I personally don't think so. I think she wants him to be her father however, to validate her bitterness at the hard life she led. Dark Victory goes into length with Selina explaining that she searched everywhere for clues and found nothing and yet she was still convinced. 
That tells me that, being a flawed person like every other. Catwoman wants a prestigious father for her own self-esteem

Of course, I have to ask you, why would she choice someone like the Roman (who is dead...isn't he?) when there are so many eligible (living) people out there if she doesn't know who her father is? Wouldn't she chose someone else if she didn't have an inkling about who might be her father. I mean she could have chosen any person from Joe Chill to Rupert Thorne, but what are the chances that The Roman's former wife had a baby with black hair and it was just dropped off in Gotham. Coincidence?

I thought that He had a child with his wife and he had to give her away because of what Don Verinni person thought about him as it was a girl, i want to say. (or so says The Blond in Catwoman Wehn in Rome).