Generalisations are fun!
Getting cheated on is blast!
Not to sound bias but by living in both suburban and urban areas women cheat more by personal experience.
They act more like men,dogs now.
Well this generation anyway.
I got cheated on. I'm done believing in that one woman, one man pipe dream.
The more I talk to men the more I get the "I was cheated on too" response.
Some of these men were married too. I think someone lied and said that men are
the ones that mostly cheat. Women cheat more but they hide the lie better.
What do you say?
I agree and pretty soon you will be like this
@farkam: Women experience a greater deal of emotions. That's not saying men DON'T have the same capacity. It could a cultural thing for men to be trained not to be emotional or to know how to handle it better, which some studies have shown. Sometimes it's a matter of what is socially acceptable (not saying this is right or wrong) like Men not to be as emotional as women or women not to be as sexual as men.
The truth of the matter is, men women ARE equally emotional in general. There are just some things we are more emotional in than others for the most part. Society has a big role in why women are considered to be due to expectations and standards set for them.
Probably equal. Apparently women get caught less as women are better at hiding emotions etc.... than men so its probably about equal its just men get caught more often.
@farkam: Women experience a greater deal of emotions. That's not saying men DON'T have the same capacity. It could a cultural thing for men to be trained not to be emotional or to know how to handle it better, which some studies have shown. Sometimes it's a matter of what is socially acceptable (not saying this is right or wrong) like Men not to be as emotional as women or women not to be as sexual as men.
The truth of the matter is, men women ARE equally emotional in general. There are just some things we are more emotional in than others for the most part. Society has a big role in why women are considered to be due to expectations and standards set for them.
This is tangential to what we were discussing, which was this post;
Small version: Women seem to be made to cheat more: Materialistic-Change your mind quick-More emotionally unstable-Easier to decisive-Can talk your way out anything.
Which is utter nonsense and bullsh*t, which the rest of your posts in this thread are too.
@farkam: That really wasn't suppose to be taken seriously. The only other post I can think of was the size matters one.
The things I mentioned about emotional differences were serious. I just didn't explain why, which was the purpose of my last post.
Im really not trying to be bias or generalize :P.
You're hurting. Making generalisations when hurt is understandable. One silver lining is that you are free of her. Hopefully, anyway. I can make another generalisation and say once a cheater, always a cheater.
Eh, it's probably around 50/50. Give and take a few.
Depends. I there are a number of dudes I know who smash other dude's girls. I don't know very many women having sex with other people's BF's so I'm not sure. I can say that women definitely keep it better hidden.
Generalisations are fun!
You could've just said no, sis. There's no need to kick him.
I can make another generalisation and say once a cheater, always a cheater.
Nope.
@nelomaxwell: That's a kick?
I can make another generalisation and say once a cheater, always a cheater.
Nope.
Nope as in you agree with it or nope as in, not true? Just curious.
I can make another generalisation and say once a cheater, always a cheater.
Nope.
Nope as in you agree with it or nope as in, not true? Just curious.
Nope as in, it's not true.
Lets just cut the bullsh!t, I can't accept that women cheat more then men or thats it's equal. It's encoded in our very DNA to get with as many females as possible, it's just F'n science. It's how the world got populated, it's how life moves on by men getting with as many females they can. That's not to say that every guy out there is unfaithful, but I find it very hard to believe that women cheat more then men or that it's somehow equal. It just isn't possible. Science and nature says otherwise.
I haven't really stayed up on the national stats for these type of things. Based on my own personal life though-- I know two women who are cheating now and one who has talked about it. However I know of no man who is currently cheating--nor are any of them talking about it. Does this mean that women are three times more likely to cheat than men? Not likely. But it does mean that in my world women are more likely to cheat than men.. Just as a sidebar the 2 women I spoke of--are doing it for purely financial reasons--
I cheated on my wife before we were engaged. I moved out for a bit, and we went to a lot of couples counseling. I was a moron, and I have to live with it, but ultimately, I want to fall asleep next to her at the end of the day and wake up with her the next morning. Sex is fun, but love conquers all, mother truckers.
Men and women are all human, and so we all are capable of making similar errors in judgment. If you're questioning your partner's loyalty, deal with it and move on or don't and get out. Anything else is mind games, which are clown shoes.
@nelomaxwell: That's a kick?
Yes followed by a celebratory shmoney dance.
@nelomaxwell: That's a kick?
Yes followed by a celebratory shmoney dance.
Getting hurt sucks. No need for me to make it worse for him, you're right. I didn't mean to come off cruel, but I can see how you think I was. My GIF was only to make him laugh, but fail is fail. Thanks for pointing it out to me.
Sorry, @albusan. I hope you're doing okay, dude. Seriously.
also, some people change the goalposts to cheat then claim it's not cheating, like when bi sexual women say that due to their sexuality they are free to sleep woith women because that gives them things their hetero boyfriends cannot, but if the hetero boyfriend sleeps with another woman, he is "cheating". very common hypocritical bullpuckey in the Bay Area in the 90s.
also, some people change the goalposts to cheat then claim it's not cheating, like when bi sexual women say that due to their sexuality they are free to sleep woith women because that gives them things their hetero boyfriends cannot, but if the hetero boyfriend sleeps with another woman, he is "cheating". very common hypocritical bullpuckey in the Bay Area in the 90s.
I agree.
@nelomaxwell: That's a kick?
Yes followed by a celebratory shmoney dance.
Getting hurt sucks. No need for me to make it worse for him, you're right. I didn't mean to come off cruel, but I can see how you think I was. My GIF was only to make him laugh, but fail is fail. Thanks for pointing it out to me.
Sorry, @albusan. I hope you're doing okay, dude. Seriously.
We're a community here so It's a good thing to make each other feel better. Also I hope if ever I kick someone you'd call me out on it as well. two way street.
"I wasn't cheating. I was exploring my Inner Needs and Enhancing my Chakras according to my therapist. Whom I can tell you is over 21 cm. by the way."
Personally, I have seen seven girls cheat, and one guy. Honestly, they guy easily got the heat of any three of the women, and lost half his friends while the girls had friends that backed them up with it and rationalized it for her.
In my life, I see a lot more girls cheating, and it being a lot more acceptable for some reason.
I'd say men cheat more, from life experience. Men are more likely to cheat on a bae based on how horny they are/how drunk they are/how much they fiending for pussy. Ni**as just be thirsty, break down our inhibitions and put us in a club with hundreds of horny-ass chicas, and we likely to at least get a little hard dancing wit them. Women are more likely to start by cheating emotionally, if they feel they boy ain't engaging enough with them. From there I could see a woman eventually falling for the other guy, but usually only after cheating emotionally first.
A n••ga is more likely to flirt with other hoes, but when a lady cheats, she CHEATS hard.
Also, this is just a supposition on my part, based primarily on my own empirical data :P
TL;DR
Ni**as tryna get laid, and lead wit our dicks
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