I seem to be the only person confused by Batman #14. As far as I knew, Joker knew who Batman was prior to New 52 and I assumed that carried over. I also find there to be no suspense in the issue. All of the characters listed at the end who's identities are in jeopardy have a continuous series-- which means obviously their identities won't be outed or the individual story-lines would be wrecked. I felt that the end was cheap and set up what I expect to be a low action, predictable arc. The only overly redeeming moments are from non-batman tie-ins. Especially at the end of Nightwing #14, when Raya is approached by the Joker. This gives me some hope that Joker does actually know that Dick is Nightwing, which means that maybe the Batman arc will still impress me.
Personally, I think the issue should have ended with Joker showing Batman Alfred's dead body. That would fit well with the new Joker, give the Batman comic family some new history, and shake things up quite a bit.
Don't get me wrong, I worship Snyder and love his work, I'm just trying to think things through.