Does everyone cheat on their boyfriend/girlfriend?

triple7 says:

"Money agruements are the main reason for divorce. And no not everyone cheats."

I agree. My parents argue over financial sh!t also. The only reason why my mom won't divorce my dad is because of me, my brother, and mainly my baby sister...

Static Shock says:

"Vance Astro says:

" Is that sarcasm?"

Sadly, it isn't. People who can't please their partners is the main reason why relationships go bad. If you can't please and cater to your partner, then you can't blame him/her for cheating."

Ok.I was just making sure before I agreed with you.

Static Shock says:

"I have a friend that claims everyone cheats on their boyfriend/girlfriend, and honestly believes this is a fact (despite there being no proof on his account). This is because he cheats on his girlfriend, who is several miles away at another college. I assume he's a bit insecure about this, so he claims everyone does it to hide his guilt. And, I know his girlfriend as well, but she doesn't know, let alone suspect anything. As much as he stresses this, I never agree with him. I think that everyone is capable of cheating, but not everyone cheats. When I say this, he tells me I'm being naive and oblivious... LOL. He says everyone cheats as if it's unconscious decision everyone makes; that everyone just cheats for the hell of it; that everyone lets the idea of cheating think for them. How can this be?I think that everyone is capable of cheating, but not everyone cheats. There are people out there that truly care for their partners enough to stay faithful. And, I can admit, there are times when you can't really tell if your partner is cheating you. Because if they say they aren't, there's a chance they could be lying. But since many people won't come up front about it, it's sometimes best to find out the truth for yourself. And there's nothing wrong with finding out the truth.I honestly feel that there are just as many people that cheat as there are that don't cheat. For those that say yes, there are those that say no. On the idea of it all, it normally depends on the person you're with, but I don't wanna go into detail about it yet... So, do you think everyone cheats, or have you cheated or been cheated on before? "

Your friend thinks because he has no integrity, no one else does. Your friend is wrong. Ask him why he hates his father.

Shatterstar says:

"Your friend thinks because he has no integrity, no one else does. Your friend is wrong. Ask him why he hates his father."

I know he's wrong, and I've told him that many times. But, based on his personality and the way he was brought up, once he has his mind made up, nobody can tell him sh!t. Arguing with him is a battle also. He feels that all of his opinions and assumptions are facts (hence, he thinks everything he says is right, and he literally said this). You can't argue with someone who has this type of mindset. You could even prove him and bring forth something logical, and he'll still argue with you...

Never cheated, nor have I been cheated on. But only because I've only had 6 girlfriends. LOL.

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Not everyone cheats. O_O

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"Not everyone cheats. O_O

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Cosmic Sentinel said:

"Kain Echnida said:

"Anybody know how to quote? I can't seem to quote..."

Quote button on the bottom right."

For me it's underneith a whole lot of crap. I miss the old vine already.

I won't go out with a girl unless I know I'm seeing more people than she is."

"Cosmic Sentinel said:

I won't go out with a girl unless I know I'm seeing more people than she is."

So you don't go out with any girl at all? ;)
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"I'm so alone....

Seriously, I've never seen the need to cheat. Even when distance has been an issue."

id never cheat on my girl not that i have one but if i did id never cheat

It depends on your definition of cheating, in the Bible it says even if you look at another girl/woman (or boy/man) in lust then you are guilty of it. In that case, then yes, EVERYONE cheats. If you use you own personal principle of cheating, then anything goes - Bill, as far as his personal principle is concerned, he REALLY didn't have sexual relations with that woman.

Another thing; personally I don't think you should be having sex with anyone other than your wife or husband, and if you have a boy/girlfriend, you should be able to see other people. That's what I think screws up a lot of relationships. If you only want to be with one person as a boyfriend/girlfriend, then it would come naturally, and if it doesn't and a person wants to see other people then that should be cool too.

Now that whole thing about having sex with only one person at a time is kinda screwy (NPI). You can only have sex with your BF/GF, until you breakup then you can have sex with someone else? That seems like a lot of just convoluted rules. it's like, "I wanna have sex with you, so you can't have sex with anyone else, until I don't want to anymore, then you can sleep with whoever you want." Seems like sugar-coating hypocracy to me.

My girlfriend has the beautiful name ''money''.

Talk about your blast from the past.
And no I would never cheat on my partner.

Nice necrobump lol.

Yeah, your friend is wrong.

Nope

Everyone has a different definition of cheating.

Some consider having a crush or admiring someone else cheating. Some don't. Personally, we can't help but be attracted to other humans even if we're married, etc.

Some consider masturbating about other men or woman cheating.

Some consider having sexual thoughts about others cheating.

It just depends on what you define as cheating. These things should be discussed with your potential partner IMO.

@slimj87d: That's actually a really good point that I was just about to make. Everyone has a different definition.

Mine: Having a relationship that is sexual or mutually agreed to be romantic in nature with someone other than your partner. I haven't cheated (I've toed the line, but have never crossed into cheating territory), and honestly the being cheated on event is really fuzzy and I can't say definitely either way.

No, I'd never cheat on my girlfriend.

This old thread. LOL.

It's been revived with a Phoenix Down!

Well, I don't have to worry about anyone cheating on me!

I've never cheated on a girl...ever.

With the problems i have to get along with people...Cheating will just be a stupid idea

Pfft in my country do that is an habit for almost all, but not for me even if i do sometimes

I've been cheated on and never cheated once. It's loyalty before everything, but these days there doesn't seem to be many who know what loyalty means, that's why you can't trust these hoes. Seriously though cheating is stupid

I'm nothing if not loyal. Never dated anyone, but I wouldn't be caught dead cheating one someone. If I'm not longer infatuated with the person I'm with, I'd break up with them.

Cheating is for scum bags.

Never cheated on anyone and never will. I know this is 6 years old but your friend sounds like a major douchebag and I hope the girl he's cheating on destroys his car.

No, never would either

I cheated back in highschool years, got cheated on as well.. But i was a kid back then so, go figure.. Never done it since i was 18 tho.

What? Out of curiousity; why exactly do you want that she destroys his car? Something that random is something I can't ignore to ask.

Haha I understand. Maybe if she she goes apes**t on his car he'll stop treating women like toys.

I don't why the OP has to say "everyone". That is ridiculous.

Your friend is really insecure about his cheating and knows it's wrong, so he tries to justify his actions by saying everyone cheats. That statement is blatantly false though.

I hate guys like that. They're despicable and should be humiliated. Out of curiousity, are you a woman? BTW, nice avatar. LOL!

No.

The pessimism is real.

I agree! I'm a male at last check. My closest friends are female and a couple of them seem to be attracted to guys like that. It's frustrating.

Lol I JUST noticed that too!!! Triple taked it.

@static_shock:

Cheat on my wife? That sounds like a very expensive, stupid idea.

I know. It's very annoying that girls are actually attracked to guys like that. I'm not blaming them, though.

I really liked your avatar, and I remembered an issue of Jim Lee drawing her, so I just cut away all parts of the picture except for that one. I do like yours more than mine, because it doesn't have ny colors. I tried to do it with Superman. LOL!

Nice talking to you, anyway. :)

This had me dying.

@captain_batman_ftw:

This had me dying.

Hey, it's cheaper to keep her homey!!!^-^

No.

I absolutely hate people that cheat on their girlfriends/wives.