Answer this question honestly, when you encounter someone you find attractive, are you nicer to them than to someone you find average looking or unattractive?
I honestly don't know....if I am I don't think it's something that I try to do....I have noticed before that all of the girls that I'm friends with are attractive girls...so maybe I am
I will be honest. I am slightly more nice to attractive people. I don't treat unattractive people poorly, but not as nicely. I don't do it on purpose. At my job while I work the counter, I flirt and pretend to (but not really) do extra curteous acts for cute females out of habit and sexual attraction. I mean, don't blame me; blame biology. I'm instinctively looking for a mate to win over, so I'll peacock a bit. (I know what you're thinking...how is this guy still desperately single?). In all seriousness, its just science. Humans like aesthetic appeal, (usually) from the opposite sex, and a naturally will attempt to appear favorably in an encounter with said memeber of the opposite sex. I do try to avoid doing so, however. Especially if there is no prospect of a reward. KnightRise, everyone: one step buffalo above during mating season.
Bizarre sociological experiments performed on me as a child mean that I think all people are about as attractive as each other, and I try to treat all people nicely, but I do tend to be bias towards nice people and intelligent people or people who aren't nice because its a cover for their true niceness which is buried deep inside them after something sad happened to them. Those three things tend to cover everyone. The only people I aren't really nice to are the willfully ignorant or people who are smart but still exploit other people for purely selfish reasons. If they are naturally ignorant or exploiting other people for the sake of other people I am not as not nice towards. Unless they have a sad origin story like the Ice King, Magneto, Emma Frost or Lemongrab.
TBH I dont single any one person out. Everyone is equal. Who cares if I see a hot girl? If she treats me like sh!t, thats how she gets treated from me. Goes for everyone for that matter.
Not really. I treat everybody politely (unless they really made me go for it) and I'm not the guy who gets charmed by looks. If I get treated like hell by a "good-looking person", I don't think being kinder to them would be an effective method of doing anything, in general.
I treat men and women differently. I don't want to and never used to, but because everyone else does and they aren't ashamed of it, I do too.
I don't want to think of men and women as two separate species, but we may as well be. So, I've given up and now I look at most women as conquests or not, while I look at men in a "are you going to get in my way or not" sort of way.
Really don't want to think like this, but got no choice. It's hard to look at most people with a bit more compassion when you know women are mostly judging you and men are mostly sizing you up.
Answer this question honestly, when you encounter someone you find attractive, are you nicer to them than to someone you find average looking or unattractive?
If you want honesty, I'm obviously going to be nicer to a good looking girl who I'm trying to get with than most other people, but besides that no, I'm not nicer to either.
I treat everyone the same; HOWEVER, I get happier, inside, when I talk to someone attractive. I am not saying talking to someone unattractive bums me out. It usually changes nothing. But talking to someone good looking makes my day a little brighter.
I think I'm meaner to good looking people cause I automatically jump the gun and judge them as douches (men)
Women on the hand... I don't think Im nicer persay... I don't normally get on with them as friends but Im not mean to them? Not sure that looks matter.. Unless Im trying to pick them up.. Then Im real, real nice. XD
I think I'm meaner to good looking people cause I automatically jump the gun and judge them as douches (men)
Women on the hand... I don't think Im nicer persay... I don't normally get on with them as friends but Im not mean to them? Not sure that looks matter.. Unless Im trying to pick them up.. Then Im real, real nice. XD
No. In fact I'm usually meaner. The nicer looking people tend to be annoying, stupid, jerks, or a combination of the three. So I tend to be ruder. Sometimes even because I want to lower their self-esteem because they think to highly of themselves or to give the lowlier people a shot with them.
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