pornhub

As far as the Pornhub network goes, I prefer Tube8. Good ol' Porn.com blows them all out of the water though, funnily enough.

Pornmd is a search engine that combines Redtube, Pornhub, and Tube8. It's good to have options. :)

Also Keezmovies, Extremetube, YouPorn, Spankwire, and Xtube. Yeah, Pornmd is fantastic.

I like where this thread has gone.

I find Pornhub to be overratted and often doesn't have the type of videos I like.

Youporn, Porn, XNXX and Xhamster are all superior choices along with Redtube in my opinion........

They even did a redesign that allows you to filter the length of a video, so you can skip those <5min. bullsh*t advertisement clips.

There should be a porn thread.

How did you guys get to porn?

@laflux: not and xvideos fan? It's actual a pretty awesome site but most clips don't stay on very long (because of copyrights and such).

Yeah, it's become really helpful in my...endeavors.

Because it's the the thread we deserve, and the one we need right now.

As I said, porn.com blows them all away.

I'm pretty sure XNXX and XVideos are in fact the same website- I should have clarified. I just liked the layout of XNXX a bit more. In terms of quantity its awesome, and alot of the weirder stuff I enjoy is more prevalent there. However, the layout isn't the best and alot of thier videos do end up being taken down as you said.

Their was a time where XVideos/XNXX was the sole site I visited. I had no internet for 3 months, and my old GT-1550 could only run those sites and Porn to name the big sites. Those were surprisingly happy times though :P

Through the internet.