@dragonborn_ct said:
Thank you for not dismissing my concerns. Its not uncommon for both users and moderators to consider dissident opinions as out-of-place whining and I was genuinely expecting a "deal with it" response from other moderators.
Well, it has being quite a long time this happened, and like I said to Deranged_Midget, I won't give any specific names, but lets say for the sake of argument I keep a friend on a private message. S/he tells me they have being harassed by a troll for quite some time and while s/he did notify a mod about, the mod said that nothing could have being done. With it, I decided to notify another different moderator, and according to him, he gave a warning to the troll to back it off, something the first moderator could have done without problem. Then in the off-topic board, a specific troll made some inappropriate threads countless times, and while all of them were locked, he didn't apparently receive any warning and he got away with making five to seven threads. He has apparently disappeared for now, I am not sure, but if he was banned or not. But still he should think twice before posting any of those threads.
No worries, I think all users should be given opportunity to voice there concerns and dissent, CV should be a relaxed mellow place most especially for sincere people who are just being honest. I am sure everyone that knows you is aware you are sincere and sincerely care bout this site's users and whats best for them too.
Talking about matters in the past can be a bit difficult, just because I don't know details, it involves multiple users it sounds like. My best recommendation would be that users contact multiple moderators when it comes to problems. if there are moderators they trust and or know well then they can utilize them but otherwise message 5 or 6 moderators at a time, a cross selection and or utilize the PM all moderators feature. A moderator may make a mistake or overlook something accidentally or misunderstand context so having more of them involved can help ensure better results. Also if a user doesn't agree with a situation or still feels uncomfortable, they should be encouraged to follow up with any moderator or a new moderator just to express concerns. The important thing here though is to not play moderators off each other out of frustration. If the incident you are speaking of still bothers yourself or your friend on any level, I encourage you to create a group PM and include myself and a few other moderators and just talk about what's bothering you and we can see if there is anything we can do to alleviate that worry or concern. Sometimes trolls can chance upon an opportune time to strike and create several troll threads unfortunately, its probable the user you are referring to was banned based on your description.
Its not always just parents either, I'd figure a lot of users come to CV because they want a place thats not - I don't know, 4 Chan? I don't know that site at all so apologies if its reputation is exaggerated, I have used a few other comic websites in my time, some have been a bit more relaxed about rules than CV and posters arguments were more aggressive and employed more vitriolic rhetoric others have been a lot more stricter, and didn't even allow filtered/censored swearing. Oh and it might just be possible that your idea of what these rules are trying to restrict and enforce might not be exactly the same idea as a moderator who has to shift through a flag que as well, thats a possibility right? When I was a user I hardly saw any aggressive users, when I did it was more of a weekly thing, some random user with no profile picture going on a massive racist or sexist tirade. As a moderator though I get to see the seedy underbelly of this site and incidents can be daily occurrences. In the grand scheme of things, a few curse words on a gif ain't that big a deal but rules in their nature have to try and equalize a setting for all its users. Potentially some users at this site could use all manner of swear words, ethnic and racial slurs in an intelligent or harmless manner but a lot more posters can't. Many posters also can't tell the difference in context when plying certain concepts, so rules that seem black and white are required but then again others can know situations can arise that require more discretion.
It was a long time ago, probably some of the posters that defended them/protested for them just didn't know and or believed their side of the story after the fact. Unfortunately people can also lie, exaggerate, or just present skewered versions of what happened, sometimes intentionally sometimes unintentionally. At the same time I have lost two friends who left this site of their own accord in situations I thought proper moderator intervention would have prevented that. Also some situations were users were forced to leave that to my understanding were unfortunate and could have been prevented. No one was really to blame, just timing was off, some misunderstandings, some uncertainty about how to deal with the or a situation with all parties involved.
Oh yeah the recent site updates are frustrating, I can empathize, honestly my personality type, the way I react to change is… not so good. I prefer consistency so when the site changed its format I would actually get minor headaches using it, it was visually disorientating to me. I use love wiki editing but had to give it up for a few months. Also one of my best friends accounts were hacked recently, and just in general I do not like site updates. I still miss my epic wall and how we could see wall posts from the very first one, and the image gallery. I wanted a numbered ordered gallery back heh heh. CV can be frustrating place sometimes heh heh but I don't think there are actual people we can blame, maybe some people a little, i know the tech people do an incredible job when they were forced to try and get this site back up and running after the change over, and that they do a lot for how small they are and issues the face. Other than that its really just a part of life, sometimes things will get frustrating and one has to cope as best they can and focus on the good. Oh hey, the main reason I am actually at CV is similar too, its users and people, and my friends.
Remember again about sending that PM later on as well regrading that incident you allude to if its still bothering you or your friend. Thanks.
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