@PsychoKnights said:
@ApatheticAvenger said:
1) A very good point. WE AGREE ON SOMETHING! MADNESS!
2) Cheers.
3) No, being told something is wrong isn't persecution, but having people regularly attempt to dehumanize you and deny you your civil liberties is. Marriage is a word, one that has existed before many modern religious and civil institutions, and I see little harm in "redefining" it to mean the union of any two consenting adults regardless of gender.
Perhaps it's using a loose definition to say that not being able to donate blood is persecution, but it's nonetheless bigoted and utterly asinine when the AIDS scare involving homosexuals is a thing of the past.
Anyone who is willing and capable of serving in our armed forces should allowed to, period.
Glad to see you have no problem with gay adoption (there is an overabundance of kids in need of a loving home these days). I'm surprised you would make the effort to oppose the promotion of homosexuality if it's so low on your priorities. It would be like me suddenly deciding I needed to vehemently oppose any promotion of the now irrelevant Herman Cain. :P
You're best friend is bisexual and yet you oppose the promotion of homosexuality as something positive? Strange. People do have the right to be dicks, but if it's illegal to fire someone on the grounds of race, gender, or religion, it should also be illegal to fire someone based on sexual orientation.
Yes, yes it does.
1. Crazy. (grins)
3A. Civil liberties is commonly used to mean "anything I want." What exactly do civil liberties mean to you? Marriage, as recognized by the state, is an incentive given to promote families in the belief that families are good. It has nothing to do with freedom (liberty). Homosexuals are perfectly free to spend their lives together already. Rather, homosexuals are denied the incentives given to straight couples because society has not yet decided to promote homosexual relationships. Marriage, to my knowledge, has always meant only one thing. If we need to set up some new program to give homosexuals some of the benefits we discussed before, so be it, but there is no reason to change the meaning of a word. If you change words too much, they begin to lose their meaning.
3B. I'm not sure what you are calling the AIDS scare. AIDS does spread faster through the homosexual community, and it did wipe out a lot of homosexuals in the eighties. However, I thought you could test for Aids in blood, so yeah, I don't know why the donations would be blocked. Seems strange. Regardless though, this is a medical issue not a government issue, right? I admit my knowledge on this whole point is fuzzy.
3C. Sure.
4D. (chuckles) I see your point on the Herman Cain comment. As I said at some point (it may have been in a different discussion), I mostly chose to talk on this issue because there were almost no voices showing the perspective of the other side. Though most people seem incapable of having an intellectual conversation on divisive issues these days, I think the reason for this is that we have made politics a forbidden topic, and most Americans have not trained themselves to analyze their beliefs and back up their views. It seems the best way to combat this shortcoming is to try to promote more civil discussions by engaging people. Also, these discussions pass the time when there is nothing to do at work. (grins)
On the gay adoption issue, remember, I said I would be for it if it is clearly demonstrated that homosexual families are as good for children as straight families (or single parent homes for that matter). We can certainly agree that there are a lot of kids out there that need homes, and I suspect that a gay home would be better than what they are getting in the foster system. (frowns)
4E. My best friend is my best friend. I love him. I might disagree with his homosexuality, but so what? I'm sure he thinks many things I do are stupid too. We talk about it with each other, and occasionally even debate, but it is just one aspect of his life. It's not the only thing I see about him. My friendship with homosexuals is actually one of the things that makes me think homosexuality is bad. For most of his life, Matthew, my best friend, was miserable because of his desires. He felt they were bad and wrong (and no, I did not add to those feelings. He knows where I stand, but it would be a dick move to harass him on it). Recently, he seems to have come to peace with his homosexuality. Another homosexual I know pretty well...is pretty sad actually. He's always felt bad and guilty about his homosexuality, and he has never come to peace with it. He's frequently been self-destructive in relationships. I've often heard homosexuals say that they would choose to be straight if they could. Doesn't seem like a great lifestyle to me.
I'm a Libertarian which means I think the government should butt out of most things. The federal government certainly has no rights to impose restrictions on who can be fired from a job, but of course the federal government ignored the constitution and passed laws about it anyway. Hence, you can't fire (or hire) somebody for being Asian, or Christian, or hermaphrodite, but as far as I'm concerned, people should be allowed to fire and hire whoever they choose. If a business want to only hire redheaded, black, Hindu males, I believe they should have that right. Would people use this freedom to be dicks and make racist and sexist decisions? Sure, some would, but most wouldn't. Let's say a place wants to hire only whites. Would you shot from that store? I doubt it, and I wouldn't either. They'd probably go out of business quickly, but if they did survive, then they'd consist of a small clientele of racists. Lots of stores would still serve people of all colors, and the racist dicks are now easily identified. No big.
4F I don't understand why hospitals haven't just changed their policies. It should be an easy fix.
I understand the reasoning behind the federal support of the institution of marriage, but in a the modern world where "family" is no longer defined as a stereotypical mother, father, and kids, I see little reason to keep homosexual couples from the same rights. They want to be married, and they're being denied. If it's a case of a specific church not wishing to marry gay couples, they shouldn't be forced too (and that means something from a died in the wool atheist like me), but plenty of churches would happily marry them. I also understand that changing words can cause them to lose some of their meaning, but honestly, changing marriage to mean "the binding of two loving adults in a partnership of life" isn't too much of a stretch from it just being a man and a woman. It's not as if the absurd argument that it'll lead to men marrying goats has any weight.
When I was referring the the "AIDS scare" I was referring to the outdated concept that AIDS was strictly a homosexual disease. It did spread rather quickly through the gay community, mostly due to unprotected sex (which, let's be honest, gay man at the time had no reason to use because they can't get pregnant). When sexually transmitted disease prevention became more widely promoted, people got their act together. Now, the average person who contracts HIV is actually a young, straight male (at least that was the last statistic I read). But yes, AIDS and HIV can clearly be identified through blood and as can things such as anemia so it shouldn't be an issue at all.
Studies have actually found that most gay families are perfectly healthy, no more dysfunctional than a family with a male and female parent together or a single parent.
My best friend, who was also my high school sweetheart, identifies herself as pansexual. She is primarily attracted to women, I was one of the lucky guys who caught her eye. She has had to deal with a lot of turmoil in her life, not because she isn't comfortable with her sexuality (she REALLY is), but because her PARENTS aren't comfortable with her sexuality. Her mother has been more and more accepting, but her father remains a roadblock. I find this with a lot of my gay friends, that they're only struggle with the sexuality is other people's acceptance of them. I've seen parents disown their children, remove them from their homes, and church leaders deny them a place among their congregation (how VERY Christian of them). It's heartbreaking, and not until they get out on their own do they realize that there's nothing wrong with them, there's something wrong with the people who turned their backs on them. I just refuse to be one of those people. I'm sure there are homosexuals who wish they could have been born straight, it would have made life a lot easier. It's further proof (as if we needed any more) that homosexuality is not a choice. Who would choose to be gay in a world where so many people look down upon you? The solution is accepting who you are, and accepting that there's nothing wrong with you. You're gay, live your life and bollocks to those who tell you that you're less for being born different (starting to sound like a pro-mutant activist :P).
I was a libertarian myself for the longest time, but I ultimately lost faith in it's tenets. I simply couldn't stand behind certain aspects of there not being a strong federal government. So many hard-working and honest people depend on their government to assist them in their daily lives, and the bad apples who abuse the system shouldn't spoil it for everyone else. I've essentially become more and more socialist as I grow older, a rather angry and cynical liberal. Both sides of the fence just anger me regularly. Democrats have no spines, Republicans have no decency, it's all one big corrupt and self-serving mess. Colbert and Stewart keep me entertained on the nonsense though, so I can't complain about it all. My bud, a Special Forces vet who runs the veterans group on our college campus, often talks politics with me. Unlike a lot of the other vets I meet, he's a staunch liberal. His biggest gripe is that people in the U.S. would rather throw a fit about welfare and social security, and yet the countries he's been too are filled with constant warfare and strife. We've got it made, and yet we take it for granted every damn day.
It defends on the state I believe, though I believe there may be a federal law coming into effect that would guarantee spousal visiting rights regardless of gender.
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